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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

天氣又開始凍啦大家記住穿多件衫
要戴頸巾呀同埋唔好凍親個頭
如果唔係會成日頭痛

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

冇左 bb 兩個幾星期啦. 時間過得好慢, 感覺好似成個月咁長.
下個星期中要返工啦, 好驚見到d同事又忍唔住喊...

琴日去醫院覆診(第二科, 唔關生bb事), 個醫生唔生性問我宜家第幾周, 我都即時喊左出嚟, 佢重要好唔醒目咁問我點解會冇左呀, 係咪唔小心跌親呀咁, 真係想成張櫈車過去呀...

大家要幾耐才可以平伏到心情?

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ren

我好明白你心情,唔好咁傷心,已經係事實,最緊要養好身體,向前看面對將來,我一定會支持你,努力.將所有傷心拋諸腦後. :-P

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ren 寫道:
冇左 bb 兩個幾星期啦. 時間過得好慢, 感覺好似成個月咁長.
下個星期中要返工啦, 好驚見到d同事又忍唔住喊...

琴日去醫院覆診(第二科, 唔關生bb事), 個醫生唔生性問我宜家第幾周, 我都即時喊左出嚟, 佢重要好唔醒目咁問我點解會冇左呀, 係咪唔小心跌親呀咁, 真係想成張櫈車過去呀...

大家要幾耐才可以平伏到心情?

我都好明白你的心情, 好多時d醫生真係會問[點解咁唔小心呀?] 其實, 我真係好想同佢講, 根本就唔關唔小心事! 不過, 算啦, 始終係自己既感受最深, 外人又點會明白呢! 所以, 我地已經好幸福, 居然呢度可以搵到咁多同路人, 互相支持! 真係要向大家講句多謝先!

至於你問幾時先可以平伏心情, 我真係好難答你, 不過, 我要同你講一句, 要接受自己有唔開心, 唔好收埋, 如果返工真係忍唔住, 要喊就喊吧! 要釋放出黎, 如果唔係, 連自己既心理都攪得唔健康! 我地姊妹們要生理心理都健健康康去迎接新既生命, 是嗎?

囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

我小b在21周走了. 之前d同事同我講, 過左頭3個月就穩陣架啦, 唔使咁擔心架啦, 可以安心等生.
但唔知點解, 自己就成日覺得第5個月先至係關口位, 所以一路都冇同d朋友講有左, 諗住過左5個月先算. 結果, 又真係feel中左, 宜家唔使講lu.
今日用左成個下午, 執整齊左個衣柜, 收好晒d大肚衫裙, 大肚用品, 睇見d衫有一半仲未著過, 支肚紋膏搽左2次, 托腹帶用過1次, 好無奈lor...
另外, 講下我的黑仔經歷, 今次係第一次有bb, 咩都唔識.
阿媽一路都話我出過水痘架, 但我冇印象, 又無去check有冇抗體, 結果呢, 17周就出水痘了. 咁係有可能影響bb架, 所以大家真係要係有bb之前check 定晒, 有咩針打得既就打晒先.
咁仲未夠黑喎, 17周同時check到胎盤低, 19周時見紅不止 (枕住少少好似MC day 1咁唔停), 人人都話快d入醫院啦, 偏偏醫院又驚我水痘未好, 死都唔肯收我入院喎, 要我留在屋企"吽". "吽"到20周, 竟然黑到穿水, 咁大件事, 醫院終於肯收我入院啦! 以為小B冇梗, 點知又CHECK到小B冇事仲好OK. 奈何到21周, 小B都因我流血唔停而走了. :-(
我真係覺得要小B平平安安健健康康咁出生係唔容易, 要好多好多個好彩加埋才成事.
希望D唔好彩既事, 今次已經發生晒, 下次可以有好運氣.
亦希望大家都好運, 能夠做到金豬媽!
(我應該趕不及了, 最快要等鼠年LU...)

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ren,
我深深感受你的痛苦及唔開心, 因為21週應該感覺到小b的郁動吧! 我同你一樣21週時, 小b沒有了, 我還o係醫院渡過5個星期不停流血的日子, 日日流到好似m咁... 所以我明白的。

其實21週小產係同生無乜分別, 如果可以, 你應該放多d假, 我當時醫院比左4星期病假, 之後覆診又比多2個星期, 所以小產後我係休息左6個星期... 重有, 我都有搵陪月架, 你真係要好好補下自己身體, 有需要既話要睇中醫調理身體。

而家最緊要真係自己身體, 唔好比自己冷親!!
多d上黎同我地傾吧!

你一定可以渡過唔開心既時候的, 我已經過了兩個半月了! 大家努力吧!

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發表於 07-1-5 19:31 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

oiluen,
醫院俾左3星期假, 本來得2星期, 但我話唔想係新年咁喜慶feel既時間返工, 佢先俾多一星期咋. 個醫生仲話俾咁多假要在病假紙寫清楚你係小產架, 我心諗, 你寫唔寫清楚我都要同公司講清楚架啦, 傻架佢!
(今次嘅事, 我對香港醫療冇晒信心呀! d醫生唔係唔想我入院費事煩, 就係日日想趕我出院唔好霸住個床位, 直到我出左事, 小B出左嚟, 睇開我的醫生直情避開我唔敢同我講野, 因為佢日日都話冇事, 可以出院).

其實我頭頭尾尾都放了個半月病假, 再唔返工老闆唔使我返架啦.

希望返番工專注做野可能心情會快d好.

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

即使要返工, 你都要繼續補, 重有, 真係唔可以比自己冷親呀!

