lsl,
my mother also died suddenly last month. i didn't get to say goodbye to her. when i arrived in the hospital she was unconcious. she died after a week. lung cancer. the very fast type. no signs before. only some coughing. i still miss her very much. my mother was only 55 years old.
i myself am a christian so i don't think death is such a tragic issue. there's life and there's death. but i don't know if my mother had accepted Jesus so i'm worried about where she is now.
add oil.