I've sacrificed mine twice. My husbund and I was married in HK but we live in Canada now. When we were still in HK, we used to work. Then suddenly one mth before I deliver my BB, my husbund just told me he quit his job (without talking to me earlier)because he's not happy working there. I asked him then how's our living gonna be when the BB comes, he just said he have $$. I asked him how much he keep refusing to tell me. Then after 4 mths, he suddenly tell me to quit my job cuz he have no more $$ and we have to go back to Canada. I was so sad at that time cuz I think we should have talk about everything. Anyways, I quit and came back to Canada. At first we've talked and he said he will hire a helper to take care of BB and I can go to work. I found a job very quickly but I've worked there only 3 mths(just passed probation and boss raised my salary) he suddenly tell me he have no $$ to take care of BB and I'll need to quit. I am so unhappy with our marriage. He have his life and plans, don't I have mine? Why is it always me that needs to sacrifice. I could earn more $$ than he could and I'm more educated than he is. Why??