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lanlanmami


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21#
發表於 06-5-2 10:06 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

sorry呀各位媽咪, 我尋日成日都同c6冷戰所以上唔到黎....

我尋日c6講我堅持要炒個印印, 佢就話你自己攪點佢啦, 到我問晒人諗住要點安排既時候, 佢就彈左我一句:
c6:"你冷靜d啦, 不如俾多d時大家相處啦"
我: "你唔怕佢傷害你個仔咩, 佢話整親個仔係意外喎"
c6: "個個工人都有機會整親佢架啦, 你點知新請返黎咯個好唔好架"
我: "咁你即係唔想炒佢啦"
c6: "唔好煩啦"

我即刻無野講, 無同c6講野成日, 佢都堅持唔炒囉..(可能因為佢覺得個工人湊得個仔OK, 我地試過有一次同個仔行街, 側邊d c9講左一句話, 嘩你湊得個仔好好喎..跟住個c6話..係你湊咩, 個工人湊之嘛...)

我而家真係好唔開心, 又要俾個工人串, 又唔可以鬧佢又驚個佢對個仔唔好, 又唔可以同c6講費事佢係個工人面前嘈,一陣俾個工人知阿sir唔想炒佢我仲死.....個仔呢2日仲要有少少發低燒... :-(

唯有我時不時打返去俾個工人睇下個仔點啦...
:-( :-( :-( :-(
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lanlanmami


大宅

積分: 1842

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22#
發表於 06-5-2 10:14 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

dear yenho,

Sorry to hear that...希望你個仔早日康復, 同多謝你既reply呀...!!

你幫我湊就唔好喇(我意思係唔好意思攪到你:-P ) 不過你住係邊頭架, 住得近就可以同個仔出黎玩下啦!!

lanlanmami
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mylulu007


伯爵府

積分: 15536


23#
發表於 06-5-2 10:32 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami,

其實個工人當初同妳/妳老公sign contract? 如果係妳我話, 妳咪自已攪換工人ge事lor, 唔通真係有人貪得意鍾意換工人ge咩? 如果佢想唔換工人, 得, 同妳老公講叫佢唔好返工, o係屋企睇住個工人做野lor, 如果唔係, 妳點放心返工?

男人係咁架, 最怕就係變, 如果煩到佢, 佢就唔like. 妳出得正價, 仲要受佢氣? no way!
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jhoyyhk


大宅

積分: 1446


24#
發表於 06-5-2 10:47 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...
:wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: ~~Jamie * Katie~~
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Natma


複式洋房

積分: 460


25#
發表於 06-5-2 10:54 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami,

I had a very similar experience. In late January, I fired my first maid (a yan) who took care of my boy since birth till 1 year. Then a bun came. She totally had no idea on how to take care of a baby. I took 2 weeks' leave and taught her who to do it (i lost 6 pounds in that 2 weeks!!). Then I returned to work and asked my mom to stay at my house round the clock. Unluckily, bad thing finally happened. My baby's face, tummy and thigh were burnt by boiling buttons. So I fired her immediately.

While I don't want to go into details here now, I just want to share with you that placing a maid who doesn't really love your baby, or is careless enough to hurt your baby is like putting a bomb next to your baby. Especially that you have already showed your discontent -- you two's relationship has actually been hurt!! I really suggest you to fire your maid immediately. If any bad things happened to your baby, it will be a regret for the rest of your life! For me, I hire a local baby-sitter, while waiting for the coming of my new maid.
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esmehouse


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26#
發表於 06-5-2 11:04 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

一定要炒呀，佢講到所有野都唔關佢事咁，教佢都晒氣呀
我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too！
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.
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FA8866


公爵府

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27#
發表於 06-5-2 11:56 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

