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多謝meeemeee. 但係我仲未搵到工, 間獵頭公司仲未覆我. 另外我仲月左大學做international student 活動, 但未有消息.

bonnietsw, 係呀, 我仲有三間學校要去. 原來女仔玩robotics 都唔輸蝕架.

我同我奶奶感情好好架, 佢以前會幫我睇功課, 而家每隔幾個星期就打俾我, check 下佢個仔乖唔乖, 鏟我老公佢就會. 不過我都係相信,相見好, 同住難既道理, 同佢住一兩個星期就得, 長住既話, 感情好都會變壞. 但係我有時會恐嚇我老公話搬返去奶奶住, 等兩個女人一齊治佢, 當然佢死都唔肯.

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muimui,
it might not be a good time to look for job right now...butu r not in finance so it might be better for you..it's good to hear that you get along with your 99..i guess one of the reason is u dont live with her haha...

bonnietsw, sy_mom,
99 will join us for the summer trip cuz she said she doesnt know a word of english so whereever we go she will and has to follow ............................................

原文章由 muimui313 於 08-4-23 14:45 發表
多謝meeemeee. 但係我仲未搵到工, 間獵頭公司仲未覆我. 另外我仲月左大學做international student 活動, 但未有消息.

bonnietsw, 係呀, 我仲有三間學校要去. 原來女仔玩robotics 都唔輸蝕架.

我同我奶奶感情好好 ...

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發表於 08-4-23 23:56 |只看該作者

原文章由 SY_Mom 於 08-4-22 00:24 發表
rose-mag or any other moms who lives in SF,

i got an email about a planning analyst position at Gymboree in SF. the job sounds to be easy and not required too much experience but a BA/BS degree.
if ...

SY_Mom,
I have pm you my email address. Please send me the details and I would like to see if I am interested in it or not. Thanks a lot.

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發表於 08-4-24 05:57 |只看該作者

Muimui313,

I'm jealous that you and your 99 can maintain a good relationship. My 99 always tells me that her son is such a good man. I'm lucky that I can marry him!! No kidding...

原文章由 muimui313 於 08-4-23 14:45 發表
多謝meeemeee. 但係我仲未搵到工, 間獵頭公司仲未覆我. 另外我仲月左大學做international student 活動, 但未有消息.

bonnietsw, 係呀, 我仲有三間學校要去. 原來女仔玩robotics 都唔輸蝕架.

我同我奶奶感情好好 ...

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發表於 08-4-24 06:00 |只看該作者

Alisonli,

Aiya, your 99 is going to travel with you? That sucks!
I was thinking to go back HK for a vacation at the end of this year. As soon as my 99 knows, she said she wants to go with us! I want to take some time off and not to see her for a few days. Now I don't wanna go anymore.

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 08-4-23 21:55 發表
muimui,
it might not be a good time to look for job right now...butu r not in finance so it might be better for you..it's good to hear that you get along with your 99..i guess one of the reason is u ...

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發表於 08-4-24 23:27 |只看該作者

Bonnietsw,
unfortunately yes....my c6 would take my 99 on every single vacation..it's really hard for me to get a "real"vacation.

原文章由 Bonnietsw 於 08-4-24 06:00 發表
Alisonli,

Aiya, your 99 is going to travel with you? That sucks!
I was thinking to go back HK for a vacation at the end of this year. As soon as my 99 knows, she said she wants to go with us! I want ...

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發表於 08-4-25 00:54 |只看該作者

Alisonli,

Your c6 and my c6 are good sons, but that's not good for us.

My baby is 6 months old and teething now. He couldn't sleep well at night. He will wake up every hour and cry out loud. I have been using a baby oralgel to rub his gum before he goes to bed, but I guess it doesn't help much. Any suggestions? Please help...

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 08-4-24 23:27 發表
Bonnietsw,
unfortunately yes....my c6 would take my 99 on every single vacation..it's really hard for me to get a "real"vacation.

