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Funghei

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發表於 06-3-16 22:20 |只看該作者

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IH ..
我知我不是沒有refuse的我~~點講我推開了他~~但不成功之後佢就cry`了~~我停了~佢只kiss(你們想好嘔心??)了我面一下及month沒了~~之後佢說佢都不知點解會這樣對我~~~ ?-( 佢努力我忘記~~而我亦努力我避開~~ :-( :-(

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onon1022

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發表於 06-3-16 22:22 |只看該作者

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其實佢鍚你...你無推開佢...心理上...你覺得無對你老公唔住...但係身理上呢...站起你老公立場...你已經對佢唔住啦...如果你知道你老公...攬住另一個女人鍚...佢話無對你唔住...你會有咩感覺...好多女人都唔會認同咁既做法...何妨男人最忌呢d...無錯...係工作上...佢係比好多機會同幫到你...但係如果佢係到...有邊個可以控制到唔會發生任何事...人係一種有感情既動物...而感情...唔係話控制就可以控制到...你上司知道你唔會放棄老公...選擇佢...而佢留係到...每一次見到你...佢會感到唔開心...壓力...佢就係等自己仲可以控制到自己既感情離開...你想人地明白你...咁你有無明白人地點諗...人有悲歡離合...離開...只係想大家心入面留個好印象...唔想做破壞人地家庭既人...或者你學下你上司既心胸...酒脫d...

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Funghei

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發表於 06-3-16 22:24 |只看該作者

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IH 寫道:
Sorry I missed your last message. If he would leave, just let him leave. Who know the coming new superior is not a good one. Especially you are a mother, please be calm and don't do anything wrong to the family. It will be very painful to everyone.

我其實沒有作什麼的回應只是有點呆∼∼我沒有叫佢不好走亦沒表示好ｍｉｓｓ　佢∼∼我現在可以說Thanks you for your remind Yes I just let him go then no one in my family or his family get hurt~~~

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Funghei

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發表於 06-3-16 22:29 |只看該作者

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(其實佢鍚你...你無推開佢...心理上...你覺得無對你老公唔住...但係身理上呢...站起你老公立場...你已經對佢唔住啦...如果你知道你老公...攬住另一個女人鍚...佢話無對你唔住...你會有咩感覺...)
我會想死∼∼∼∼∼∼∼ :-( :-( :-( :-( 我哭啦∼∼真的∼∼我明了∼∼對不起∼∼我∼∼
（而佢留係到...每一次見到你...佢會感到唔開心...壓力...佢就係等自己仲可以控制到自己既感情離開...你想人地明白你...咁你有無明白人地點諗...人有悲歡離合...離開...只係想大家心入面留個好印象...唔想做破壞人地家庭既人...或者你學下你上司既心胸...酒脫d...）

我可以點樣面對佢∼∼？？？我好白痴∼對不起 :-( :-(

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Funghei

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發表於 06-3-16 22:34 |只看該作者

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我好痛苦今天我望到佢好不開心我按住自己不問佢∼之前沒發生過那事我會朋友般問他∼
工作上的接觸一句起兩句止∼佢同我說笑我扮聽不到∼ :-( :-(

之前大家我工作氣氛變了∼我知佢感覺到∼而我亦沒有心軟只是好可惜∼∼男女真的不可以單純是朋友？？？ :-( :-(

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發表於 06-3-16 22:46 |只看該作者

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But after the hug's' and kiss, the relationship as good friends or good working partners has been deteriorated.

Funghei 寫道:

之前大家我工作氣氛變了∼我知佢感覺到∼而我亦沒有心軟只是好可惜∼∼男女真的不可以單純是朋友？？？ :-( :-(

:mrgreen:

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發表於 06-3-16 22:49 |只看該作者

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One of the best ways to ignore him is put your concern on other matters like your children's school matters or family trip for the coming holiday. Don't tell me you only think about the work and him!!

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發表於 06-3-16 22:53 |只看該作者

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Yes我明白~我亦只好這樣對他??Right?

