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大宅

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發表於 06-1-11 23:12 |只看該作者

If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

Dear guys,
May I ask for the advises & tips from u. Thanks!
Kindly reply honestly as I want to give your advises to my fd & help them how to win the heart from a man.... as they really want to get marry ASAP & have their own bb.I
Both of my fd are :
1) 38 yrs old
2) cannot said pretty at all but looks Ok
3) friendly & have good attitudes...
4) single & w/o boy fd

May I have your comments? will u choose a girl fd in this age? What kind of lady will men normally choose?

Many thanks!


大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 01:24 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

我都識幾個三十歲女仔, 樣唔差, freindly, 健康無不良嗜好, 但好耐都冇男朋友, 我都唔明點解~
我個仔好得意架


男爵府

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發表於 06-1-12 09:52 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

Have they try to be approachable?

Many "male" in this years are too afraid to "eat lemon". So they will try to approach the girls which they think with higher chances to get along with.

Somehow "male" also like to protect their girl firend, not in all aspect, but at least have a feeling that they are protecting the other half in some way.

However, most ladies nowadays are actually doing better than mans, not just mention about income/ education but also emotion, family planning etc.

If your friends really want to increase their chance of having a husband...... Try to show some weak point is also a good choice.

Hope it help.
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民房

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發表於 06-1-12 12:05 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

most of my male friends got married around 30, so it is really difficult for ladies to have nice guys after 30.


大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 12:42 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

mingb & BTB,

Thanks!

BTB,
Do u have any fd who is over 40 yr but not yet marry? Why?

?-(


大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 13:03 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

Simar 寫道:
Have they try to be approachable?

Many "male" in this years are too afraid to "eat lemon". So they will try to approach the girls which they think with higher chances to get along with.

Simar,
Thanks a lot for your tips!
I also never think in that way before, I will suggest this to my fds. Thanks ! Thanks!
One of them is already "try her best to be approachable", can said "quite aggressive" in this 2 years but still....... :-| , the other one was just separated with her boy fd. This one always hide inside her house & she is not aggressive at all!
Actually "single" might not be something "Bad" in nowadays... but they always hope to have their own family.....especially whenever we have gathering (most of us got married already - long time ago! ), they always said :" I really wish to become same like u (have husband & kid! :cry: )." Whenever they said that, they are a little bit upset & they are serious with this.....
We tried to introduce some boys before (go bbq)... but :-( . Might be a lady's appearance is really very important to a man.... as I really feel both of my fds are really a very nice & kind heart ladies! :-( )


民房

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發表於 06-1-12 13:53 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

female? yes, i do know some fd around 40 still not married and they look not bad, but they are all professionals, like lawyers, accountants, civil servant.

milka 寫道:
BTB,
Do u have any fd who is over 40 yr but not yet marry? Why?

?-(


大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 14:20 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

BTB 寫道:
female? yes, i do know some fd around 40 still not married and they look not bad, but they are all professionals, like lawyers, accountants, civil servant.

[quote]
?-(
[/quote]
BTB,
No ar....I mean Male!

Lawyers, accountants.... of course frighten the men!
Rich men might not really consider this is a advantage., poorer one....not dare enough to date them!


大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 16:26 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

When you say they are almost 40 but no b/f, do you mean they have no b/f ever? Or do you mean they just break up?

If they do not have any b/f ever or not for a long time, they might have an attitude problem. What I mean is they might be difficult to deal with, too picky, too conservative, or just too shy. Some might still be hugging on to their good old glorious days. If they had better attitude, they would have already have a relationship.

To be honest, older women are not too popular. I would be very skeptical about what is wrong with her.

I would be more interested in women with a personality, outspoken, and comfortable to be with. She does not have to be very gorgeous but must be well groomed. Men do not want to be seen with a g/f who is very 失禮. She does not have to be very fashionable but better be well presented.

If a man dates an older woman, either he does not expect to have any children or is not really serious about having a long term relationship with this lady.


大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 17:29 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

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大宅

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發表於 06-1-12 17:40 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

junkone,
Thanks for let me understand more about what men's thinking!

One of my fd have no b/f b4 & the other one had one before (8 years younger than her) but now already broke up.

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"I would be more interested in women with a personality, outspoken, and comfortable to be with. She does not have to be very gorgeous but must be well groomed. Men do not want to be seen with a g/f who is very 失禮. She does not have to be very fashionable but better be well presented.



