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一黎, 試下用CONTROL CRYING O既方法, 即係等1分鐘, 拍2分鐘; 等2分鐘, 拍2分鐘; 等4分鐘, 拍2分鐘......二黎, 點都要佢下餐之後醒一段時間, 否則, 好易打亂你個SCHEDULE; 再者, 俾佢清醒一段時間係想佢D奶落格, 佢瞓O係度吐奶好危險, 最危險係, 你以為佢瞓左, 唔知佢吐奶

原帖由 gorbb 於 10-6-24 00:31 發表
明白明白。我聽日會同佢再戰，希望成功。唔好意思，想再問下，喺末成功之前，如果佢其中一個nap不停cry冇瞓，下一餐奶後係唔係點都要佢醒一段時間先瞓？

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我覺得食呢個時間係最易控制, 所以最先set好食o既schedule, 全日o既routine就會順d

佢nap完喊, 可能係未瞓夠, 又或者有野唔舒服, 又或者有少少肚餓囉囉攣都唔頂, 我個女都係個d nap半個鐘就算o既人, 食之前個d時間好多時都唔肯瞓, 因為佢個鬧鐘已經係到倒數緊, 我自己經驗係食一定準時, 反而瞓同玩就睇情況, train到有個pattern梗係好, 不過我媽湊, 唔會咁rigid, 佢會就番阿b o既情況, 但大致都有個譜, 有時我都覺得亞媽幾勁, 佢唔駛睇書, 都做到supernanny o既效果...哈哈

不過我個細女最好係, 從來唔要求抱瞓, 你抱住反而唔瞓, 係要落番床仔自己碌碌下, 同拿住條毛巾咁就會瞓

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唉, 今朝到依家都只係瞓左2個鐘多d (仲要其中一節工人姐姐忍唔住抱住un佢瞓著). 由於佢眼瞓時不停食手, 我決定比奶咀佢, 睇下會唔會有幫助, 夜d再報告

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唔會一次/一日就搞掂O架, 最少都要行呢個方法同ROUTINE幾日, 等佢習慣

原帖由 gorbb 於 10-6-24 15:44 發表
唉, 今朝到依家都只係瞓左2個鐘多d (仲要其中一節工人姐姐忍唔住抱住un佢瞓著). 由於佢眼瞓時不停食手, 我決定比奶咀佢, 睇下會唔會有幫助, 夜d再報告 ...

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aaasmama

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發表於 10-6-25 00:44 |只看該作者

buy him a Fisher Price Bouncer. It vibrates and it is really a life saver. They fall asleep so quick then I will move them to bed.

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Hi, my bb is now 2 month+2wks, now feeding schedule is 7am, 11am, 3pm, 7pm, 11:30pm,

Since sometime my bb is still sleeping when feeding time is due, should I wake him up to feed or I can wait until he wake up? especially in the last meal 11:30pm, he is usually very sleepy and sleep during eating...

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You don;t need to wake them up to feed. If they are hungry they will cry. Unless you have to feed before you go out!!

原帖由 h9800318 於 10-6-25 18:17 發表
Hi, my bb is now 2 month+2wks, now feeding schedule is 7am, 11am, 3pm, 7pm, 11:30pm,

Since sometime my bb is still sleeping when feeding time is due, should I wake him up to feed or I can wait until ...

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發表於 10-6-25 22:11 |只看該作者

Depends on
1) whether you want to train your bb to sleep on his / her own
2) whether you know your bb thoroughly, so that you react to his / her crying appropriately
3) what's your feeling about your bb's cry
4) whether you want to develop your bb's sense of security

The side effect of letting your bb to sleep and feed when wake up are
a) you don't know when your bb feels hungry / sleepy / other desires
b) he / she will have bad temper cos the bb don't know when will be fed (feeling of unsecure)
3) you will frustrate when you cannot fulfilll his / her needs and subsequently your bb cries helplessly

Obviously, I suggest you to wake your bb up on time for feeding

If you want to train your bb to sleep on his/her own, please read through this topic to get some ideas first.

