nikinokb
i will sometimes let him know i am worry about if he had any female going near him or not (e.g. calling him at middle of night (my time) and tell him i dream of him with a girl), then he tell me not to worry. i will then sense if he is telling lies or telling truth lor. on the other hand, we had been going through a lot before we get married, and i trust him he treasure our family very much now. he will not do anything wrong again.
i am in canada for nearly 8 years. my daughters are 9 an 12. we had discussed to moving back to hk, but because of education of daughters, we stay. we miss each other much but can't help it. hoping that situation will be better, and can be staying together soon. we are aiming for this goal now.