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發表於 08-4-25 09:10 |只看該作者

Bonnietsw,
Alisonli asked me if I can give you some help about your son's teething.
firstly, I have to say, Orajel should not apply more than 4 times a day as it is OTC meds.
2. can you tell me more about the sign of teething that you observe?
3. will he cry like that in the day time?
4. who is the care giver at day and night?
5. Are you a working mom? do you recently return to work?
6. your son on breast feed or bottle feed?
7. your son start solid food?
8. does he eat well? if not, when does he eat dinner? when does he has last bottle? how much he drinks compare "before" he is teething?
9. does your son have any chronic medical problem?
10. when does he start sleeping on his own? recently? or already trained for a while?

after all these questions, then we will have more idea what is going on..
if your son is teething, and you rub the orajel night time, all over the gum (upper and bottom), that should help him to relief for a long period.. I mean.. not the Q tip style.. you have to use the original tooth paste style.
Mostly, he cries every hour, he may be hungry as well becuase teething child normally can not eat well.
Frequently small meal is the solution.
you can also offer the cold teething ring/rattle, or you can freeze the wet cloth in freezer for 2 hours, and let your son to chew on it.
before bed, use a cold wet cloth rub all over his gum (with pressure), then apply the orajel. that will work better.

But, mainly, we need to make sure, if he is teething or there is some other underline problem that we do not know.

原文章由 Bonnietsw 於 08-4-24 11:54 AM 發表
Alisonli,

Your c6 and my c6 are good sons, but that's not good for us.

My baby is 6 months old and teething now. He couldn't sleep well at night. He will wake up every hour and cry out lou ...

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發表於 08-5-4 01:33 |只看該作者

Hi Nillie_Mami,

1. I only use oraljel once a day which is before his bed time.
2. Two little teeth start coming out at the bottom.
3. He doesn't cry as much during day time......... maybe I should say he doesn't cry much during non-sleeping time.
4. My 99 takes care of him during the day and I take care of him during night.
5. Yes, I'm working since the baby was 2 months old.
6. He is bottle-feed now.
7. Yes, he is eating solid food (rice cereal and baby food #2)
8. He doesn't have a problem eating. Usually is 8pm for dinner (baby food #2) and last meal (formula w/rice cereal) at 10:30pm.
9. No.
10. He started sleeping on his own when he was 3 months old.

I stopped using Oraljel 2 nights ago since it didn't help much. My baby doesn't let me rub his gum much. I can only touch a little bit then he will struggle.

He has been eating small meals every 2/3 hours. I also notice he started to rub his eyes lately. Maybe he has allergy during Spring?

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-25 09:10 發表
Bonnietsw,
Alisonli asked me if I can give you some help about your son's teething.
firstly, I have to say, Orajel should not apply more than 4 times a day as it is OTC meds.
2. can you tell me more ...

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發表於 08-5-5 05:52 |只看該作者

Bonnietsw,
is the problem persist??
when you apply orajel.. does he in pain or you did it as routine?
as orajel only work for about 5-15 mins. it is a fast action medication, so it is better apply on the gum while he is screaming.. plus, you must rub the gum and apply all over the gum to get he best result.
good that we know, he is teething.. so, frquently small meal, teething ring, massage the gum are what we can do.
give him massage over his gum is the way.. you can go to supermarket to buy the orajel brand.. they got the finger tooth brush.. use that finger tooth brush to massage his gum.. so you won't get bit, and also give him a good relief. Cool drink may help to make the blood circulation slower.

原文章由 Bonnietsw 於 08-5-3 12:33 PM 發表
Hi Nillie_Mami,

1. I only use oraljel once a day which is before his bed time.
2. Two little teeth start coming out at the bottom.
3. He doesn't cry as much during day time......... maybe I should sa ...

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發表於 08-5-10 21:47 |只看該作者

Nillie_Mami,

Thanks for your advice. My baby is getting better now. I think he is getting used to the teething feeling since the 2 teeth came out half way already. He doesn't cry as much as weeks ago. He is handeling it much better now.

Thanks,
Bonnietsw

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-5-5 05:52 發表
Bonnietsw,
is the problem persist??
when you apply orajel.. does he in pain or you did it as routine?
as orajel only work for about 5-15 mins. it is a fast action medication, so it is better apply on ...

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發表於 08-7-25 15:46 |只看該作者

嘩!呢個topic 沈到好低. 等我錨返上黎先.
我仲未有好消息, 仲未搵到工. 都唔知夏老威啲公司要咩人. 係都唔要我...嗚嗚.
今朝有間公司phone interview 我. 我合哂佢地好多要求, 但最致命係我無early childhood education既經驗, 最細既小朋友, 我只做過五歲大. 所以, 我估呢份工都無行.
另外啱啱有個同事辭左職, 如果我再唔走, 實做死我.

