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焯嵐媽咪


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發表於 05-10-11 22:01 |只看該作者

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Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

dudu19812002

你老公無做嘢幾耐呀?越拖得耐個人就越難適應呢個社會!
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發表於 05-10-11 22:36 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

er......都係直接d, 希望你不會介意。
找社工幫手申請公屋給自已及兩個小朋友, 暫時拿綜援, 等小朋友大d再出去做工, 不要對這種自私, 心情差就拿小孩子出氣的男人再抱任何希望了。
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24#
發表於 05-10-12 00:01 |只看該作者

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maybe ur husband dunno how to express lei , dun unhappy la , be happy ..

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發表於 05-10-12 12:35 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

講真要搵7仟有幾難呀..你話想搵過萬就話ja,問題係佢根本就係懶..唔想去搵工,佢有心搵又點會訓到咁晏呀,有好工都請晒人啦,而你叫佢搵工佢就話你多事就更加有問題啦,咩叫多事呀..哩個家大家都有份架,唔通你唔可以出聲咩 最重要係以家有兩個小朋友要食飯架,正所謂大既唔食細既都要食啦,你既然講話兩個都唔係意外..咁即係大家都一早知道生得佢地出..就要有責任比兩餐溫飽佢地啦
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發表於 05-10-13 16:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

我今日都有同我老公傾,不過又係傾唔成!我剛才同佢講,我想將來搬左上新屋,我地可以有商有量咁,我唔想好似依家咁要咁唔開心~我想屋企開開心心咁!咁佢話睇下點,睇下我乖唔乖,我問佢:你對我有什麼不滿,不如講出來,唔好收收埋埋!佢就又話我慈母多敗兒,又話我攪小朋友唔得,話我控制唔到個女,咁我話:你想我好似你咁打個女呀?佢話總之我個教法唔得,又話我個教法唔得又唔接受其他人教法!咁我話:你係咪想個女成日俾我地倆個打,生活係打既日子當中!我只係叫你唔好用腳踢個女,唔好太大力打個女啫!!(佢前日好大力咁打左個女一巴,個女之前同我喊住咁講隻眼好痛),我都會打個女,不過唔會好似你打到佢咁囉!我唔想個女驚左個屋企,就算你打都要諗下佢個心理&控制下自己情緒囉!咁佢就悔氣咁話,咁你用你自己個教法教囉,不過將來個女唔受控制唔好話我喎!咁我又話佢:將來有好多野唔知道,不過我覺得我地生得個女出,咁就應該盡力一齊佢教好佢,唔係推俾我一個人教,你要企下係個女角度諗下,如果你阿媽以前唔只剩係用手打你,用埋腳,你會好開心咩?咁佢黑面咁又唔出聲!咁我問佢係咪好唔like我講呢個話題,佢話我野蠻!用哂自己個做法要佢跟我,我話我冇,我只係攞出來分析,得大家有共識!佢話我冇咁做!咁我話:我好聲好氣同你講你已經話我野蠻,發爐鬚!咁我大聲d你咪話我搵交鬧囉!佢話我鍾意點講就點講!咁我話:你成日都話我個人冇要求,咁我今次只係要求你唔好咁大力打個女&用腳踢個女啫!佢話用腳踢又唔係好大力,咁我話:都係踢啫,都影響個女心理!!我話我同你結左婚咁耐都冇要求你幫我做下家務,要求你點!我都冇怨言啦!你話叫我攪掂個家庭,咁我攪!我一次過攪,你又叫我拉長攪,唔需要咁辛苦,但你又話我攪唔掂,又睇唔過眼,咁我只有一對手做咋,仲以為我係未有小朋友前咩?你又唔like攪!!咁佢又話我總之我攪唔掂個家,佢睇唔過眼,要我攪掂佢!咁我話你都好矛盾啫!!咁我話你依家總之想我點,睇下我做唔做到你要求!咁佢仲依然話叫我自己攪掂哂個家既野,咁佢唔需要理!咁我真係問佢:咁我真係做左你呢個要求,咁你在家做什麼呀?佢又唔出聲!佢過左一陣又話要個家唔嘈既!我話好難,屋企有小朋友就好難唔嘈,而且個女既脾氣明知道似你啦!咁佢話總之唔好攪起佢把火,我話你個準則係點先!佢話個女唔嘈,佢唔發火!咁我話你有脾氣,其他人都有啫,成個家只可以你發脾氣?你知道個女脾氣咁大,所以我地咪要一齊教好佢囉!佢就又話我覺得自己教法好,叫我自己教啦!咁我話算啦!唔好講個女,好似我依家同你講野你都唔like,咁我老公又話係呀!咁我真係好嬲,開始大聲講,咁算!一係你咁冇耐性既,又唔like湊小朋友,你就唔好要我生佢地啦!咁你咁唔like佢地嘈,毒啞哂佢地囉!咁連我都毒啞埋!咪一了百了囉!佢唔出聲!我話:你都成日話我嘈!當初同我結婚又話like我個人開心,多野講,一d都唔似你咁,可以俾你歡樂,依家話我嘈!佢又唔出聲~咁我叫極佢,佢都唔應我!咁我諗左一陣,我話:一係我搬去朋友度住一陣,咁你咪可以靜囉!佢又話冇用!咁我咪話:咁一係唔好一齊啦!咁你以後咪有得靜囉!之後叫極佢都唔出聲!我咪同佢講,呢個係最好既方法,以後唔會嘈到你,兩個女就跟我!咁你自己一個人就可以靜,佢冇立即答我,我咪等左佢一陣,同佢再講:你考慮下,今晚先答我
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發表於 05-10-13 16:27 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