人是不是會這樣的呢？？？好好的朋友同事∼要令大家有介蒂∼唉∼∼我都不知我現在的心情是什麼只想快快的忘記∼∼不想令佢令老公不開心∼ｊｕｓｔ　ｌｉｋｅ　ｏｎｏｎ１０２２所說我身理上對了老公不住∼希望在心理上堅持到最後∼∼∼

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發表於 06-3-16 22:57 |只看該作者

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IH 寫道:
One of the best ways to ignore him is put your concern on other matters like your children's school matters or family trip for the coming holiday. Don't tell me you only think about the work and him!!

of course not only him la~~我最最想的是我老公∼是我老公這陣子上早班∼我回家一會佢就睡了∼∼ :-( 星期六佢同我都放假∼∼我會好好珍惜亦想了同佢回９９家∼因他在新年之後都沒回過家了∼∼因為我們不是常可以一起放假的∼
新年到現在才一起放過兩天的假期∼∼

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複式洋房

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發表於 06-3-16 23:14 |只看該作者

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Then if you have made up my mind, that's good.

Just out of curosity, how old are your children? Are they living wz you? Being one of the many busy working mothers, I think there are so many things to deal with, like children's homework, Saturday activites, gossips happened in office, it seems not much spare time to think about realtionship wz superior. So that's why I suggest you to put your attention on other matters instead of keep :-( :-( :-( !!

Goodnight.

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發表於 06-3-16 23:21 |只看該作者

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IH 是的∼我對仔仔好細３及５ｙｅａｒｓ∼他們同我住有印幫忙照顧∼∼

我是理應十分的忙的∼我不好再去想什麼的無聊關係∼∼我眼前的是仔及老公∼ok I will try my best to made up my mind....It 's really hard but I WILL TRY~~~BE STRONG~~~~~ｔｈａｎｋ　ａ　ｌｏｔ

GOOD night `~~

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發表於 06-3-16 23:33 |只看該作者

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你唔識去面對你上司...講真...你上司都唔識點去面對你...佢只係知道...你唔會離開你老公...佢亦都知道自己做錯...所以佢選擇去講笑...當無事發生...等大家都唔好咁唔自在...大家做唔成情人...可以做朋友...其實事情已經發生左...你越去想...越去避...自己咪仲痛苦...但係你唔想諗...個腦自然就會去想...有無諗過三口六面同你上司講出感受...講出大家想做朋友...講唔出...可以寫一封信...話佢係好上司...只想做朋友...單純既友誼...其他既野唔想去諗...或者你同你老公商量下...大家去申請一個長假期...然後簡簡單單去下渡假...或者去下旅行...係呢段時間...唔好再諗任何野...比d空間自己...一日既時間...對住上司既時間係比較長...亂諗野既空間就會增加...放鬆自己...或者一個長假之後...心境會唔同左...比一個空間自己同你上司...冷靜下...係一件好事...喊...煩...係無用架...大家都係成年人...做事唔可以好似小朋友咁...優柔寡斷...試下用心去睇每一件事...明白嘛...

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Funghei

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發表於 06-3-17 11:26 |只看該作者

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Thanks you ONON1022

Yes what you write is what I thought~~I know I 唔想諗...個腦自然就會去想~~

I understood that I need to face I can't be做事唔可以好似小朋友咁...優柔寡斷~yes it is painful ..

同你老公商量下...大家去申請一個長假期...然後簡簡單單去下渡假...或者去下旅行I will do in this way and hope eveything go good~~

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發表於 06-3-17 12:08 |只看該作者

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睇你都係七年之癢, 想尋找少女情懷...

真係越睇越火滾, 做左人亞媽, 個腦都唔知放喺邊度, side氣!!!!

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發表於 06-3-17 13:09 |只看該作者

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Funghei 寫道:

上司要走我心情變得復雜是因為佢真的在工作上幫了我很多亦給了很多的機會我~~唉~~有誰明我的心情??? :-( :-(

好老實講,如果我係你上司又暗戀你既,當然會比多D機會你啦
阿姐,你醒下啦,咁都睇唔出

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發表於 06-3-17 16:45 |只看該作者

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Maybe yr husband made you feel unhappy sometimes. so that, when yr boss " Hug " you.
you don't refuse. in fact, feeling is feeling.
we can't control sometimes.
have a secret lover .( No sex relationship ) !! but , don't break yr family . don't hurt anyone.