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發表於 05-11-2 13:53 |只看該作者

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yeah. The property is myself only. Since he is a 被動, 內向, I am afraid that he will leave alone himself & no more contact me. That is the result of both of us.
I want to do something to keep in touch of us

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發表於 05-11-2 13:55 |只看該作者

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發表於 05-11-2 13:57 |只看該作者

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我覺得你唔可以無止境咁等佢回心轉意, 起碼你應該set個buttom line比自己, 佢幾時唔返黎你就疊埋心水攪離婚好過啦

你要做既係首先set target比自己然後sms佢通知聲便可, 其他的無野好做, 你仲愛唔等同於你可以無止境咁寵壞佢, 嘜你真係接受到一個男人在外邊玩厭左呢一個後回你身邊, 之後又遇到第二時重蹈覆切咁做重覆既事咩

好好地諗清楚自己想點先啦, 感覺呢家野係你自己先最清楚無人可以幫到你的, 我相信你真係想等到自己人老珠黃時, 就係佢真正鳥倦支既時候啩. 因為佢同你同齡, 到時佢人又老錢又無 (不過錢不留都無)

無咁既魄力同魅力時咪會返你身邊囉 :cry:

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發表於 05-11-2 13:58 |只看該作者

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我覺得你唔可以無止境咁等佢回心轉意, 起碼你應該set個buttom line比自己, 佢幾時唔返黎你就疊埋心水攪離婚好過啦

無咁既魄力同魅力時咪會返你身邊囉 :cry: :tongue:

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catlaw

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發表於 05-11-2 14:02 |只看該作者

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人係自私的動物, 如果唔係有更好的出路, 係唔會唔返屋企的. 如果話係街上流連, 最多一兩晚. 好明顯, 佢是在某人屋企過夜.

不過, 是否離婚又是別一回事, 有d人可以好盲目. 能白頭到老的, 當中一定經歷 / 包容了很多.

**但這是要雙方付出的, 你想佢唔想, 你又可以點 ?!**

:-(

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cutiewife

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發表於 05-11-2 14:04 |只看該作者

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My friend has a similar case:

My friend (he is a man) earned less than his wife. He has a 2nd wife in China. One day, he told his wife that he is not love her any more and want to divorce. Although his wife was very sad, she still prepared a lawyer and asked my friend to get his 2/3 monthly salary as 善養費.

In the first week, my friend back to his mother house. Then, he found that he didn't has enough money for 生活 and his 2nd wife. Because the 2nd wife always ask him to buy new mobile phone, PALM and laptop. He found that he cannot afford it. One day, he back to his wife house. Nothing to say and just sleep (It seems nothing happened). Then, his wife permitted him to back but he should separate with the 2nd wife.

Now, they have not divorce. Still together...

ahahaaron,
If you still love your husband, change the door lock to the old one and wait for him back.

But you need to understand that the chance of his return is only half. You don't expect too much on it. Otherwise, you feel very sad and disappoint if he will not back.

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發表於 05-11-2 14:07 |只看該作者

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你呢個都好似好貼題同可以作為一個借鏡

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StrawberryBB

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發表於 05-11-2 14:19 |只看該作者

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為何女人總要萬般地去忍受男人,還要等男人鳥倦枝還,當沒事發生過呢?現代女性不應再這樣了 :-(

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發表於 05-11-2 14:20 |只看該作者

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唔係個個女人可以好似我地咁, 咁硬正架嘛

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發表於 05-11-2 14:23 |只看該作者

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Yeah, every night I back to home & force the 4 walls, see all the thing he buy to me. our marriage photo, everything let me cry when I am upset & down

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StrawberryBB

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發表於 05-11-2 14:23 |只看該作者

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咁又係！各位努力呀！

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talkative

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發表於 05-11-2 14:43 |只看該作者

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cutiewife

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發表於 05-11-2 14:46 |只看該作者

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為何女人總要萬般地去忍受男人 -> Because 女人 love 男人 very very much. She can forgive and accept 男人's all the bad things.

After my friend story, other friends (male) commented that 女人愛面子所以當沒事發生過. If they really divorce, how the wife explain such 沒面子 story to her relatives.

I don't agree with it. Because I really can feel that the wife love my friend very very much. Additionally, she doesn't want to be lonely in her rest of life. Although, there is a break between them and she know her husband is not really love her.

StrawberryBB 寫道:
為何女人總要萬般地去忍受男人,還要等男人鳥倦枝還,當沒事發生過呢?現代女性不應再這樣了 :-(

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發表於 05-11-2 14:48 |只看該作者

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其實我係你就唔會喊啦, 返到屋企對住d野全部都係自己錢買既唔係應該仲有歸屬咁多d咩, 你話係佢比錢買既而又唔响屋企就話傷心啫 ?-(

ahahaaron 寫道:
Yeah, every night I back to home & force the 4 walls, see all the thing he buy to me. our marriage photo, everything let me cry when I am upset & down

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發表於 05-11-2 15:10 |只看該作者

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It is because it is our home, not only value of the thing we buy, just like the cabinet is decide by him. How the cabinet to locate where. The main point is that I live alone & no body sleep next to you. It is the feeling concern. I need to have a doll which he buy me to sleep now. Many of the doll he buy me since some kind of the doll I like it very much. Everything is select from both of us. The home is set up from both of us, not only count the money

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發表於 05-11-2 15:20 |只看該作者

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my heart is missing a part of it. (my husband part which he fulfil it in full before). Now it have incomplete, so when I do everything, I can't enjoy completely. I have learn tennis, play squarsh, many sport I exercise with my friends. But when I just get to work to take MTR, the feeling & my mind can't stop the thinking, just like 行屍走肉, Everyday I need to have 深呼吸 to make my heart more 舒服

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LILY媽咪

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發表於 05-11-2 15:29 |只看該作者

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明白,真的睹物思人,如你真的還喜歡佢,唔介意佢曾經離棄你,只有等佢回來,如日子難過又唔開心,去下旅行放鬆下.

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