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ren，我都係過來人，雖然小產時週數同你唔同，但絕對感受到你嘅唔開心！
oiluen講得好啱，我哋一定要接受自己有唔開心，情緒一定要有適當嘅宣洩，唔好「谷」住「谷」住！雖然我心情已平伏咗好多，但有時諗起離開咗我嘅bb，個心仍然會痛（打到呢一刻，我又忍唔住

），我會容許自己喊出嚟，跟住真係會舒服啲！
而且，我覺得上嚟同有同樣經歷嘅大家傾吓，等自己明白不幸的並不只得自己，有好多人一樣有切膚之痛，傾吓傾吓，心情都會好番啲嫁

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

我下星期一返工, 但我只係休息左5日.
可能係之前醫生已經同我講最差既情況, 所以最後知道都唔會太傷心. 應該放鬆心情, 什麼都唔諗, 養好身子最繄要.
大家一齊努力吧!

ren 寫道:
冇左 bb 兩個幾星期啦. 時間過得好慢, 感覺好似成個月咁長.
下個星期中要返工啦, 好驚見到d同事又忍唔住喊...

琴日去醫院覆診(第二科, 唔關生bb事), 個醫生唔生性問我宜家第幾周, 我都即時喊左出嚟, 佢重要好唔醒目咁問我點解會冇左呀, 係咪唔小心跌親呀咁, 真係想成張櫈車過去呀...

大家要幾耐才可以平伏到心情?

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Ren,

I feel so sad abt your case too... For me, I Took 2 weeks to calm down myself. However, uptil nw, whenever see some pregnancy women, I still feel sad and think of my "B'. One of my fren gave birth to a BB last weeks. She is one of my good freind and I feel even sad.... seems so jealous gum...

I think it really need to take times to recover..

I do also really agree that the attitude off doctor is very important. I consulted two doctors last time and one is really good and one is really bad. For those bad one, they never understand how frustrated a patrient is.. in fact, we know nothing at all and really rely on their expertise to help us.. anyway, if you went to public hospital last time, try private hospital. It is much better.

besides, would you mind to share with us which hospital you went last time?

Hv a nice weekend!

Cherrychris

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Ren,
好多姊妹都講得岩,要好好休息及調理好身體,對日後的底子好重要, 時間是治療傷痛最好的藥物, 要向前看.多d上bk, 大家會鼓勵&支持你.

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Hello, Cherrychris,
I went to Prince of Wales last time, of course next time I will try private hospital if possible. At least c+政府兩邊睇.
Last time due to I had chicken pox, so even c+ 診所won't accept my booking, they just asked me to wait chicken pox totally recover/ bleeding stop, they said even I came to their clinic they can do nothing to help...肯俾錢都冇醫生肯睇我, 超級黑仔. (during my week 19, my husband had called more than 10 c+ doctor and wanted to make booking to consult about bleeding issue, but all refused / or said they already fully booked ...)
I understood that last time is totally due to bad luck, very bad luck on the day of bedding that caused bleeding at later stage, very bad luck that I got chicken pox, very bad luck that membrane broken...
Actually, me and my husband think that public hospital is ok, nurses are nice, but just those doctors are not so experienced and senior doctors made decisions based on some political concern, e.g. 床位問題, not focus on patient's need.
Some of my friends gave birth at public hospital, and they didn't had any compliants at all, so I think my horrible experience some how due to my bad luck and so many problems happened at one time.
Sometimes I think if baby should come to you they just straightly come to you. if it is not the right time, no matter how hard you try you still can't change the result. So what I can do now is just wait for the right timing (and of course get well prepared on both physically and mentally, for the right moment to come).

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

bun'seva,
老公已經好辛苦架啦, 要返工又要照顧我.
而且叫佢執個d野都驚佢諗返起小b而傷心, 女人就話想喊就喊, 喊完舒服d, 男人就始終會死忍lor...

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ren,

你要保重身體呀!
你講得岩呀,男人好多時面對呢d事會收埋自己情緒,因為佢地怕表現得太難過傷心,會勾起太太o既情緒,所以佢地都會幾大壓力.不過,你有時間,等自己情緒ok時,就要同老公傾下,幫佢減下壓,呢個時間要兩公婆互相扶持,我地會係呢度互相支持你架!!!

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ren,

feel sad to hear your story, but though , we sisters here are stand by u . let's share our feelings here.
take good care of yourself, maybe see chinese ec to improve your body.

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

NaughtyLuiLui 寫道:
ren,

你要保重身體呀!
你講得岩呀,男人好多時面對呢d事會收埋自己情緒,因為佢地怕表現得太難過傷心,會勾起太太o既情緒,所以佢地都會幾大壓力.不過,你有時間,等自己情緒ok時,就要同老公傾下,幫佢減下壓,呢個時間要兩公婆互相扶持,我地會係呢度互相支持你架!!!

絕對同意。我覺得應該要同老公傾下, 講下大家心中所想, 比自己同佢抒發下, 男人都可以喊既, 只要你地兩個互相支持對方便是。
我o個陣時出院後, 拉住老公話大家要喊一場, 大家要傾下自己既感受! 講真, 到而家我地都有傾下, 當然次數少左, 有時見到其他人大肚, 我都會有少少唔開心, 同佢傾下, 個心都會好d, 我覺得最緊要相方知道對方諗乜!

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

各位,
我終於歸隊了, 工作很忙, 很久沒上來與大家聊,看到一些新加入的姊妹的故事,默默為你們打氣,希望大家在新的一年,忘記不開心的事,2007年從頭再來。

近日與一位前輩談起,她再提我,「刮官」之後,好容易再有, 但那麼快有,可能身體未必ready,所以大家要小心。先調理身體,等多一會。

我近日再看中醫,她之前叫我唔好食咁寒, 現在又叫我唔好食咁補, 令我有點摸不著頭腦...唔知係唔係補得滯.

take care.

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