我都同意mylulu007所講,如果係用您同佢sign contract,您就自己搞.您出正價,而佢咁既態度,真係睬佢都傻. 您老公話唔知請另一個好唔好,您咪同佢講,咁您又知一定衰過呢個?依家呢個以經咁差態度,有咩事走鬼左去點算呀?
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zhumama


洋房

積分: 183


28#
發表於 06-5-2 14:07 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

我建議您屋企一定要裝cam, 捉到個工人對你的仔疏忽照顧, 分分鐘可以吾晒補錢
其實裝cam令你都安心D

吾晒裝定一度,得閑換下都得
8-) Zhu mama
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Joshua媽


大宅

積分: 4483


29#
發表於 06-5-2 14:28 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami,

sorry to hear your sad story... I totally understand what you feel coz I've fired my first maid and now my second maid is also very

Could you tell (PM) me which agent u're using? (so that I can 'blacklist' in my list for my next maid.
吾家三隻小豬樂融融 ;-)  ;-)  ;-)
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catcatmom


男爵府

積分: 7405


30#
發表於 06-5-2 14:52 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

d印印ｅ＋好差，比起幾年前差好多，朋友話係ｓｉｎｇａｐｏｒｅ既印印係有老人家先至用，佢地覺得印印係低級，文化水準低，比賓賓少ｄ工資（政府定既），之前有個印印打死太太，用火消埋佢間屋，消死埋大仔。係星好大件事。
所以有小朋友既SINGAPORE家庭都唔用印印，覺得佢唔識英文。印印係信AH lA，小菲係CATHOLIC,印印衰起上來，可以好衰，我之前係用印，ｅ＋係小菲啦！
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yenho


子爵府

積分: 10816


31#
發表於 06-5-2 16:08 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

banyantree,

我個囝現在2歲啦, 呢件事發生之後我都有係bk 講亦有black list 個工人. 不過, 件事對我係好大'音'影, 亦令我以後都唔敢再請工人. 而個囝隻腳就以後都會有一大達疤痕....

lanlanmami,

我住香港仔的. 如果住得近, 你可以帶bb過來我家玩呀~
你亦唔好同你老公嘈得太利害, 因為你都唔可以保証下一個工人會比呢個好.
我叫祉延, 係2004年4月18日出世啦~~2004年8月10日, 我第一次識反身啦!! 2004年12月25日, 我識坐啦!!2005年9月1日, 我有16 隻牙啦!!
18/4/04 2.675kgs 29/7/04 5.5 kgs 61cm23/1/05 9.55 kgs 70 cm28/3/05 10 kgs 72 cm6/5/05 10 kgs 74 cm26/10/05 11.1 kgs 79 cm
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lanlanmami


大宅

積分: 1842

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32#
發表於 06-5-2 17:28 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

mylulu007 / FA8866,
個contract係我老公sign架,屋企有咩事都係個c6話事, 可能係咁個工人就唔係咁怕我囉..... :-(

yenho,
多謝你呀. 我而家明白為人parents係咁擔心喇. 個c6好大脾氣, 咯晚我鬧個工人咯陣佢竟然行埋黎叫我停, 我唔理佢佢就好大力咁"pund"埋對門, 唉...係個工人面前咁樣, 係人都知我地為佢鬧交啦...所以個工人係度我就唔敢出聲喇....我今日返工咁耐個心就驚咁耐...個c6話無咩事就算啦, 除非第日佢再整親個仔, 我同佢講到整親就太late, 佢又鬧話"你係唔係擔保下一個一定好d丫? 唔好咁又點呀"...

事到如今, 睇黎我都係要忍個印印, touchwood我唔洗係度再講佢hurt我個仔啦．．．． :-( :-( :-(
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芝達


男爵府

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33#
發表於 06-5-2 17:30 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

聽見yenho囝囝的事件，真的令人感到驚訝及難過，咁細就要捱苦…點解
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lanlanmami


大宅

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34#
發表於 06-5-2 17:39 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

Joshua媽,

please check PM.

