Mine too...My husband's behaviour is the same (before got married = become a dad). he never does the housework or take care my baby automatically unless you "ask him to". Sometimes i went out for dinner w my friends & he became" black face" when i came back...so i had a fight w him "told him that I need my private time also...(basically I take care of my baby after work).. he then understood.. of course i go out may be twice a month w my friends..Last Easter we had a"cold war" i took my baby to my dad's place to stay over night..cus' he does nothing, he spent most of the time on bed or on-line .. i was too angry & was thinking to get a divorce.. cus' i felt better if he was not around....i could raise up my child by myself...but my child couldn't sleep well & cried her eyes out that nite.. i think she had a nightmare..i didn't want to hurt my child.. therefore i wrote a long long letter to him..telling him my thinking & what i expect...On Sunday late nite we went home.. & he pretended nothing happen...so i shown the letter to him & went for shower.. until now we didn't discuss about the letter or didn't talk about why we ran away...BUT i know he understood wht i meant.. cus' his behaviour is better & he helps taking care of my baby.. Wht i say here is all the men could be the same.. "Low sensitive about others' feeling".. Women needs to remind them somehow.. but not too much.. otherwises they feel us are so troublesome
Wht i say here is all the men could be the same.. "Low sensitive about others' feeling".. Women needs to remind them somehow.. but not too much.. otherwises they feel us are so troublesome 
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