EQ 同 IQ 似乎係兩會事,頭腦聰明,但應該要學懂如何跟別人相處。父母堅持相信子女完全無錯,一面倒去幫佢「據理力爭」真係好事?先不說子女是否真的有做過,並非別人做假。要一班中二學生站在法庭上說假話,我相信要莫大勇氣,為何大家會一致咁做?為何老師就算法庭判無罪,但會話「只係好彩判無罪」?為何中小學都會發生同樣事情?
樓主,我只想講 let it go. Give yourself, your son and your family a chance to start over. You cannot change the past anyway, so move on.
Even though your son may seem ok and look fine, it's really a tragic event for him, a teenager, to handle psychologically. You may not see the immediate side effects now. But it may trigger some undesirable issues later in life. Seeking professional help and counseling is not a bad idea.