If you don't support me, that is fine...please don't use this "GOOD STORY" TO HURT ME!!
You think I made up a story??? For what???
But all my post is true.. maybe you think that is GOOD?!
I am already get too much hurt!
If you doubt about it, you can leave your phone no. to me. I can talk with you directly.
I really don't want to create any argument with you.. I hope you will think about it, if your husband did/does the same things to you! What is your feelings? What will you do?
Or maybe you think that is so GOOD for you! your husband dumped you and has sex with another women?!
Maybe you live in a happy marriage, but it isn't the same in every couples.
While you said any word ... Well think about it, if this also happens in your marriage. What you can do? Before you clap your hands. I hope you also think about another people feelings!
Don't worry! stay calm! May be I can give you some advice.
Do you have any concrete evidence showing that the guy has an affair w your maid? Please remember adultery is a serious allegation. If you don't have sufficient evidence, it's better not to use adultery as the ground for divorce though it may be helpful when you are asking for custody.
If you want to fight for the custody of the child, can you get a doctor certificate showing that you are fully recovered? Further, the social welfare report is critical. You must convince the social worker that you are the suitable one to take care of the child. If you are not well prepared at this moment, don't commence the proceedings now. Wait, Don't be hurry! Try to gather more evidence which is advantageous to you.
Remember, try to see your child as frequent as you can. Why? (1) to show that you really love her (2) don't let her forget you.
If you are prepared to ask for the maintenance, try to get more information about his financial position. However, if you are well off than him, please make your own arrangement first. He also has right to claim against you.