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子爵府

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21#
發表於 07-2-21 17:35 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

no.
1. 我至係bb媽媽, 唔係個工人, 夜晚bb哭一家有事, eg.尿床, 發惡夢等, 作為媽媽有責任安撫bb.
2. 日頭佢要一個人照顧bb, 我唔想bb有什麼事, 佢有借口話之前bb吵, 令她無足夠休息
3. bb不會晚晚吵鬧, 要是他晚晚都睡不好, 一定是日頭睡得太多, 日夜倒轉了!


大宅

積分: 3387


22#
發表於 07-2-21 17:36 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

我都諗過要佢半夜幫下手...不過, 我老公話其實又無乜野要佢做, 由佢訓...但我就覺得點解佢可以一d反應都無???bb係咁喊, 我d房好應聲, 佢間房又係我隔離...點解會聽唔到???
今日我同佢講小心照顧自己, 天氣唔好.bb都病左...佢就有d奇怪話bb又病左??? 我話係呀. 尋晚先去你間房拎野...佢好似先記得....


珍珠宮

積分: 37750


23#
發表於 07-2-21 17:40 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

wendy_ho 寫道:
no.
1. 我至係bb媽媽, 唔係個工人, 夜晚bb哭一家有事, eg.尿床, 發惡夢等, 作為媽媽有責任安撫bb.
2. 日頭佢要一個人照顧bb, 我唔想bb有什麼事, 佢有借口話之前bb吵, 令她無足夠休息
3. bb不會晚晚吵鬧, 要是他晚晚都睡不好, 一定是日頭睡得太多, 日夜倒轉了!


When my bb was little, he really 晚晚吵鬧 ga (cried for 100 days, but not 日夜倒轉). I am a working mom, I really need my maid to help wor Otherwise, how can I work in the daytime ? :cry:

My son is 2.5 years old now, he still sleep in the same bedroom as me, but on different beds. I am the one to take care of him at night coz he cries sometimes only


男爵府

積分: 7549


24#
發表於 07-2-21 17:50 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

其實半夜我都係自己安撫番個BB,宜家個B仲係同我哋一間房,就算將來同工人同房,做媽媽嘅都好想親自照顧番小朋友,骨肉情呢D嘢我相信無人能及.

我都唔會倚賴工人半夜幫我氹仔,佢日頭嘅體力勞動我都知會好累,夜晚唔識醒反而唔緊要,鬧或者恐嚇我個仔就犯咗好嚴重嘅錯誤,我一定唔能夠容忍!!!


大宅

積分: 3387


25#
發表於 07-2-21 17:52 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

我想問你個工人有無話你無理解僱???

professor 寫道:
[quote]
creamychoy 寫道:
我個仔就同我一間房.佢半夜喊, 個工人都唔會起身..好似尋晚, 亞仔(9個月大)發燒. 我敲佢門拎bb出世紙, 同佢講bb發燒要去醫院, 佢都無反應, 照訓..


my previous maid also 照訓 & 無反應 ga, no matter how loud my baby cried

So I terminated her finally [/quote]


伯爵府

積分: 15536


26#
發表於 07-2-21 18:01 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

我個囡都算好湊, 所以耐唔耐半夜醒左喊, 我都會自己aum佢瞓番, 唔駛工人幫手.

因為我知個工人瞓到死豬咁, 真係行雷都唔會醒, 期望越高, 失望越大, 加上佢工作都唔錯, 日抖得佢同bb, 晚上就俾佢休息下.


男爵府

積分: 7208


27#
發表於 07-2-21 18:02 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

[quote]
meowmi 寫道:
印印來了4個月, 同BB (2 yrs & 3 months old boy) 一間房, 印印
busy...努力!!!

心裡平安, 想住進一個寜靜小島...
好好珍惜過去, 活在當下...


水晶宮

積分: 61607


28#
發表於 07-2-21 20:48 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

creamychoy 寫道:
我個仔就同我一間房.佢半夜喊, 個工人都唔會起身..好似尋晚, 亞仔(9個月大)發燒. 我敲佢門拎bb出世紙, 同佢講bb發燒要去醫院, 佢都無反應, 照訓..


呢個工人.......炒得!

我仔每次發燒要入醫院, 工人幫忙執拾阿仔的東西同我一齊帶阿仔去醫院, 直至入到病房始娘唔準兩個人留低佢先至返屋企. 其間, 工人比我感覺到佢係好擔心, 好想阿仔快d冇事出院.


