The conclusion is: if the young couple cannot manage their lives financially they should not get married or have children. Even if unplanned pregnancy occur, they better opt for abortion.
and for elderlies, do not imagine your children's marriage would bring you joy, pride, and a son/daughter-in-law to expand your family plus most importantly, do not pressure the children to have children of their own.
Poverty is an inherited disease (as I read from some newspaper columns).