唔好用呢個agent呀, 佢地真係好似我個maid咁衰架...!!!
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FA8866


公爵府

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35#
發表於 06-5-2 17:41 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami ,
您老公用咁唔合作既態度,我明白您都好難做.可唔可以試下裝cam,一個係廳,但個鏡頭可去到BB同工人間房門口,一個係廚房.但您記住一定要比工人知您裝cam.
如您工人在房對bb有任何傷害,您錄影到佢同bb出房門時,個bb有事,一樣可以告佢,而廚房是可監察佢有無在食物度有動作.您明白我的意思嗎?
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clementwife


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36#
發表於 06-5-2 18:19 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

LANLANMAMI: DON'T DO THINGS THAT YOU'LL REGRET. IF YR MAID HURT YR SON ONCE, YOU CAN RELY HER ANYMORE! IF YOU ARE FINACIALLY OKAY, PLS USE DAILY KID CENTER TO TAKE CARE YR BABY. IF YR HUSBAND NEEDS U TO BEAR RESPONSIBILITY AFTER CHANGED THE MAID, THIS IS THE BEST CHOICE.......................DON'T MAKE YOURSELF RECRET...........YR BABY IS INNOCENT!!!!!!!!!!1
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sanlap


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37#
發表於 06-5-2 18:20 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

Dear lanlanmami,

十分替你膽心呢! 可唔可以call o下勞工處, 睇o下你可以點做呀?
至於你老公, 係咪唔煩到佢, 你就可以全權抄or 請工人先? 係咪叫佢一封授權書 (事關依家張contract 係佢名, 所以呢樣係至少你要有o既), 之後咩都唔洗佢理, 你自己攪掂o羅!
你個印係咪年紀細d, 而且自己無小朋友o架?

有機會再請工人時留意:
1. 一定要local, 咁會快同埋你有機會試工
2. 留意佢衣著, 太靚就要小心, 如果係著回教服o既, 通常都會乖d, 傳統d
3. 年紀最好係 30 以上, 自己有小朋友o既
4. 一定一定要有前僱主資料, 如果唔肯比, 你都心中有數. 如果係全新, 唔好請. 打電話都要小心, 小心d agent 自己做馬. 你可以問o下有d 咩佢最唔like 個工人, 實有o架喎, 無就有d 問題啦!

呢d 都係朋友教, 同埋自己家o下都請緊人, 好小心, 好小心, 話晒放個人入屋喎! 寧願慢d 都唔好做錯o野.

另外, 希望你囝囝快d 好返!
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vic-wing


男爵府

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38#
發表於 06-5-3 03:05 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

我覺得你留個衰工人

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mylulu007


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39#
發表於 06-5-3 09:45 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami,

我真係唔明妳老公乜野心態, 我講緊係請工人ge正確心態.

如果好似佢咁ge態度, 好老實講, 妳轉幾多個工人都唔會有好結果. 因為妳地已經犯左好大ge原則:

1/ 意見分歧, 重要俾個工人知道
2/ 漠視工人表現, 容忍佢自把自為
3/ 無危機感
4/ 怕煩
5/ 忘記了請工人的原因 (如果主要係睇囝, 個工人做唔到我仲要佢黎做乜?)

由於以上1-5, 可以引致更加多的問題, 如果妳而家唔可以抖正上述1-5, 我建議妳搵扥兒湊好過.
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FloliMom


大宅

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40#
發表於 06-5-3 10:47 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami 寫道:
FA8866,

我屋企無裝cam呀, 因為bb係同佢一間房, 換pampus餵奶都係係佢間房度做晒, 我又唔可以係佢間房地裝cam架嘛... :-(

我試過叫佢唔好係房換(等我可以係其他地方裝cam) 但過左2日我個仔即刻凍親發燒, 嚇到我即刻叫佢係房做返晒...

lanlanmami：
我BB同工人都係同一間房，係可以裝cam
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