水晶宮

積分: 61607


29#
發表於 07-2-21 20:52 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

meowmi 寫道:
印印來了4個月, 同BB (2 yrs & 3 months old boy) 一間房, 印印瞓上格, 阿仔瞓下格, 哩2個月阿仔夜晚瞓得很差, 一晚醒 7 – 8 次, 次次醒都大喊大叫, 好似好驚咁.

Every time he cries, my maid will not wake up to take care of him but just says “shhhhhh. … “ from her bed (I have a baby monitor and can hear what she says). If my son continues to cry, she will blame him LOUDLY “ Stoppppp! It’s time to sleep!” “What happen to you? There is nothing to be scared. It’s just your imaginary…!” “Sleep now!” “Why? You don’t go to sleep and you also don’t let other people to sleep! “

Sometimes my son will feel very scared, stop crying and then sleep again. Sometimes, he will continues to cry. As a mother, I feel heart-breaking and go inside my son’s room to carry him and soothe him. However, my maid 會用怪責的口吻說: 太太入lai睇BB, BB會“樓計”, 吾會乖乖自己瞓番, if 太太吾入lai, BB會乖乖自己瞓番, if you were me, what will you do?


呢個工人, 我唔會留佢照顧我仔. 我在家佢都夠膽c咁惡鬧我個仔, 我仔喊又唔理阿仔, 我仲點可以旨意佢在我返工時好好湊我個仔? 所以我必然會請呢個工人走. 佢咁鐘意訓, 比佢番老家訓飽佢.


珍珠宮

積分: 37750


30#
發表於 07-2-22 08:45 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

creamychoy 寫道:
我想問你個工人有無話你無理解僱???


I paid her an extra one month salary, 補足大假 $, together with an air ticket & HKD100 transportation fee ga, 補足, so she cannot say I'm 無理解僱

I was too angry with her. My hubby is always not in HK ga :cry: When my baby was sick, I was the only one to feed him medicine in the midnight. My baby cried out so loud but she still slept lor 你話我慶唔慶 ?
BB 不嬲都係跟我 ga, 平時亦唔駛佢夜晚揍 bb, 只係 touch wood 病時, 三更半夜幫下我餵藥都唔得 ???


複式洋房

積分: 343


31#
發表於 07-2-22 09:10 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

因為我們都要工作,晚上都會交給印印照顧BB,BB現在都已經六個月了,但他還未戒夜奶,12點和5點都要起身飲奶,都是印印照顧他的,當然,我們都會起床幫手開奶等等。

但我會比我印印早點睡,大約十點,日間如果BB休息,我都會讓印印休息。星期六、日時,我們會照顧BB,等印印有得休息。


伯爵府

積分: 15536


32#
發表於 07-2-22 10:14 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

叫個印"死"返鄉下瞓飽佢啦!

明知妳聽到都咁同bb講野, o係妳面前都照講連妳都教訓埋, 呢d工人無大無細, 無愛心又自私, bb跟佢真係發惡夢多過食飯, 都唔知係咪日抖俾佢鬧/打至會搞到半夜瞓唔好醒幾次......妳真係要小心, 有能力既就搵過個有愛心d架啦! 呢d工人真係無heart做野架.

meowmi 寫道:
印印來了4個月, 同BB (2 yrs & 3 months old boy) 一間房, 印印瞓上格, 阿仔瞓下格, 哩2個月阿仔夜晚瞓得很差, 一晚醒 7 – 8 次, 次次醒都大喊大叫, 好似好驚咁.

Every time he cries, my maid will not wake up to take care of him but just says “shhhhhh. … “ from her bed (I have a baby monitor and can hear what she says). If my son continues to cry, she will blame him LOUDLY “ Stoppppp! It’s time to sleep!” “What happen to you? There is nothing to be scared. It’s just your imaginary…!” “Sleep now!” “Why? You don’t go to sleep and you also don’t let other people to sleep! “

Sometimes my son will feel very scared, stop crying and then sleep again. Sometimes, he will continues to cry. As a mother, I feel heart-breaking and go inside my son’s room to carry him and soothe him. However, my maid 會用怪責的口吻說: 太太入lai睇BB, BB會“樓計”, 吾會乖乖自己瞓番, if 太太吾入lai, BB會乖乖自己瞓番, if you were me, what will you do?


侯爵府

積分: 21395


33#
發表於 07-2-22 10:19 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

其實我見到有d媽咪的反應頗大, 話個小朋友係自己的, 吾會要求工人夜晚湊個bb, 無錯, 個bb係自己, 我果時都係自己湊, 但每個family都有自己的難處, 佢地亦有佢地自己的要求, 同埋我覺得, 最重要個point係, 個工人吾應該甘樣鬧個2歲幾的小朋友, 還要落床安撫個小朋友呢下動作都無, 真係難以接受......................