The only reason I trained my bb and give him a fixed schedule is that I had enough crying and thus my bb. After the training and till now (17-month old), he seldom cries.

原帖由 h9800318 於 10-6-25 18:17 發表
Hi, my bb is now 2 month+2wks, now feeding schedule is 7am, 11am, 3pm, 7pm, 11:30pm,

Since sometime my bb is still sleeping when feeding time is due, should I wake him up to feed or I can wait until ...

[ 本帖最後由 pyjess 於 10-6-25 22:15 編輯 ]

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多謝你~
嘩你生AR B果陣咁危險..不過唔怕過咗去,以後你一家人都會身體健健康康^^(因為我現在終於真正明白健康的身體係好重要的)所以我希望每個家庭不論大人,小朋友個個都健健康康~

呢2日都算有個好開始,因為BB跟得番食奶個時間表LA^^我都已經好開心,,至於瞓覺都係唔肯,要抱住先瞓,仲要喊一輪先瞓,,唉~~
唉,,唉,,唉...嚟緊BB仲有一輪GA檢查要做,,到時又要插豆仔,又要插尿喉,,我己有心埋準備到時又要由頭TRAIN過,,不過唔緊要,,就重要係仔仔,順順利利,一切正常,,例行檢查啫~亦希望到時一次攪掂最好仔仔唔痛LA~

我同BB一定會加油的,,,好快我又要請教大家TRAIN BB的方法GA LA,,謝謝指教先~~^^

原帖由 pyjess 於 10-6-24 00:04 發表
首先, 你自己要保持鎮定先; 我自己有一個咁o既經歷: 生完bb, 姑娘發現原本落"點滴"o既管滴唔到, 所以要再搵好難搵o既血管, 之後, 我隻手多左6個針孔; 無耐, 我流血不止, 要再入產房/深切治療/手術室搶救, 出返黎, 我 ...

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係要慢慢建立返佢安全感, 定時作息, 你自己個心定, 教佢認識週圍事物...等佢明白佢身處環境都係安全而有規律

下次檢查要做D咩野, 你最好問定醫生/姑娘, 預早講俾BB聽, 每日 OR 隔日講一次, 等佢有心理預備, 仲要好輕鬆同佢講, 咁BB就會減少恐懼...如果自己/家人試過類似經驗, 可以同BB分享: 我都試過打針, 爸爸你細個有無打過針? 你都有呀? 係喎, 個個小朋友都打過針, 所以你唔洗驚....而且媽媽會O係你身邊...

至於我生BBO既經歷...雖然當時好辛苦, 但我好感恩我有一個咁O既經歷, O個一次, 令我睇到同明白左好多好多, 而且因為我病左, 出左院都照顧唔到BB, 奶奶同陪月開錯份量O既奶粉, 令BB飲多左水 (如果係我照顧, 一定會睇說明, 唔會開錯奶, 更加唔會俾佢飲水), 因為咁, BB黃O既情況改善得好快....誤打誤撞令佢好返....我信耶穌O既, 呢D叫"上帝早有預備", 唔信O既, 叫"暝暝中自有主宰"...

家人健康就已經好滿足, 有幾多人真係明白? 都只有你同我咁, 試過著急過, 先會了解...咁, 小朋友先可以享受人生, 唔洗死追難追學業成績...呢D, 又何嘗唔係"得著", 或曰: 因禍得福?

原帖由 allytang 於 10-6-25 22:55 發表
多謝你~
嘩你生AR B果陣咁危險..不過唔怕過咗去,以後你一家人都會身體健健康康^^(因為我現在終於真正明白健康的身體係好重要的)所以我希望每個家庭不論大人,小朋友個個都健健康康~

呢2日都算有個好開始,因為BB跟得 ...

