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大宅

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21#
發表於 13-4-13 15:41 |只看該作者
回覆 Superman-GF 的帖子

我D朋友....一半以上都變晒, 好奇怪....!! 其實我都部署離開香港, 但呢個部署, 暫時得個"講"字


大宅

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22#
發表於 13-4-13 15:46 |只看該作者
回覆 kitwithkid 的帖子

我無咩心得, 只係明白因材施教這個道理.


子爵府

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23#
發表於 13-4-13 15:50 |只看該作者
當年我也想讓兒子4歲才入讀,但全家人都反對,要過這一關是很難的。


大宅

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24#
發表於 13-4-13 15:50 |只看該作者
回覆 Twins-Baby 的帖子

因材施教, 不急他人所急, 讓小孩按部就班的學習和成長, 在香港實在是難能可貴!


珍珠宮

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親子王國15週年勳章


25#
發表於 13-4-13 15:50 |只看該作者
香港社會其實病得唔輕


水晶宮

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26#
發表於 13-4-13 15:52 |只看該作者

回覆:究竟,我們是為了甚麼才讓孩子們上幼稚園的?

其實筆者講出好多點都係我既心聲,無奈大抽獎真係講彩數,我住果區仲有村校,專收巴籍學童果種,早兩年有朋友既小孩唔好彩派左入去,揸住兩梳蕉去叩門,先發現冇兩張cert看門口連in既機會都冇,最後佢三跪九叩,後備之中既後備,比佢搵到間普通屋村小學,已經要還神,我都好希望小朋友無壓力下愉快學習,奈何冇能力移民


大宅

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27#
發表於 13-4-13 16:02 |只看該作者

引用:其實筆者講出好多點都係我既心聲,無奈大抽

原帖由 momoakira 於 13-04-13 發表
其實筆者講出好多點都係我既心聲,無奈大抽獎真係講彩數,我住果區仲有村校,專收巴籍學童果種, ...
超級同意所以我先至覺得好無奈。唔想迫個仔咁細個就學呢樣嗰樣,但係又怕大抽奬唔好彩,抽到間好差嘅學校,先發現冇讀呢樣嗰樣,想面試都唔俾,到時就會好自責,怪自己點解唔幫個仔做好準備,真係好矛盾。




男爵府

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趣教勳章 有「營」勳章 wyeth冷知識勳章 畀面勳章 BK Milk勳章


28#
發表於 13-4-13 16:20 |只看該作者
kitwithkid 發表於 13-4-13 09:28
對於幼稚園的教學內容,我相信不同的媽媽會有不同的看法。我只是想用表達我的看法。歡迎大家理性討論。:fun ...
I totally agree with the writer. Maybe my thinking is more Westernized, I find the educational system in Hong Kong rather unbelievable.
The first few years of life are supposed to be enjoyable, spending time with parents, explore their surroundings, develop interest in learning through play and creative activities.
Children don't understanding what primary schools and higher educations are all about, and don't understand why learning have to be so stressful. They don't understand the difference between 'good brand' and 'no brand'.

Our educational system is too focused on 'brands', 'reputations', and 'scores'.
Just because it's 'branded' does it mean it's the best for the child?
Kindergarten is only the beginning of education - education is not a short 100 meter race, it is a 1000 km or longer marathon.
Just because someone has a good start, doesn't mean they will end up winning the race.
How do we define 'success in life'? Being a doctor or lawyer, or a professor?

I don't mean to say it's all wrong sending children to top schools and pushing them harder to perform well.
But I have seen too many sad stories about children who ended up with depression, personality problems, etc.

It is funny how we are told that very early education is ABSOLUTELY essential for a child's social skills. Nowadays many children go to school as early as 6 months.

But why are seeing more and more children with very poor manners and social skills. Is there something wrong?


男爵府

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29#
發表於 13-4-13 16:24 |只看該作者
I personally don't think interview is the best way of selecting very young children.
If the purpose of education is to 'nurture', then they should be more welcoming to different types of children rather than 'picking only the top'.