Above mention might be one of the reason why they still not yet have bf! Aiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!

I will forward this to my fds & hope they can understand more & learn from the above!

Just now, I told my fd I asked some "tips" / opinions from some guys who are willing to help her & give her advises.....she was so happy & hope she can really find a "good man" soon!
Thanks!
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發表於 06-1-13 01:34 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

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大宅

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發表於 06-1-13 09:46 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

T&Tdaddy 寫道:
找老婆唔止講外貌, 性格, 共同興趣都好重要, 叫你個兩個friends出去參加多D活動睇下撞唔撞到啦.


Thanks T&T daddy!

I even asked them to go church (might have nice single guys there) , they just said :" I don't like! Later la...!"
I asked them to learn "cooking" as I think their target (40-50yrs old) might want to have a woman who can cook well, u think useful or not?


大宅

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發表於 06-1-13 14:19 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

Another advice for your friends is they have to be quite self confident. Not so much to scare people off but to give people a sense of independence. A man would not expect a single woman at this age to behalf like an immature school girl.

Even they might be very eager to enter into a relationship, always look before they leap. Be open mind but be very cautious at the same time. Some people might have very different intention. Don't let people take advantage of you.


大宅

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發表於 06-1-13 17:35 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

junkone 寫道:

Even they might be very eager to enter into a relationship, always look before they leap. Be open mind but be very cautious at the same time. Some people might have very different intention. Don't let people take advantage of you.


junkone,
Many thanks again for your suggestions!
As I saw what u wrote here, I am sure u are a intelligent & kind person! Thanks!
Above u mention is what me, my husband & my other fds always worry!.... :-|
As one of my fd is consider quite aggressive....sometimes I am quite worry this kind of person will come to her!

All of the messages (from u & the others) were already forward to both of my fds today as per requested. Wish it really can help!


大宅

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發表於 06-1-13 19:27 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

milka,
Thank you for your flattering remarks. Wish your friends good luck!


大宅

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發表於 06-1-18 14:59 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

my male friend told me that he is afraid to date female that are over 30, because he will be forced to get married very soon... and he is also afraid that his wife will be too old to have kids or forced to have kids right after marriage.


民房

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發表於 06-1-18 15:53 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

我有個friend 都係咁比個有婦之"fu"扼咗 :-(


milka 寫道:
[quote]
junkone 寫道:

Even they might be very eager to enter into a relationship, always look before they leap. Be open mind but be very cautious at the same time. Some people might have very different intention. Don't let people take advantage of you.


junkone,
Many thanks again for your suggestions!
As I saw what u wrote here, I am sure u are a intelligent & kind person! Thanks!
Above u mention is what me, my husband & my other fds always worry!.... :-|
As one of my fd is consider quite aggressive....sometimes I am quite worry this kind of person will come to her!

All of the messages (from u & the others) were already forward to both of my fds today as per requested. Wish it really can help! [/quote]


複式洋房

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發表於 06-1-18 21:48 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

will u choose a girl fd in this age? What kind of lady will men normally choose?


To be straight, I won't unless I am divorced and have kids already. Most ordinary men need some incentive to take the first step to date a girl and that incentive is either good apearance or sexy. If her apearance is ordinary, try to be sexy such as showing good body shape.

Without a man taking the first step, her other merits such as good character and cooking skill cannot be known by others.

But I do not support taking a protective approach and afraid of being cheated. There is actually nothing to lose. Ever in love is at least better than never in love. The only way to increase chance is more attempts. Consider men with lower income and education than your friend as well because they are more likely to appreciate your friend than those middle age educated guys, who put more emphasize on age and appearance. Never think of her education and income has any meaning to the latter. This was a mistake of many of my female schoolmates from universities.




大宅

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發表於 06-1-18 23:14 |只看該作者

Re: If u are still single, what kind of lady u will choose (to be your wife)?

BoBoCute 寫道:
my male friend told me that he is afraid to date female that are over 30, because he will be forced to get married very soon... and he is also afraid that his wife will be too old to have kids or forced to have kids right after marriage.

bobocute,
U are female?
Why your fd still don't want to have his own family & kids in this age? (over 30 as I quess) ?-(
Then what he want from a woman? love? only sex? ?-(
If so, single woman nowadays are really very poor! :-( :-(

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