這點我不太同意. 我工人以前個日本老闆(非常有錢)常送貴重物品給她(but she did not care and gave it to her daughters to play with and lost almost all),甚至給我打工這四年來都有courier gifts (sometimes jewelleries together with Japanese food) 給她. 她都給我兒分享禮物.我一家食咩,她食咩,但coffee or her favourite philippine snacks從來無用我錢買.我亦從來無同她前僱主比較,大時大節送她禮物只是隨心. 其實要看她本人是否貪心的人.昨晚我問她下一個僱主未必如我般慷慨但她說只要不是underpaid她已滿足,每個家庭也不同,她不會要求.
many bun bun like to have coffee in the morning. when my miad arrived, i aslo asked her because any way, i have to provide her with breakfast. but she prefers ovaltine. so i just keep on buying her this.
i don't know if she takes it everyday but no need to buy a new one pretty often. when it nearly finishes, she never asks but i will find out myself.
My previous bun bun also request me, then I reply her, I no responsible to provide her the coffee, then she said the coffee is for breakfast, I also said I will provide her breakfast not coffee.
Don't give her so good extra, because bun bun like to bargain and they will not satisfied with what you provide her. Just give her when you found her performance is good. At least, Let her to know this is not your responsible to provide them the coffee.
My bun bun worked in HK for 8 years before. I think she will definitely bargain with me for other things. As long as her performance is good, I will accept it. Otherwise, I will fire her. All the things she bargain with me will be put on my record and I will count her performance a month later. Since she worked for me only the first few days, I can't make the decision to fire her so quick.
as long as u have to provide her breakfast like bread, i suggest that u let her choose either coffer or bread lor, telll her only food or drink u will provide.
or give her perhaps $60- each month, let her buy whatever food or drink for her breakfast.
This bun bun keeps on requesting me. Since I diverted all the phone calls to my mobile phone, if her friends call to my residential phone no., all calls are also diverted to my mobile. Last night she said that I didn't trust her co'z I diverted the lines to my mobile. I think she want to request me not to activiate the divert of calls. She is quite 過份。
You can let her know she gots $300 per month only if the employer does not provide meals to her. That means she only has $10 a day for 3 meals. Coffee is too expensive and it is out of Mum's budget. If she wants to drink coffee, please arrange by herself. Meanwhile, tell her not to compare you with her ex-employer anymore. If so, ask her go back to her ex-employer.
I told her already but she gave me black face immediately and with bad attitude. As I don't want to break the relationship at the very beginning, so I promised to give her coffee. I will wait to see whether she has any improvement in the coming future. If I still cannot manage her, I will seriously discuss with her and if she still got no improvement, I will terminate her or let her choose to resign by herself.