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原文章由 muimui313 於 08-7-25 15:46 發表
嘩!呢個topic 沈到好低. 等我錨返上黎先.
我仲未有好消息, 仲未搵到工. 都唔知夏老威啲公司要咩人. 係都唔要我...嗚嗚.
今朝有間公司phone interview 我. 我合哂佢地好多要求, 但最致命係我無early childhood educ ...

Same here, no luck at all even though I did have interviews and they seemed to be quite good. Well, I would just keep looking and trying. Since the working hours of my current one is quite flexible and short, my hubby even asked me to stay until the 2 little ones grow up. But, he on the other hand, wants me to find a better paid job so that we can have better chance to buy a good house. He told me that he has a friend's wife working in my company (different division). He said that he belives that she's not that smart but is able to earn a good salary and he's wondering why I cannot find a job like that. No comment on that, one word - luck.

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發表於 08-7-29 14:04 |只看該作者

rose-mag,
你我同是天涯"搵工"人, 我係唔理好醜, 但求就手, 係工我都send, 我俾人reject到面懵懵. 我公司前線同事, 有逃亡潮, 已知另有三人開始著手搵工. 另外一個有嫌疑, 無法啦, 高層睇唔起前線, 所以咁多人想走.
希望你同我快啲搵到份, 又高薪, 又開心既工.

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發表於 08-7-30 01:34 |只看該作者

i'm a first time mom and my baby is 3 month old now. we've been so attached now and i start to feel depressed because i'm going back to work in about a month. we've found a nanny for her, but i'm still very nervous about giving her to another person's hands.

can any mom share how they overcome this depression and how long did you take to get used to the working life again?

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原文章由 babytomato 於 08-7-30 01:34 發表
i'm a first time mom and my baby is 3 month

Hi babytomato,

I have 2 babies and I was so depressed when my maternity leave almost came to the end each time. Also, at the beginning, I missed my babies so much. Luckily, my mom took care of my son and now, she takes care of my daughter. My son goes to daycare when I needed to go back to work after my daughter bornt. Right after I returned to work, I used to call my mom everyday during daytime to check if my baby was doing good. Sometimes, I told my mom to put the phone through and I could talk to him/her. It sounds silly but I guarantee that tons of mothers are doing this.

I have a lot of photos of my babies in the office, of course, the screensaver, cellphone gallery, too. When I am pumping milk, I would bring along their photos and it makes me so happy. Well, I would say time passes and I just get used to the working life. Once my work's done, I will go home immediately. And, I always enjoy to have vacation so that I can spend time with my 2 little ones.

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發表於 08-7-30 21:52 |只看該作者

muimui,
good luck in looking for another job. =) i just quit my job for 8 years la. so happy now. i dont want to bring the unhappiness to my kids at home ma. i hope i made the right decision !

babytomato,
it takes time to adjust to the working life again. u might want to set up a web cam at home so u could check on the nanny and your kid at the same time la.

原文章由 muimui313 於 08-7-29 14:04 發表
rose-mag,
你我同是天涯"搵工"人, 我係唔理好醜, 但求就手, 係工我都send, 我俾人reject到面懵懵. 我公司前線同事, 有逃亡潮, 已知另有三人開始著手搵工. 另外一個有嫌疑, 無法啦, 高層睇唔起前線, 所以咁多人想走. ...

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發表於 08-8-2 16:11 |只看該作者

Alisonli, 好好享受下做全職媽媽.
babytomato, 我同你相反, 我一返得工, 就扑到返去.相比起你地, 我唔係一個好盡力既媽媽, 一返工就幫歷仔轉奶粉. 我頂唔順留係屋企揍仔既生活. 所以我一可以返工, 就有甩難既感覺.

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發表於 08-8-3 05:57 |只看該作者

Same here, I took care of my son at home for 5 months, then I couldn't stand it any more and went back to the job market. I missed him a lot, but I truly enjoy getting out to work more than being a full-time homemaker. Sometimes I feel like I'm relaxing in the office, but it's like in a battlefield at home.

原文章由 muimui313 於 08-8-2 16:11 發表
Alisonli, 好好享受下做全職媽媽.
babytomato, 我同你相反, 我一返得工, 就扑到返去.相比起你地, 我唔係一個好盡力既媽媽, 一返工就幫歷仔轉奶粉. 我頂唔順留係屋企揍仔既生活. 所以我一可以返工, 就有甩難既感覺. ...

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