i totally agree! but my mother said it was so embarrassing so she felt that she "had to" share the water melon with her.
i told my mother from this point, I am the only one who gives her food at home. Otherwise, i give, my mother gives, my husband gives, she's eating three portions a day!
i really feel she's so childish...13-14 pounds within a month! it's not kidding! but she puts so much attention on food, and because i am pregnant, i eat 2-3 kinds of fruits a day, everytime i give her a little of each, and she has her own banana too (we bought for her), so she's having 2-3 kinds of fruits a day at least...
i told her that gaining weight by 13-14 within a month is not healthy! but right after that, she asked me about the McDonald's coupon...and when my mother ate honey melon, she kept looking at my mother and my mother had to give her 2 slices of honey melon. then my husband came home with sushi takeout, she kept standing besides my husband and watching him to eat the whole box of sushi (my husband pretended that he did not see her)...
she has no self-control at all! for the second week she came, she cried and said her stomach aches...we took her to doctor. now i think it's partly because she's homesick, and partly because she was eating fried chicken/pork at home all the time (i did not know coz my husband and I eat outside constantly, and she has her meals alone, i did not know until she used up a whole bottle of oil just in 2 weeks!)
i told her that gaining weight by 13-14 within a month is not healthy! but ri ...
That means she doesn't care abt her weight at all. Leave her alone n see how it goes. It may get better but when it gets to yr bottom line just do wt u want for yrself n yr baby :) Im saying that not because I think a fatty cant take care of a child but its a risk for u to take care of her medical bills in the future as she is booming so quickly in a short period of time.
but what can i do? she stayed with my hubby's big sister for the first week to get some house work training, and she told me that "big sister's home has more food to eat!"
May be 除咗正常3餐外,佢要食的就佢自己買,錢係佢的點洗佢的事。
但你地任何一個人都唔好再俾額外的嘢佢食,佢企响樹望的,
1) 就俾嘢佢做
2)直接同佢講我唔係咁想有人企响度望住我食嘢
3)講笑咁同佢講,呢個食物响邊度邊度買的,下次放假你可以去買嚟試下
等佢知道,你地唔係每樣嘢都會同佢share