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原帖由 pyjess 於 10-6-25 22:11 發表
Depends on
1) whether you want to train your bb to sleep on his / her own
2) whether you know your bb thoroughly, so that you react to his / her crying appropriately
3) what's your feeling about your ...

thanks, actually, I will wake him up in the daytime for feeding and he merely cry, but just the last meal, he usually very very sleepy may be sleep to 1am and crry for feeding, but if I wake him up at 11:30pm, he sleep and don't want to eat, it need over 1 hr for feeding

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To avoid waking him up after 12am, feed him at 11.30pm as normal. Or, set the last meal at 10pm and then fellow this routine every night. If so, he can sleep from, say 11pm to the next morning.

原帖由 h9800318 於 10-6-26 01:01 發表

thanks, actually, I will wake him up in the daytime for feeding and he merely cry, but just the last meal, he usually very very sleepy may be sleep to 1am and crry for feeding, but if I wake him up a ...

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HELLO..各位媽媽,
我個囡又係成日都扭眼瞓, 但自己唔肯落床瞓, 每次都要抱住又搖又氹, 比奶咀又唔肯食. 有時搞個幾2個鐘又到下一餐奶, 邊食邊瞓, 結果搞到再下一餐又遲O左. 我係下面條thread打o左詳細情況, 請問各位可唔可以教下我點樣搞返o岩佢個schedule?(http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/vi ... age%3D1#pid44054503)

Many thanks!!!

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A. 因為佢食奶量唔固定, 所以影響作息; 但5星期大BB, 應該吸啜反射未消失, 再者, 暫時我未聽過有5星期大BB厭奶....我估佢中途已經食左好多氣, 頂住, 食唔落, 不如佢食到60ML唔再食, 你同佢掃下風, 吐左風再食...KEEP住個奶量
如果固定到奶量, 先可以固定作息, 佢扭瞓O既問題會自然消失
B. 咁細O既BB, 食奶對佢黎講係好大好大O既運動, 一方面唔可以著衫餵佢食 (尤其而家咁熱), 另一方面, 佢一定好想瞓, 所以一面餵一面要用濕布抺醒佢食奶...但係食完, 掃好風, 佢有睡意就俾佢落床, 等佢習慣O係床上瞓著O既感覺
C. 有人抱就再瞓, 即係1)佢仲未瞓夠; 2) 佢覺得抱=瞓
所以, 唔係一喊就抱, 而係用最少干擾令佢再瞓...即係, 唔洗一喊就神經緊張, 你一樣回應佢, 不過慢慢黎, 做埋手頭上D野先...可能你做完手頭上O既野佢已經唔喊, 自己瞓過...就算應佢, 都係拍下佢/哼歌/講:媽媽O係度, 盡量唔用抱安慰, 同埋唔好開燈, 更加唔好望佢對眼; 而且你O既安慰只限2分鐘
D. 依依呀呀, 郁手郁腳....咁BB都要"運動", 未到餵奶同玩O既時間, 尤得佢自己玩...如果係瞓覺時間, 就俾"COMFORT ITEM"佢, 由得佢自己瞓, 當然你要同佢講: 瞓喇, 等佢知你俾佢瞓
E. 係, 由食奶開始計1個鐘都要係醒, 因為1) NAP唔可以多過3小時; 2) 食奶之後30分鐘一定唔可以瞓O係度, 而食人奶要食30分鐘, 所以得出1小時清醒; 如果你囡囡食20分鐘OK, 而佢又唔眼瞓, 你就同佢玩10-15分鐘先瞓
F. 想SET早少少餵最夜O個餐, 只要固定你想要O既時間, 叫醒佢食奶, 掃好風(MIN 30分鐘)唔玩但係要佢知道你放佢落床瞓, 之後, 唔餓唔餵, 直至早餐, 無論你4AM/5AM/6AM餵過, 早餐都準時叫佢起身食奶, 開始"食-玩-瞓"CYCLE
G. 佢太細, 水唔可以一次過俾得多, 唔可以當一餐奶; 而且佢個胃細, 真係肚餓, 當然要俾佢食, 不過慢慢戒, 因為佢其實真係好眼瞓; 用水代替用O係大少少O既BB, 佢地有心癮, 半夜定時定候醒左要用奶氹返先瞓, 佢地之前食左九大簋都會定時喊醒要人氹...唔係你而家呢個CASE
H. 如果BB食人奶, 完全唔洗俾水佢飲, 如果食奶粉, 可以O係佢瞓得少D O個個CYCLE俾一兩口佢飲....我以前都試過完全唔俾水BB飲, 結果, 就算佢飲日本奶粉都去唔到便便, 狂喊3小時...飲少少水+每日按摩可以幫初生BB容易D便便
但千萬唔可以一次過飲太多水
希望幫到你

