i was thinking the same qs when my daughter was born....until now my Baby is almost 2 yrs old and i think i have an answer.. if i don't win the lottery.. i won't have my 2nd one... as looking after my baby is killing me...i don't have my life..looking after her & doing the housework is my "life" for my holiday...that means i don't have a holiday for almost 2 yrs...i am not 30 yrs yet but i look older than my sister (who is 32 yrs) :-( :-(
Now one 13-mth-old girl and 3-mth pregnant. Same, agreed 2-kid policy: better sharing, learning and character development. No problem if they're girls, boys or girl+boy, just they're healthy & happy.
if i don't have to work, i don't mind having 6 kids...however as i'm a working mother, max is 3-4 children. sometimes i feel a bit guilty that i can't be with them all the times. i can only tell myself to spend quality time with my 3 kids...