I seldom reply post but this time, I am also really very angry! If I were you, I will also scold them. Ask them don’t distribute me again. I will also close the door. I don’t afraid that I will distribute my neighbor as I will call the security guard to come here and “push” them away. I will let them know, if you still continue like this, I will cut all the $$$ support!
Your husband may be very upset. Tell him that if a “good” family relationship is maintained by $$$$ only, then do u think it is a real “good” relationship. I will suggest even I have extra money, I will 助養 a child rather than employ a maid for your 細嫂!
As I type Chinese is very slow, so I type English. Hope you that you don’t mind.
Also, don’t be so sad about the baby, I also have the same experience(小產) and now I have two daughters.