原帖由 TTT520 於 10-7-4 14:59 發表
HELLO..各位媽媽,
我個囡又係成日都扭眼瞓, 但自己唔肯落床瞓, 每次都要抱住又搖又氹, 比奶咀又唔肯食. 有時搞個幾2個鐘又到下一餐奶, 邊食邊瞓, 結果搞到再下一餐又遲O左. 我係下面條thread打o左詳細情況, 請問各 ...

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你BB而家點呀? 好D嗎? 覆左診未呀?

原帖由 allytang 於 10-6-25 22:55 發表
多謝你~
嘩你生AR B果陣咁危險..不過唔怕過咗去,以後你一家人都會身體健健康康^^(因為我現在終於真正明白健康的身體係好重要的)所以我希望每個家庭不論大人,小朋友個個都健健康康~

呢2日都算有個好開始,因為BB跟得 ...

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你地好, 我bb原本都鐘意摟抱, 但自從打完2個月針之後就越來越摟, 連原本介左既夜奶都要食返.

我好想跟你既方法train佢呀, 不過唔係好明. 如果我bb而家9個星期大, 咁我應該點train佢好, 我試過想4個鐘比佢食一次奶, 但佢3個鐘就大喊, 係咁食個拳套, 好多時我都忍唔住比佢食. 就算有時餓佢到隔4個鐘先比佢食都好, 佢都係食100ml就收口, 點都唔肯食多d, 唔知係咪咁所以好多時崖唔到3.5-4hrs.

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同埋我都聽人講如果佢夜晚喊唔好埋佢, 喊喊下佢自己會訓返, 我尋晚都想用呢個方法, 但係, 佢喊唔停, 仲喊到咳(心痛死), 之後比奶咀佢, 佢狂啜, 我見佢咁餓, 都係忍唔住比奶佢, 佢食左90-100ml就訓返....

如果佢咁既情況, 我係咪應該由佢喊忍心d唔好埋佢呢?

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咁nap可唔可以放佢係high chair or swing chair呢?

我最近買左張swing, 放佢上去佢好快訓著, 但咁算唔算寵佢呢? 好似比人搖住訓咁.

同埋如果佢nap一陣就醒, 咁係咪都唔好埋佢, 尤佢自己訓返?

唔好意意, 好多問題~

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allytang

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多謝你關心

~
政府就未夠期覆診,但就約咗私家今個月20號諗住係私家度做檢查,,我係BK度FINE OUT度有D BK媽媽講私家度做好D BB無咁辛苦,,所以唔等政府LA,,不過都會2邊跟~

至於BB佢終於可以係3個月大前追番晒D針,,不過打打完肺縺針後發燒又扭計咗,,佢而家唔可以自己瞓至餘,,仲要當佢眼瞓時係咁大喊,仲喊都成面眼淚咳到"續"到TIM~睇嚟我都有排捱....因為跟住落嚟做D檢查又會令佢痛同驚,,所以我都唔迫佢住LA,,,而家KEEP到定時飲奶已經好好LA,起碼比度安全感佢先係咪^^
唔好意思,,我想問下,BB仲未介到夜奶,但係我成日都好驚佢吐奶咁掃完風,我都會抱多半個鐘,但係係BB飲奶時佢都瞓著咗,咁我咪其實每日都一定會抱住佢瞓囉???咁應該點呢?

原帖由 pyjess 於 10-7-5 00:26 發表
你BB而家點呀? 好D嗎? 覆左診未呀?

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