suetso 寫道:
Dear All
You're all sharing about an interesting topic. My case is like that my bb is taken care of by our helper and I ask my helper not to hold my bb until she sleeps (I don't know whether she follows my instructions). It seems to me my bb can sleep on her own during day time naps. But at the night time, I always feed her in my bed until she sleeps because this is the most effective way to make her sleep. It only takes 10 to 20 mins. After that we will put her back in her own bed. Then she usually wakes up 1 to 2 times, and I will feed her in my bed again. She will still in my bed the rest of the night. In this case, she has no trouble at night. But she still needs the mid night feeding and she is almost 6 month old. I read a lot of articles about co-sleeping and breastfeeding. Honest speaking, most experts don't agree my practice except Dr Sears (LLL) and Attachment Parenting International.
My bb is a very happy and content bb. Even when she wakes up in the middle of night before i feed her, she just plays in her bed without crying and waits for me patiently. I wake up when I hear her tapping her legs. She also allows other people to hold her although she will look at me while she is being held. My friends' bbs(especially bb girls) don't allow that. Since I don't see the need of letting my bb learn to be independent, I don't have the initiative to train her.
Can anyone give me some comments? Should I train my bb to sleep on her own? What will be the consequences of not training her now?
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basilmama 寫道:
2005年既奶媽,
GLENDA豬呢幾日一食奶(埋身,佢唔肯食奶樽)就喊,餓到狂喊都唔食!佢唔似病,雖然有worry過(因為我flu,但日日得我1個湊),點算?我見到佢咁我好”赤” :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
tingfai 寫道:
Dear aggie_to, Bbpooh and other mama,
Sorry that I could only type in English cos I don't know how to type Chinese ...
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Though my son sleeps with 99 on the same room, but they are on separate beds -- "son 母" bed.


Lamblamb 寫道:
Hello aggie,
Your girl is growing so quickly! :-P
Just "88" - is she mixed? (Coz' her features look very sharp!)

