carmen_lai 寫道:
wow, yr 99 is not considerate. too bad. if u live together, u and yr husband would be suffer a lot.
however, how to solve yr dilemma?
I'm still not decisive. there are two group of friends who gave opposite comments. my ex-supervisior see $$ as main factor. my friend consider the brand name of the company is good for my prospect.
carmen_lai 寫道:
99 terrible terrible
my mother takes care my son and i give her some $$. she will not look into $$. she accepts any amount i gave her. so...... i am very thankful to her
however, i need to take him to kwai shing. she will not go outside to take my son. so taxi...... when situation required.
carmen_lai 寫道:
yr mother is good la. i understand yr situation
my sister is pregnant now. so my mother is turning to help her. if i have another, i think i need to recruit bun bun to help my family.
i still keep on doing exercise. i go jogging after work for 30 mins if the weather permitted. i start aerobic dance again. before i joined for more than 4 yrs in Hongkong Park.
carmen_lai 寫道:
i think the market is moving. my old supervisor just called me and told me she is go to move to another company. in turn of $$, she strongly advised me to go. she also has a family with 1 son. her mother behaves like yr 99. her mother is living next to her just another number in the same floor.<very near> however, her mother will not take care her son and request them to recruit bun bun. very terrible. i am talking her mother not 99.
carmen_lai 寫道:
wow. pretending is very irritated. if 99 or mother giving definitely answer is better than pretending. it would be just like people playing politics in the company. i prefer honesty.
carmen_lai 寫道:
yes. i say yes to HR. however, my friend asked me to count the costs.
costs: politics, less time, keep on moving if i can't tolerate.
she asked me to phone to HR again to request 2 more days to finalise the decision.
she said that if i can bear the cost, u can go ahead.
she said that part of yr salary is compensated for tolerating situation in big big company. u know people is troublesome. more people means more troubles.
carmen_lai 寫道:
how u solve it?? i usually ask friends for some comments
carmen_lai 寫道:
i just say my prayer again. i pray if she gives me 2 more days to think. i think to finalise decision again. if no, i will reject.
actually, everyone wants stability. i want government related jobs. but......
if worse and i go on, i will be putting myself to keep on changing again & again.
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