all +, 有人說有孝在身不能出席紅白2事, 我唔懂。而家係即時除孝,我爸骨灰都上埋位, 而姨丈舅母係用天主教及基督教, 咁我地去有冇問題 - my mom used to say u could only go after 7-7 (49 days)...
basically if the other party don't mind such, and you want to go to show the respect, i don't really think that matters... but if you have senior at home and they believe all this traditional rules, then better not go just to comfort them...