"If they give you black face... tell them you don't like balck face... if they continue... chances are, they don't want this job anymore.
If you don't like your maid.... let her go. why put up with it.... and drive yourself mad.
If I think my child has become人質 .. I would kick her out of my house at once. NO way that my child is going to be a 人質."
Beside, sister, I just 八掛, if I am not wrong, you will soon give birth to yr baby, so 唔好莆得太夜, no good to yr baby. :cry:
Holiday,
hahhhhahahh... So sweet that you remember !
Thanks you... very kind of you....
I didn't 莆... I just couldn't sleep.... I don't know why la..... I'm now 38 weeks... everyday seems like a long day...
but thank you.
Venus426,
I understand your difficulty... you're right.. it's so hard to just fire a maid when you're a working mom... isn't that frustrating....??
but you're definately doing the right thing.. be prepared...
I would be so upset to have someone threaten me all the time and give me black face....
Oh.. I had a "weapon " against my maid ( previous)... see if it works on you or not...
When she did something wrong.. and when I question her... she often ignore me and went about her usual business... and not to answer me.. that drives me nuts.... but finally, I told her... if you don't answer me.. we have no communications and no communication mean no work can be done.... now you go back to your room or go out.. and from this minute on I will not pay you ( becuase you didn't work)... untill you decided to answer me....
she was shocked... and I told her...." just do whatever you like now" as I pull out a paper and pretend to mark down the time and date.. she immediately answer my question...
If your maid give you black face, tell her you don't like it... if she continue.. send her off.... tell her will start her leave now from this minute untill condition improves... untill then, you're deducting the pay... See if it works or not....
As for legality... I don't know whether it's legal or not.. i never have to actually deduct pay (or send her off).
Hee Hee