==>我認為...語言發展係可以透過日常接觸, 多聽多講而有所進步, 呢個亦係 fundamental, 即係平時比幾多 DVD ar..etc 都係 supplementary...你平時有同佢講野先係加強佢溝通能力既一大要素...所以 BB 可能平常都有跟大人講...聽你地講...咁會好有用....I would rather say this as "presentation skills" + "communcation skills" ==>如何識得把資料分門別類 (organised) 講出去, 又要講得人地明係一門學問哇~~
==>在我眼中 (尤其係六歲以前) 依家呢個階段, 要訓練小朋友"夠膽講" (尤其面對唔同人) 會較"識幾多種語言, 同發音正唔正" 嚟得更重要, 好多外國人, their mother tongue is English, 但d發音都唔見得好正...再加上佢地有 accent...所以要多訓練同 encourage them to speak up....this is very important, I have seen a lot of kids who are not bad in languages at all, but somehow 就係唔肯講....又或 only selective 去講 (即係識既就講, 唔識既就唔啋), 呢個問題遠較 language 既影響會更深遠....因為要更長時間去 tune 佢地等佢地知 "唔係識至講, 係同唔識既都要講, 問題係點講, 講幾多..."...etc, 即係好似食野咁, 唔可以偏食, 鍾意就食, 唔鍾意就死都唔掂..this involves "people interaction" problem here...將來只會變得曲高和寡, 好難去夾人呀....
==>你 BB 依家已有 good foundation, so you have to train him further in this area...將來就會對佢更有利了...
同唔知返全日多d接觸其他人會個人open d
==>若你對佢跟 either 99 or mom 都有 hesitation, then 就不如試試 put him to N1, 等佢有多d同齡既 peers 同佢一齊, 咁對加強佢與人相處, 守規, 開氣呢d都會有幫助, 你可以考慮下, 不過...當然, 我之前都有提過早返學其中一個代價係會容易有d傷風鼻塞咁喇...不過在我我又唔會太介意, 因為我一向係 forward looking 既人, 即係我會寧願諗點可以加強 BB 抵抗力而去返學, 而唔係因為怕病就唔返呢停...
努力呀.....hope my experience here may help you la....有野問再 chat 過~~
當年我選校, 除睇我之前講過個d 因素 e.g. 環境, 老師, 家長, etc...都會睇係咪有得可以 back up (小學), 因為我唔係 risk taker...唔鍾意亦唔想將小朋友既將來放響 luck 上面, 我亦冇 guarantee 可以考得入私校...因此, 當日又好彩考到培正, 就比小朋友去讀了, 佢在我眼中, 唔係一間 top school, 但我一向唔追求學術上要 top, 而係 all rounded development, 呢點培正可以做到, 做唔到個d (e.g. 有d人話佢英文唔夠) 我可以有 1000 ways to supplement...最緊要係 learning attitude...
我揀學校好睇 peers, culture, etc..因為呢d係直接影響小朋友第日想唔想讀書, remember I said earlier in 精華區 "Attitude" is much more important than "knowledge" and "skills", 因為前者要好早之前就 develop, 而一旦 develop 左就 not easy to change ga la...後而後兩者, 有時間同資源的話, 大把機會追得上...
就語言方面... "well versed" 同 "識講" 係兩回事, 你要先決定你想佢 well versed 響邊瓣先...if I am correct, I guess you would like her to be well versed in 國語 + 英語..??
If that is the case, 台語 + 廣東話 only 識聽識講就得了, 文法上唔準確亦無所謂, 是嗎...??
若係咁....主力 train up (學習上) 應以國語+英語為主, 多比佢聽, 講, 寫...會有幫助...
其他的, 聽得明, 又講得到就算了.....故唔需刻意 train up, 小朋友學語言好得意, 你多同佢講, 佢自會明白...unless 你係要佢"好好", 咁就要另外 train, otherwise, just daily conversation will be good enough ga la...
請問我可以點做先令bb會分出向邊個說咩話呢?
==>你係講開個種就唔好轉, 即係你打算想 BB 學廣東話只同佢講廣東話, 即係好似爺爺麻麻咁 only speak in 台語, 唔好再同佢講國語, then sooner or later, she will know 同你講用廣東話, 同爺爺麻麻就用台語咁 ga la....just take that as 家鄉話咁喇....then 慢慢大左, 佢仲會係, 你地講廣東話/台語, 佢就會用最 common 既 language 去答你 (in Taiwan, guess still 國語, right?) 架喇....
