I had my son on 34, 開刀, I also want to have one more child as I think they can have discussion when grown up. But ... I am36 now, I dont know whether I can have any energy to take care one more child ...
Also, I want to know whether I need to 開刀 for the second child as I do not want to 開刀 anymore.
I have my first kid when I were 33, she is now 2+ year old. I "want" to have the 2nd one (reasons as same as you all).
However, I quited from my last job and took rest of 5 months. I used quite a lot of my saving for this 5 months break. And need to take time to accumulate "back". But, after have a kid, the saving speed is much lesser than the past (salary to maid, education, ... etc)
Besides, for the first 2 years of a new employment, it will not be good to pregnant. But, if going to have the 2nd one 2 years later, I will be 35+2+1=38 years old. It may be too old la.
Today, I have a chat with my ex-boss. She urged me to think serious to have the 2nd one ASAP. She said she regret of not have her 2nd one. When I said it's not good for pregnancy within the first 2 yrs for new employment. She said, do it after 1 year employment, then have the baby's delivery in the second year.
While my hubby, he is 55/45 for have the 2nd one. reasons: (1) financial concerns (2) time & physical condition concerns (3) his age concerns - his is now 41 already.
Agree sunshine0613 to give birth for the 2nd one on your 2nd year of employment. The new born baby sure will bring you and your 1st child lots of fun.
Actually, I think adult age, children age are not the problem, the only problem is financial.
2 of my cousin, they gave birth on last 3x and 4x, their 1st child, they are all very healthy and lovely.
my friends kids are 8 years old and a new born , another friends kids are 7 years old and 1 years old. I saw their elder kids love their younger brother and sister very much.
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