yeah ... i admit that i'm 緊張大師 since my son was born, but he'd been sicked several times during the first couple yrs which made me very nervous (well ... it's not really big big deal, but like RSV could be fatal like the 19m girl in macau).
trust me ... i wasn't like that before. i used to be that kind of 天跌落嚟當被kam果種人.
i completely agree with u that going to work is much easier than staying home full time taking care of the young kids (especially when u don't have other helpers). becoz of me, a couple of friends don't wanna be full-time mom and would rather going to work instead.
by the way, your girls are so cute!
i wish i can have a girl but we still hesitate/struggle to have any more kids.
其實你可以take a part time job or take him to a playgroup/nursery, which maybe good for both of u. just make some time you both are apart bcox you both need some space!
thx for your compliment! i wouldn't say they are cute, they are much more like monsters. the little one always complaining and the big sister is in trouble 2, does not obey our instruction at all time!!
i think u should have a 2nd kid, so u won't put all u'r attention onto 1 kid which is very difficult for u & him. 到佢大d會覺得好大壓力因為你所有注意力放係佢身上，而佢大d有自己世界既時候你又會好寂寞因為u don't know where to place your attention. i believe u won't be that nervous when u have the 2nd
我覺得有時太緊張有時對你對小朋友都會辛苦，有時真係要粗養d小朋友先得架，我唔算粗養，我都算係tough mom，但我阿媽都嫌我緊張！
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