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如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa? [複製鏈接]

kuku

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Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

我唔鐘意喎, 無大無細? 睇佢個人的性格啦! 平時成日無人係屋企啦, 我張sofa兩座位佢日頭坐唔理佢,晚上我同老公係度佢都照坐, 你哋話...

皆因佢抱著我個newborn baby, 以為坐正!我老公當時唔出聲坐麻一邊, 妹仔大個主人婆!

如果佢哋坐麻一齊, 我呢, 去kitchen?????

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Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

totally agree!!!
工人都係人, 會唔會無大無細呢?因人而異啦, 所謂生娘不及養娘大, 如果你對個工人唔好, 而你個b又好鍾意個工人, 你個b同你o既關係就會由始開始差, 即使你換工人, 你個b一樣覺得你"不仁", 何必呢, 只係坐sofa....

JarJarBin 寫道:
I agree that "只要佢做得好及對bb好, 其實又何需要介意佢坐邊度呢" Everybody has mother ma!!! I believe that you treat people nice they may not treat you nice also. But if you treat people bad they must treat you bad. From other point of view, our family is on their hand. Good relationship is very important.

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Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

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Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

我都唔鐘意喎. I only let her sit on sofa when feeding my baby. Now my baby is big enough to hold the bottle by himself and sleep in his own bed, I don't allow her to sit on sofa. There are dining seats out there which she can sit on.

I don't agree that not allowing her to sit on sofa is not "human" or 對工人唔好. I do not request her to stand all day. Would your boss allow you to sit on his chair?

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Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

其實佢有無抱bb或者係咪同bb玩, 我都會比佢坐sofa既, 因為我地兩公婆都覺得無乜所謂, 好多時食完飯佢洗完碗而bb又未訓, 我地都會一齊坐係sofa睇電視, 但係佢就會坐另一張(我屋企有兩張sofa). 但係當bb訓左覺時而佢又未訓就會入房坐睇住bb.

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Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

我個工人返工第三日已經無問我自己坐sofa, 但因為佢當時抱住bb, 我就無出聲, 其實我唔係話唔比佢坐, 不過佢無問我, 我有d唔like囉!

夜晚餵奶掃風, 原本工人係飯枱d檯坐, 但餵餵吓坐咗去sofa, 我老公見到都有唔鍾意, 話晒我地係屋企, 睇唔到就無問題啫.

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發表於 06-2-24 09:48 |只看該作者

Re: 如果工人抱住阿ｂ, 會否比佢坐sofa?

After reading all of your opinion, pls allow me to make a conclusion.

The question is not "do you allow 工人坐 sofa?" The question should be "what is the meaning of sofa in your heart?"

From all of your opinion, some people think that "sofa" is only a seat for people to sit. It is no different from a table, a TV or other furniture at home. But some people has different opinion. They think that "sofa" is symbol of power of a master.

For me, it is only a common furniture. But of course, if I want to sit on it, she has to let me sit first. Like a TV, if I want to see TVB, she cannot to change to her channel. Except above, then she can sit everywhere she wants. I know the back will feel tired when feeding BB. So I will ask her to sit on sofa actively when she is feeding because my bb takes almost 45mins to 1 hr to finish one bottle of milk when he was very baby.

I also have somthings at home that I would not allow her to use. They are my bed, my chopstick and my clothings.