大宅

積分: 3664


34#
發表於 07-2-22 11:12 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

唔會, BB由出世到而家夜晩都係我自己照顧返, 一來日頭工人已經成日對住BB, 二來最信果個都係自己


男爵府

積分: 7693

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35#
發表於 07-2-22 12:21 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

I'm very angry, even until now!

I told my maid that if baby wakes up and cries at night, there must be some reasons and she has to wake up to check his diaper, clothes, blanket...and comfort him. That's her job as she sleeps in the same room.

Last night my son woke up again and again and cried helplessly, I noticed that my maid had waken up once or twice to check his diaper, and then I heard my maid said that "I don't want to hear you cry anymore or else you go outside to sleep!"

Oh my god, how dare she said such kind of words to my son! I feel very angry and go inside my son' room to carry, hug him and comfort him immediately. I didn't blame her at the moment because I thought the most important thing is to comfort my son asap and I know that if I blame her that moment, I'll absolutely lose my control.

This morning when I left to work at 8:30 a.m., she was still sleeping (she is off at 11:30 p.m. last night and how ironic that she can always sleep longer than me!)

I'm still very angry and have asked my husband to talk to her this morning seriously. We don't want our son to have the wrong concept that

"sleeping is such an unhappy thing",
"whenever he has a bad dream, it's his own fault"
"he is wrong to express his fear when he has bad dream"

But I think my husband will not blame her as he always wants to be the good guy!

Tonight I will definitely talk to her again seriously!


男爵府

積分: 7205


36#
發表於 07-2-22 12:28 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

meowmi ,

如果你老公係好好先生, 就千祈唔好由佢同工人講, 因為講咗都冇用, 你工人只會覺得你係先生面前講佢壞話, 先生都唔鬧佢, 係太太麻煩, 因為我老公都係咁, 叫佢同工人講, 佢就講得好客氣, 之後工人唔改, 我鬧工人, 個工人就唔服氣, 所以既然係你自己聽到佢講嗰番說話, 你就自己同佢講, 仲要嚴重warn佢添


伯爵府

積分: 15536


37#
發表於 07-2-22 13:05 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

meowmi,

妳個工人真係好過份ar, 咁對一個兩歲幾o既小朋友都得o既? 佢真係好無愛心同耐性, 我會搵定replacement然後即炒佢.

叫個小朋友瞓出房?!!! 佢憑乜野呀, 我洗鬼要佢同bb一間房ar, 反正佢都take care唔到佢lor, 我會罰個工人瞓廚房/廳, 佢要為佢口出狂言而負責!!

妳工人做左幾耐? 真係養唔熟. 既然佢講得出咁大聲, 荒死妳聽唔到, 只係差在佢幾時做得出手, bb最重要, 我唔會俾bb有任何人為既不幸發生, 工人一定會換, 妳講乜佢都係唔服, 慳番啖氣搵過個好啦.

meowmi 寫道:
"I don't want to hear you cry anymore or else you go outside to sleep!"

This morning when I left to work at 8:30 a.m., she was still sleeping.....


男爵府

積分: 7549


38#
發表於 07-2-22 13:32 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

返工嘅時候會唔會有"眼仔"mon住個工人啊? 或者可唔可能搵老人家暫時幫手睇住吓小朋友?

我估你哋兩公婆唔喺屋企時, 佢對你個仔都唔會好得去邊. Sorry 我唔係想嚇人, 不過小心駛得萬年船, 可以想像小朋友面對呢個印姐時有好大壓力.

希望我嘅估計係錯啦, 不過保護小朋友係宜家嘅當前急務!!!


複式洋房

積分: 360


39#
發表於 07-2-22 14:02 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

my son sleeps with us but at different beds, his beyong ours...my 99 doesn't let my son sleep with bunbun nor feed him midnight milk when he still needed it...99 worried that if bunbun didn't get enough sleep, she could not concentrate on taking care my son during daytime!

whenever he cries in the midnight, 99 will come to our room, take care of him so that we both can sleep again! my maid won't come as she knows 99 doesn't need her...




大宅

積分: 3800

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40#
發表於 07-2-22 15:34 |只看該作者

Re: If your baby wakes up and cries at night, 你地會吾會要求工人起身照顧 BB?

Same to you!!

andtong 寫道:
因為我們都要工作,晚上都會交給印印照顧BB,BB現在都已經六個月了,但他還未戒夜奶,12點和5點都要起身飲奶,都是印印照顧他的,當然,我們都會起床幫手開奶等等。

但我會比我印印早點睡,大約十點,日間如果BB休息,我都會讓印印休息。星期六、日時,我們會照顧BB,等印印有得休息。

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