Please correct me if I am wrong - are top K' always better??
Is it because they have already pre-selected "TOP" children, so that they will always produce 'top scorers'? Or is it because the parents who can get their children into top schools are more likely to 'push' their children harder?


禁止訪問

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30#
發表於 13-4-13 17:00 |只看該作者

回覆:究竟,我們是為了甚麼才讓孩子們上幼稚園的?

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子爵府

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31#
發表於 13-4-13 17:01 |只看該作者
有時都會諗,咁細個人仔,做咩要迫佢做咁多嘢呢?
但係一同人share呢種諗法,唔係俾人話冇錢(同個小朋友報興趣班),
就係話我冇腦,唔早早為小朋友打算,第日入唔到大學你就後悔…
唉…
其實我真係buy小朋友要有快樂童年,讀書求學問不應該迫,
番幼稚園只望仔仔學多些同人相處…

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slimmum  每個人諗法唔同, 有些人好BUY商業的"課餘活動"  發表於 13-4-16 14:07


大宅

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32#
發表於 13-4-13 17:16 |只看該作者
回覆 kitwithkid 的帖子

因為我小時係填式下學習, 到大個先可以嚐到學習的樂趣...真係唔想下一代只係讀讀讀....


伯爵府

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33#
發表於 13-4-13 17:22 |只看該作者

引用:細女18個月考N1 老師:望小朋友係學校學到

原帖由 hopefaith 於 13-04-13 發表
細女18個月考N1
老師:望小朋友係學校學到乜?
我:自理能力
自理能力係家長責任,咁答變左責任拋左比學校〜學校實唔鐘意~



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kitwithkid  但好似montessori既學校,小朋友真係學自理架喎!  發表於 13-4-13 21:27
kitwithkid  原來係咁!  發表於 13-4-13 21:27


禁止訪問

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34#
發表於 13-4-13 17:24 |只看該作者

回覆:究竟,我們是為了甚麼才讓孩子們上幼稚園的?

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伯爵府

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35#
發表於 13-4-13 17:27 |只看該作者

引用:我都係甘諗,但個社會令我覺得自己有問題

原帖由 jodylulu 於 13-04-13 發表
我都係甘諗,但個社會令我覺得自己有問題
你係啱,但係中國人社會行不通。因為我地有十幾億人,咩資源都要爭爭爭。外國整個社會結構,資源分配不同,不能直接比較。




禁止訪問

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36#
發表於 13-4-13 17:34 |只看該作者

引用:Quote:原帖由+hopefaith+於+13-04-13+發表

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珊瑚宮

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37#
發表於 13-4-13 17:36 |只看該作者

引用:Quote:原帖由+hopefaith+於+13-04-13+發表

原帖由 cheese08 於 13-04-13 發表
自理能力係家長責任,咁答變左責任拋左比學校〜學校實唔鐘意~
Agree,因為太多家長,把孩子生活自理交俾學校,上到小學,要求俾個媽/工人中午去餵飯




伯爵府

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38#
發表於 13-4-13 17:38 |只看該作者

引用:Quote:原帖由+cheese08+於+13-04-13+發表自

原帖由 wonderlulu 於 13-04-13 發表
Agree,因為太多家長,把孩子生活自理交俾學校,上到小學,要求俾個媽/工人中午去餵飯



...
餵飯唔係呀嘛




珊瑚宮

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39#
發表於 13-4-13 17:48 |只看該作者

引用:學習群體生活,學校是社會縮影,學下守規矩

原帖由 Gerard 於 13-04-13 發表
學習群體生活,學校是社會縮影,學下守規矩,同小朋友相處
Yes. That is the :idea::idea:. In HK, you can\'t found a fully functioned, healthy neighborhood. At least, in kinder, a child knows there are other princes and princesses around, and they have to tolerate each other.




珊瑚宮

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40#
發表於 13-4-13 17:50 |只看該作者

引用:Quote:原帖由+wonderlulu+於+13-04-13+發表

原帖由 cheese08 於 13-04-13 發表
餵飯唔係呀嘛
Yes。學校俾一個月Adj。




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