dudu，

你花心機寫左咁大篇，可以feel到你傾訴無門嘅感覺。我一路睇，一路戥你肉赤，睇住兩個女俾爸爸打都出唔到聲，你唔做幫兇仲要俾老公話你唔識教，搞到d女唔受佢控制。喂！人黎架，你估機器咩，要受佢控制！我諗你老公要做下心理輔導先得喇，你不如同老公去見下社工丫，長此落去唔掂喎。
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28#
發表於 05-10-13 17:04 |只看該作者

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其實咁o既環境..應該唔好生第二個...個男人已經冇野做..可以話冇晒尊嚴....只會煩上加煩.... :-|
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29#
發表於 05-10-13 17:18 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

我覺得你講咩都係晒氣, 對牛彈琴, 不如留番啖氣暖下肚好過啦.

一個咁不思進取, 自以為是, 唔識為人設想既男人, 唔要都罷啦.

你咁辛苦去為左頭家, 到頭來得到既係咩? 你仲後生, 諗下自己之後果幾廿年仲係跟住個咁既男人, 會有幸福咩? 我淨係知係死路一條囉.

(如果唔岩聽, 請你當我無講過啦)

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發表於 05-10-13 17:29 |只看該作者

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thymama 寫道:
dudu，

你花心機寫左咁大篇，可以feel到你傾訴無門嘅感覺。我一路睇，一路戥你肉赤，睇住兩個女俾爸爸打都出唔到聲，你唔做幫兇仲要俾老公話你唔識教，搞到d女唔受佢控制。喂！人黎架，你估機器咩，要受佢控制！我諗你老公要做下心理輔導先得喇，你不如同老公去見下社工丫，長此落去唔掂喎。
在你把我帶回家之前，請記得，我的壽命約有10~15年；你的離棄，會是我最大的痛苦.
當我要捱過最辛苦的歷程時，請千萬不要說：「我不忍心看他。」或者「讓我不在場時才發生。」
只要有你和我在一起，所有的事都會變得簡單容易接受。請你永遠不要忘記，我愛你。
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發表於 05-10-13 18:38 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

哇~~佢以為自己係皇帝呀？想屋企開開心心!
要睇下老婆乖唔乖？？？？

小朋友太曳，打係無可厚非，不過點解要兜巴星，
同用腳踢呢？？而家打賊仔咩！！！

佢仲要用D咁態度對妳，我記得早兩個月前，妳曾
經好唔開心咁話，唔知生唔生第二個小朋友……。
仲話妳老公一唔鍾意就黑面，唔睬妳同個女……。

當時大家都已感到妳老公離晒譜，但始終寧教人打
仔，莫教人分妻~~但到了今時今日，大隻壘壘，有
手有腳，後生遙遙……竟然叫老婆去申請綜緩，都
唔去搵野做？？？仲要連家務都唔幫手？？？湊細
路又唔肯？？？妳都仲好聲好氣同佢講？？？

究竟妳有無病呀？？？呢D唔係叫做男人！！應叫
人渣！！！(好激氣，妳唔好嬲我咁講)

妳快D走啦~~出面個天好大架！妳又靚女！點解
要俾個咁既人拖累妳和小朋友一世呢？？？

大把人幫妳呀！唔好怕得自己一個面對！大家支持妳！
如有需要可PM我！我可以幫既，我一定幫妳~~

快走啦~~~
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發表於 05-10-13 18:43 |只看該作者

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臭吉妈咪:

你好直接ah!!!

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在你把我帶回家之前，請記得，我的壽命約有10~15年；你的離棄，會是我最大的痛苦.
當我要捱過最辛苦的歷程時，請千萬不要說：「我不忍心看他。」或者「讓我不在場時才發生。」
只要有你和我在一起，所有的事都會變得簡單容易接受。請你永遠不要忘記，我愛你。
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meialo 寫道:
臭吉妈咪:

你好直接ah!!!

