disagree with your 62,99 who said Christians shouldn't go to 不同形式的喪禮? what are the reasons behind? "...覺得個孫跟佢姓,就要跟佢地宗教" where does this thing come from? I myself is a Christian, I go to whatever kind of funeral but I don't 裝香和燒衣!
Tell them, it's a closing for everyone. It's an act of respect, an act to show love and care.
I feel uncomfortable with your 62,99's position!!!!!!!!!