==> 不過有一點你要留意, 台灣都係以中文為主, 英語既環境比香港更少, 我教過唔少台灣人, 佢地d英文都唔太好, 因為佢地 all documents 都係中文, 所以聽講都勉強OK, 寫就真係麻麻 (要真係響外國生活過 or study 個D , 第日又響 MNC 做個d 先會好d) , 亦常 avoid 去用英文, so 若你都想小朋友第日英語水平有番咁上下, then 要自小 create that English environment to her.....e.g. 唔好去誠品買翻譯版既書, 睇原著...至多先睇 simplified version, then 先 original cut....知嘛~~
1.想請問粉嶺或北區有冇好的幼稚園or 幼兒園呀?
==>響北區...無乜特別有 hot 既幼稚園, 較多有講係大埔個間聖保祿而已
==> 但一般嚟講...你可以留意下d 志願團體搞個d喇..個d都唔差架....e.g. TWGH, PLK, 救世軍 etc.... 不過最緊要係睇間學校收d咩人多喇...因為真係好老實, 北區都係屬較多新移民 or 綜援家庭之區域, 我咁講唔想俾人覺得我歧視人, 但真係有好多呢類家庭都係揾朝唔得晚所以理唔到個仔, 又或 even 根本有時間都唔理仔個d, 我就最怕, so you have to make sure 唔好太多呢類人出現響你心儀既幼稚園樹喇....otherwise peer influence...都真係幾頭痕....
2.如果想個囡囡容易D考入名校如女拔萃，係咪應該比佢讀九龍塘好d的幼稚園機會大D?
==> 唔係...你得閒就睇睇我另外個"精華區"喇...你要先明白, 唔係"個間幼稚園"機會大d....logic 係.....因為某d九龍塘係鍾意教得深d, then in this case, 小朋友答問題, or 識既野多d就可能有多少少著數 only, 即係.....都係要睇個小朋友掂先得架...呢d名校, 唔會因為你係"xx幼稚園"畢業就會收你, 個d幼稚園個名未有咁巴閉...而係都要睇個小朋友本身醒唔醒....甚至家庭背景亦唔多唔少係考慮之列, so 唔好諗住我俾得到佢去 xx幼稚園就實得喇, 都好睇家長點幫個小朋友既...小朋友又學到幾多咁喇....
不過, 好多俾得小朋友去呢d幼稚園讀既家長, 都係好緊張子女學業個d, so 都有幫助, 結果考得入之後, d人問佢, 你小朋友讀邊間架, then 就以為"入得個間幼稚園考某小學會有著數"之嘛...其實係不明箇中真正原因既"簡易"說法 only
4.其實小朋友搭車由粉嶺出九龍塘上學係咪會好辛苦呢?
==>呵呵....long travel 就梗係會悶喇...大人返公都響 bus "hup" 哂眼訓喇....如果小朋友返 AM 個d, 你自己諗下喇...不過有d 媬姆車係由 Fanling, Tai Po ar gum 一出就 Kowloon Tong ge...so if 可以 keep 到車程, say less than 30 mins, 都可以接受既...
==> so equip 小朋友一定既求生能力 (knowledge, skills) 自係必需, 但 build up 佢地個樂觀, 積極, 視失敗為另一學習機會, 明白要同到唔同人相處都唔容易 feel bad 先係高一線既技巧, 而唔係 always 諗 "how to deal with difficult people" 呢停較 passive 既 concept 先係更難....
==> so 大彥可能有 start conversation 既優點, 但冇 how to deal with different people 既智慧喇...呢點我先最頭痛, 佢呀...一唔 likey 就郁手郁腳, 人地同學仔"寸"佢一句佢又忍唔到要話番人, 呢d咪"精人出口, 笨人出手"既做法囉...唉...so 次次俾老師話個個就係佢...EQ 唔得...我依家就係要 train 佢呢d喇....唔係的話, 讀書幾叻都冇用喇...係人都怕左佢...係冇...??
咁係咪1歲到先好比我bb接觸英文呢?
==>Yup....in fact 就算三歲番學先去學我都唔會話太遲, the most important thing is it must be a "continuous stimulus" 即係佢一開始接觸英語就唔好俾佢斷, 要間歇性地, 不停地俾佢有一個 English environment to learn and practise...
e.g. 俾佢去d 英語會話 group every week, 響屋企定一個時段 only show English TV programmes, 俾一d 英語既讀本/報紙...你一邊講解佢聽 etc...都會好有用...
而最重要既係....encourage her to speak in English....咁先最得...諗諗有冇幼稚園 at Taiwan 係有雙語 teaching?
:cry: :cry: 之前我響精華區有講過架....一般 18 months 以上就可以 apply
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