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我好唔開心,我很後悔,我可以怎麼辦? [複製鏈接]

yukilee

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發表於 07-4-17 12:19 |只看該作者

Re: 我好唔開心,我很後悔,我以怎麼辦?

多謝各位意見~~
我同我媽咪講左我媽咪都贊成我搬,仲話借埋$$$俾我地俾首期tim~
但我老公話e+爭銀行$$$好難做按揭,但佢爭銀行2萬幾,我話一次還埋佢得唔得,佢銀行會覺得有古怪喎,所以叫我忍多半年~
我62痴線架,成日無啦啦又發皮氣,打麻雀又叫人針茶弟水俾佢,好似當我係呀4,佢同d麻友食完d碗就擺俾度叫你洗,就連晒衫,摺衫都教埋你"應該"點做.... 我個女幾時食奶都要理埋,有時話等佢餓d先俾佢,但有時又叫我够鍾就俾佢食,如果餓得太耐會眼訓唔食...一時一樣..仲有好多她多,我好驚佢呀,平時食飯對住佢我都好驚..佢d眼神好得人驚同埋佢好情緒化,連我99同c6都唔敢得罪佢,好慘:-(
唉~呢半年都唔知點過,我都想快d走~
我好驚會俾62迫傻呀!!!

因為我未買過樓,我想問如果要買一層100萬既樓最少要預備幾多錢做首期呀??25萬够唔够呀?我真係好想搬,月快月好!!!!

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yellow

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發表於 07-4-17 14:26 |只看該作者

Re: 我好唔開心,我很後悔,我以怎麼辦?

yukilee:
其實個個男人係咪都係咁o既呢????
不過,如果你而家買咗樓,你老公會唔會同你一齊搬呀,因為睇到你老公咁講,佢係唔想搬多..

諗番起,我以前又係咁,有咗bb,老公想我同埋99佢地一齊住...我點都唔讓步,仲同老公日嘈夜嘈,佢仲話如果唔搬番去,就一,三,五擺個囡去99到湊,二,四,六就我地湊(我地當時同我mami一齊住,因為我o係mami到坐月,坐完月就搬番出去我地自己住),但係我地住o係元朗,99佢地住將軍澳,邊有咁o既可能??? :evil: 咪盞搞 :evil: :evil: 我一d都唔讓步,而家有安落日子過la...因為99同62都超難頂

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spoonlam

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發表於 07-4-17 15:03 |只看該作者

Re: 我好唔開心,我很後悔,我以怎麼辦?

That reminds me of my 99 when I just delivered my son. She told my husband to move back to live with her because babies cry alot at night. That means only me and the baby at home all the time. Fortunately, my husband rejected her because he knows I won't be able to handle my son alone. 99 asked c6 to move back so many times, everytime she asks, I'll stare at her.
I dont' understand her thinking and never will. She already mentioned that she wont' be able to help me to take care of my son at all because she needs alot of sleep at night and during day. And she also doesnt' want my c6 to help me either. So she only cares about my husband not getting enough sleep, and what about me?
She said she wont'be able to help me to take care of my son, but now her daughter just give birth in US, and i dont' know why she has the energy to fly over to US to help her daughter to take care of the baby lor.........

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blui

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發表於 07-4-20 23:28 |只看該作者

Re: 我好唔開心,我很後悔,我可以怎麼辦?

Yukilee,

我很明白你的感受, 我都好後悔當初一念之差, 同左6299住, 有苦自己知, 雖然而家總算搬了出來(好艱難曲折至搬到出來), 但已經元氣大傷, 心情總是很抑鬱, 大家的關係又差，真係很後悔, 很後悔，真希望時光可以倒流，可惜人生不能重頭來過...... :cry:

你要努力為自己爭取，我經歷了很多事之後，才明白只有自己才可以幫到自己. 自己的幸福是掌握在自己的手上. 希望你都可以早日達成心願.

yukilee 寫道:
我和老公未結婚前3年來一路是同居的,結婚後因為有bb,老公怕我不懂照顧bb所以在我懷孕8個月就沒有續租,搬去同老爺奶奶到住,怎知惡夢就開始,因為我和老公拍拖時很少接觸他們不知道他們的個性,原來相處好同住難,我老爺勁難頂,例如裝飯俾佢,有時話太少有時話太多,又叫我們不要關房門睡覺空氣流通d,我同老公已沒有太多2人世界了,更何況如現在他樣都理,什麼都關他事,有時仲成日發脾氣,有時他話我會偷偷地喊,同老公講佢又話佢年紀大是這樣,有時我因為這樣好憎我老公,我好唔開心,我很後悔,我以怎麼辦?