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複式洋房

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21#
發表於 07-3-8 23:49 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

I think depends on your situation. If you and your mother in law relationship is good then you can ask her to help you to take care of your baby. If not, better hire a helper. Cuz is difficult to ask your mother in law to understand what do you want. If you find something that you don't like may be you cannot tell her cuz she may get angry.
J&Hsbb 寫道:
當然請工人好啦, 老實講, 有工人係度, 可以叫佢做家務, 落街買野, 唔通叫奶奶幫你做家務, 點佢落去買野咩, 工人做錯野可以鬧, 奶奶做錯野唔通鬧鬼佢.....你叫奶奶湊咪又要比錢, 咁點解唔請工人呢, 我都後悔叫左奶奶黎同我坐月, 老公都話早知請工人好過


男爵府

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22#
發表於 07-3-9 16:42 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

你依家同阿媽同住嗎? 如果要99湊咪一齊住 如果係的話唔洗諗請工人啦, 相見好同住難, 你都話你媽常病, 我諗都需要人照顧的, 你工作又忙, 可能你回家後仍然要做家務, 因為你唔可能要99幫你做 :evil: 到時你同99的相處 + 小朋友比99 "縱" 到唔聽你話時就煩了, 因為曾經有一段時我炒左工人99幫手每日來我家湊幾小時, 囝囝真係百厭好多, 成日同我講呢樣"女麻""女麻"比我咁做喎, 真係唔知點囝囝 :evil:

請工人的開支一定比99湊多一陪, 但比我再諗我都會請工人
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發表於 07-3-9 21:12 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

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發表於 07-3-10 01:15 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

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別墅

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發表於 07-3-10 06:08 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

There are pros and cons on both. 工人 you have to pay $$ but you can tell her to do whatever you want, also some 工人 are not good so you'll worry about your child while you are not at home. 99 probably doesn't cost that much $$ but you cannot tell her what to do and you cannot correct the things she've done. She might have her own way of thinking but mostly they will treat your child really good (but becareful your child will be over spoilt). For my opinion, if $$ is not a big issue in your family, I will definitely choose 工人. I'll try to stay away from 99's as much as possible. The closer you gets with 99 the more arguements you'll have with her no matter how good your relationship is with her. Cuz you are really not her own borned daughter.


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發表於 07-3-10 16:20 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

有辣有唔辣.....

若以bb為大前題,選99好點,因為始終唔洗忌佢會有變態行為,唔會對bb不利.但你就會比較"吃虧"因為乜都要照99既經驗去湊b. 如果你接受到既, 99其實唔錯. 起碼唔洗比佢衣食住行.

若你同99已經不咬弦, 咁無為讓關係再惡化落去, 因為叫得99幫手, 就唔可以咁 "口響". 呢 d 情況下, 請工人有著數. 最多叫老公同99講, 叫佢多 d 來昅住工人.

其實 2 個方案都係考自己 eq 的, 我敢講, 2個方案都會令自己痛不欲生, 不如去學下點提高自己 eq 吧. 很緊要的.




男爵府

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27#
發表於 07-3-15 08:51 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

當然係媽媽好 !!

奶奶好"d"... 咩事都係自己o個孫
工人做個咩都唔知道呢 !
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洋房

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28#
發表於 07-3-15 09:18 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

以你的情況, 我認為應該請工人


等待驗證會員

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發表於 07-3-15 15:33 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

如果你有媽咪喺屋企坐陣就梗係請工人啦,一來可以照顧到佢,二來可以幫到你做家務,如果你叫99喺住兼揍bb,分分鐘你返到屋企仲要做餐c,仲要夾住你媽咪同你99中間,咪話而家相處好,到時一齊住,你夾多舊餸比你媽佢都可能會話你偏心,總之你可能同你媽咪講嘢細聲d佢都會話你地講佢是非,又或者到時小朋友錫婆婆多d又有得嘈,或者你老公一入屋嗌外母先都會引發戰爭,到時就搵嚟攪,一係就佢兩親家有乜e郁到時你兩公婆又會鬧交,請工人乜都做晒唔洗煩啦,再唔係你裝埋web-cam,咁就萬無一失啦

信我,我當初都係諗住慳錢叫99嚟幫我,初初佢都係好似天使下凡咁,但唔使兩個月,我就爭d精神崩潰,放工之後返到屋企仲要做到媽咪都唔認得我,真架,你唔好以為99會幫你做,你好意思叫佢喺你食完飯同你洗碗咩,你好意思叫佢幫你洗衫褶衫咩,洗浴缸又會整親腰骨,"山"廚房又話唔夠力,拖地又話整親手腕,仲要同仔女睇功課,見你唔幫老公執嘢就話你lazy,老公返工好辛苦嘛咁,總之仲要做多個人嘢,仲有喎,每晚仲要聽佢up嘢,我有兩次幾乎想跳樓,好彩我老公最後都係花咗十幾萬同佢搵過間屋租兼裝修過買晒新電器傢俬請佢走,如果唔係我上咗頭條,但十幾萬,我可以請到好多個工人喇 :-(


複式洋房

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30#
發表於 07-3-22 19:11 |只看該作者

Re: 奶奶好還是工人好?

其實我都認為請工人好些。因為99真係好難講......我意思係你兩公婆可能會有自己一套方法去教育下一代,但當99或62用的方法和自己不同,好難開口慢慢解釋。加上無論對方幾開通,都會有自己的看法。所以請工人係好d。坦白講,香港咁多人請工人,真係出事的比例其實好小。當然,請人之後都要多留意小朋友同「姐姐」的關係。我宜家都幾好架,又自由,唔需要太多交代。不過我99好煩,成日覺得工人一定會「ha」bb,但佢「後生」時,佢都係有工人湊的老公。 :tongue:

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