jennyjohnson,
If I will have BB again, I think I will quit my job to take care of my Baby. I don't think I am giving up my job for my family, just need to quit it for a while, maybe 10 years or longer. We still young We can wait till our child grow up and start again.
I think people in different stage has different things to do. Right now, I think I should put my time on my family.
Hi sisters,
I got a lot of information here and thank u.
Today I went to PMH for check-up to see whether I still have remaining parts in uterus,yes it does.Luckily, Dr.Lee(female) said it is a small tissue 4-7mm. Till the coming M,it will come out,she didn't arrange another check up for me because there is no space. Today I have been taken Chinese Medicine Dr.Chi(Late,from Kwan Fong) for three days, I think Chinese Medicine is better than the abortion pills(I took for 5 days) from hospital. It is really a good news that I don't need to do the operation.I worried for a long time.
Em,actaully Dr.Chi said the same thing as Dr.Lee---that small part will come out with next M. Dr.Chi's medicine is for moving out the old blood including the tissue,even though it has not come out yet. I have no spotting for about five days. Now I just have very little milk coffee discharge,like 5 pieces seasame per day.
Oh...I released!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for sharing your experience and comfort.
I felt happy that I rejected for operation from the very beginning even though Doctors suggested. Sometimes,except worries,why not wait and see another choice?
Hi Tomatoma,
Thank you for your information indeed.
Yes you are right, my mother will come to my home to make the "chicken wine" and I am going to prepare some chicken,'fa kow" soup...but I will finish the chinese medicine for two more days. I asked Dr.Chi(Late),he said I should stop any friuts and I can cook sth after recover period(whenever no bleeding)I have been using ginger water for washing hair and cleaning for a week with my husband's help. I will wait for few months to try a baby until I feel my body is totally recovered.
I hope you guys can take care of yourself first before thinking other try,this is more important.
Good Luck!
I am not going smooth very well..., I saw a herbalist and took chin. medicines then ( I felt better indeed ), but I got a flu the next day so I needed to stop the herbals for 'miscarr' until my flu recovered completely.
I had taken herbs for a flu for few days, and when I got my sick better, my alergy came out last night, my skin turned to colour red but very itchy. Its terrible! I went to see a western doctor, since I refused to have injection, I took pills only so my alergy would be gone very slowly.
Someone said, when bad lucks come in 3 times then will turn to good luck. Well, I got 'miscar', a flu, and alergy in two weeks, guess I will be very lucky at the coming days.
I have booked the Chinese Doctor that you suggested from the HK U. I made my appointment in the TST Center. It seems so full and I can only book on 4/5 at 4:15pm as someone cancelled this appointment. Luckily my office is just near to the TST center so I will try to "escape" from office to see Doctor.
Thanks for your advice about my concern in my job and bb planning. Actually I will prepare myself to have BB coz I just have these few years' time for this affairs otherwise it will be too old for me to have bb la......
Hi ChristeMe,
Thank you for your reply.For my situation,I commented okay. Because your situation is similar to me,I am quite concern. Unfortunately you got a flu.Hope u recover soon. When my mother knew my miscarriage,she reminded to wear more than normal,don't get cold,otherwise,terrible when I get older and older. So...even I was sweating, I still wear long sleeves. ChristeMe,take care of yourself,drink some hot drinks to keep warm.
Hope everyone get well soon and prepare for the next try!!! Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!
I get a flu / cold very easy. I need to keep my neck warm at all the time. Like you, I used to bring a long sleeves sweater with me, even in the summer time.
But you know, the weather recently has changed significantly, temperature rises a lot today but drops a lot next day. In fact, I was " 侷 親 "。
The herbs given by my chn doctor works very well, I has stopped my running nose today.
Once both my flu & alergy have gone, I will start again my " post-miscar treatment ". And then think about if I really want a 2nd baby.
My mother will come to my home to teach me how to prepare chicken wine after I finish the little brown discharge,she said it is easy to cook...
Later on, I teach u if I get the skill.
christieme is right: bring along a sweater and wear it when u need. if u always wear sweater, mind to be 焗親” and catch "熱感". I caught "熱感”for the past two weeks and just recover in this week jer. just let yourselve feel comfortable is ok^_^