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If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)? [複製鏈接]

milka

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發表於 06-1-18 23:19 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

ucc 寫道:
我有個friend 都係咁比個有婦之"fu"扼咗 :-(

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ucc,
I also heard some case like what u mention!

Might be the lady is too lonely.....

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發表於 06-1-18 23:47 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

Jackyngtm 寫道:

To be straight, I won't unless I am divorced and have kids already. .....

Jacky,
Thanks a lot!

I knew what all u wrote are the "truth" but as I am also a woman I feel it's really "Cruelty" ! :-(
Actually my fds also accepted this & don't mind to have a boyfd who was already divorced but if the guy have kid.....

From all the replys here, I really learned quite a lot (both English & men's thinking), u know , it really can be totally upside from my thinking (oh! my God!)

"Ever in love is at least better than never in love"

U know, me & my fds have the same thinking : " Never been in love is still better than in love with Mr. Wrong"

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Honestly, I can not use the words " Good apearance, good body shape & sexy" to my fds :-|, but I wish they can understand more about their situtation now & try their best to get what they want!

I do believe all the message from all the Bk fds really can help.

Once again, Thank u so much!

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發表於 06-1-19 01:38 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

milka 寫道:
bobocute,
U are female?
Why your fd still don't want to have his own family & kids in this age? (over 30 as I quess) ?-(
Then what he want from a woman? love? only sex? ?-(
If so, single woman nowadays are really very poor! :-( :-(

I am female. Single men I know don't want to get married before 35. He wants family after 36, and kids after 38. So a 30 years old men only wants 25 years old female, and the younger the better.
If I were 35, I think I would target men over 42 divorced with kids.

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發表於 06-1-19 09:33 |只看該作者

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BoBoCute 寫道:
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I am female. Single men I know don't want to get married before 35. He wants family after 36, and kids after 38. So a 30 years old men only wants 25 years old female, and the younger the better.
If I were 35, I think I would target men over 42 divorced with kids.

Bobocute,

Really change a lot if compare with the time I got married (28 yrs old)

Last time the men normally get marry around 30 only.

when a man have their kid at 38 yr old, his son is only 22 yrs old when he reach 60yr ....the kid might be still studing wor, then the man can't retire so early law~!

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發表於 06-1-19 10:35 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

Milka:

Many of my ex-classmates (females) are not married yet (Though they are of similar age with your friends). Most of those who are married now got married within 3-4 years after graduation.
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I think if your friends' target is to have a marriage and then a real family rather then to have a wedding experience (and then maybe breakup or live as married singles), the best strategy is :

RELAX & BE THEMSELVES.

Just imgine if a guy marries a woman because he takes her as another person rather than who she really is......

Having lived for over 30 years, most of one's personality, character, habbits may have become quite "stable". One may ACT differently for a while but what's inside may not be transformed easily.

But after all if yr fds, having taken the BKer's advie, see rooms for their own improvements and are able to have real transformation, it's still a good thing.
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Instead of learning to ACT differently before men, I think one thing they can do is to increase "EXPOSURE" (nothing to do with their clothing

)---be more active socially. A number of my fds who got married later have met their husbands in activities /groups /associations /clubs which the two are both interested in (e.g. sports, social campaigns, hobbies...).

Actively participating such activities is really good for sinlgles. Even if they don't meet their future spouse, they will still find the time/effort spent worthwhile.