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係好鬼直接至真。
在你把我帶回家之前，請記得，我的壽命約有10~15年；你的離棄，會是我最大的痛苦.
當你打我時請記得，我其實擁有可以咬碎你手骨的尖銳牙齒，我只是選擇不咬。
當我要捱過最辛苦的歷程時，請千萬不要說：「我不忍心看他。」或者「讓我不在場時才發生。」
只要有你和我在一起，所有的事都會變得簡單容易接受。請你永遠不要忘記，我愛你。
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august19


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34#
發表於 05-10-13 22:55 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

你老公本身都"其身不正", 憑乜野黎教好個女????
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發表於 05-10-13 23:37 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

講得粗魯啲, 叫你老公去食屎、去死啦, 社會敗類, 垃圾 ,正一烏龜王百蛋.
你應該立即執包袱走人, 重等佢回覆, 再唔走, 喺怕你三母女有危險.
我覺得你講得好好, 好溫和, 比起我, 我一定講唔出, 我還會一走了知.
我一定支持你
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發表於 05-10-14 00:17 |只看該作者

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[quote]
李吳知道 寫道:
索性搬番媽咪度暫住, 臨走前同佢講：『你自己好好諗清楚, 係咪想咁樣過埋下半世, 如果係, 呢種生活唔岩我同兩個女!!!』叫佢想清想楚, 想傾時先好搵你!

如果佢真係可以唔再搵你, 呢啲男人唔洗恨啦~~~
very 同意
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37#
發表於 05-10-14 00:17 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

咁0既環境...真係要咬實牙關靠自己!!你都唔好指望老公點樣喇..棧自己激心!!如果係我我一定搵份工..安排好兩個囡比人湊(幼兒園/育嬰院)..最緊要經濟獨立...做好榜樣比兩個囡睇!嫁錯唔緊要...!最緊要自己企得番起身...唔好錯落去...加油!!支持你
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發表於 05-10-14 02:29 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

While I have no objection to parent's exerting physical punishment on kids, if necessary, I cannot accept punishment by 'kicking' them as this gone too far. I think you should seriously warn your hubby that should he kick your daughter again you will report the case to the police.

Since it is possible that you might divorce your hubby sooner or later, you must not take a job for the time being but to take good care of your children. This is of utmost important if it is your intention to get their custody on divorce.

The reason is that the court likes to maintain the status quo of the children (that is, there should be no change to their daily life, or if change is inevitable, it should be of minimum), which is regarded as being to the best interest of the children. If you are a full time housewife and mother taking good care of your children before the divorce, there is no chance at all for your hubby to get their custody even if he tries hard to fight for it, still less to say that the court is generally of the view that a mother is the more suitable person to bring up the children save and except the father is in an exceptionally strong position because of his educational background or otherwise that it is more advantageous for the kids to follow him.

As I am given to understand from you that you or your hubby will soon be allocated with public housing, you don't have to worry about your accomodation after divorce if you obtain the custody of your children.

It is the policy of the Housing Department that the party who has custody of the children will get the tenancy. Accordingly, if you have custody of your children, the tenancy will be transferred to you notwithstanding that your hubby is the tenant; and he will be evicted. You don't need to worry about his accomodation either, as it is also the policy of the department that it will render nobody homeless. Temporary housing will be arranged to your hubby when he is evicted and suffers from financial hardship that he is unable to find his own accommodation. He will be allowed to stay there until another public housing is offered to him.

After you have got the custody of your kids and eveything having been settled down, you may then look for a job and to start your new life!

Finally, I wish to remind you to apply for the nominal maintenance of $1 per annum from your hubby on divorce though he is unemployed at the moment. This $1 is important in the sense that it retains the court's jurisdiction to vary the amount from time to time on your application unless you marry again. This is to safeguard your interest that, for example, if your hubby wins a Mark Six or is successful and becomes rich in future, you can apply to the court for an order to increase the amount of maintenance fee to be paid to you. If you don't ask for this nominal maintenance order during the divorce proceedings, there is nothing for the court to vary in future. In this connection, please note that the court has no power to make subsequent maintenace order once the divorce proceedings are completed.

Having said that, you are also warned that with this nominal maintenace order in the air, it is, theoretically, also possible for your hubby to apply to the court to vary the order that you are to pay him maintenance (though the chance of success may not be high) if you have become successful and rich in future and while he is penniless. It is regretful that this is the result of 'equality' that women have fought with success.
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39#
發表於 05-10-14 14:09 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

唉... 我同妳係識嘅, 但係我宜家都唔知講咩好啦! 前嗰排妳
老公都幾好o家! 宜家又...
都係嗰句啦! 叫妳老公快啲搵嘢做, 咁佢就會變都唔定! 如果
佢再係咁懶落去, 妳就真係有排受... 我宜家都去搵嘢做啦!
妳有咩唔開心, 記住打電話比我呀~ 我實撐妳o家!
係呢, 妳老公答咗妳個問題未呀?
2個寶貝~雅詠&灝泯
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40#
發表於 05-10-14 14:59 |只看該作者

Re: 我覺得我老公變左~

妳老公唔做野,成日係屋企做乜架?
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