Forget what your 99 said. She's stupid and forget her words 'cos it's meaningless. Just spend time thinking about how you can make yourself happy and healthy.
There're many bad people in the world. Ignore them.
If your husband supports you, it's fine. Make yourself healthy and wait for another bb.
To me, I tried 5 months but failed. I still don't have bb now. Different people have different problems. Work hard and we can get our lovely bb.