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miclui:

"要去花時間陪太子讀書". In my concept, it's a must and I don't think my kid would get high marks without my contribution. u emphasised this. do u mean it's 死讀書學校, 谷得好勁, 讀小d書就當你係異類...?how about 英華? 佢地行緊Edutainment, 會唔會學生同家長都無甘辛苦?
==> 又問英華...好..又再答過 (最後一次)...我之前講過, 對新校 (英華小學係早兩年先開辦番, 小六生成績如何仍係要等睇過至知)但大家對林校長響協恩既成就非常欣賞, 佢亦好多時成日出黎分享教學心得, 令好多家長都好 buy 佢既一套, 所以好受家長歡迎, 上年轉直資錄得 17xx 人既高申請數字. 好唔好睇你 buy 唔 buy 佢個套, 你問我, 我會話無論你用 edutainment 定係 project work 都係 learning approach 既一種, 冇話邊種特別好, 好多時係睇個 facilitator 點用d material 同事後家校再做幾多 reinforcement 功夫而定, 不過, 肯用唔同 approach 去 stimulate learning 都算係一種有心既做法, 總好過幾廿年都係要學生仔坐定定聽書咁既. 若你喜歡佢既, 考下先啦, 收先再 detail 比較都未遲.:)

會唔會學生同家長都無甘辛苦?
呢點好睇家長對學生學習既期望有幾高而已. 想得到多d, 就要付出多d 架喇...有人 target 100 分 each time, 有人合格就得, 呢兩個人要付出既"辛苦" 都會有分別了.

我有溫書ga...hehehe......甘如果以有利於搵好ga小學, 邊間會好d?
==> 間間都 OK ar..因為好多好小學都係要抽既, 你讀邊間真係冇乜分別.

若佢地都能讀得開心(即唔係死谷la), 甘邊間會學得多野d? 語文方面又如何? 我知佢地(宏福, 士德)都有外籍老師. 宏福是否較為活動教學?
==> sorry, 我冇知得咁 detail about 呢幾間, 至於外籍老師..依家我睇 90% 既幼稚園都會有, 係有 how many hours 既外籍老師響樹去教咁啦, 你問呢幾間我冇 exactly figures, guess you may need to ask those who are studying there right now. 咁會準d.

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Hi彥媽，　

民生vs祟真, 你會怎樣評價兩者，如考進其幼稚園是否可一勞永逸？他們在學界的水平怎樣？

請賜教！

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snoopybabi:

民生vs祟真, 你會怎樣評價兩者，
==> 一條龍學校, 民生有大校園, 歷史悠久, 而祟真係”後起之秀”, 佢以前冇搞幼稚園好多年, 前幾年先搞番, 仲係大搞 (即係一搞就一條龍, 雙語班...等等)

如考進其幼稚園是否可一勞永逸？
==> How do you define "一勞永逸" 先? 若你只係話可以唔駛考小學既, 咁我答案會係: "係", 但我心中"一勞永逸" 既定義會包埋"坐得暖個位" 同 "將來競爭力如何", etc... so 若係問呢點, 一條龍學校都唔會有呢個保証. 要"一勞永逸" 係要個"人" 得先有用, 唔係只係間學校得. 即係好似種花咁, 買到盆好花都 =/= 實好架嘛, 要日日淋水施肥佢先企得住腳嘛..."maintenance" is the key here....so in this case, 一條龍會唔會又令人少左一份競爭既動力呢?....我就呢方面係中立的, 冇話咁係好定唔好, 我只係想 bring out the other side of a coin for you to consider only.

他們在學界的水平怎樣？
==> 一般, 唔見有突出報導, 但亦起碼冇人話得佢好負面.

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Hello彥媽:
首先好多謝您肯用咁多時間去回答我地d問題呀簡直係我地嘅救星呀!!

我都有d問題想請教!!
1) 我住北角/西灣河,其實附近都有d好学校(例如基灣,丘佐榮,循道,cannasa...) ,中學亦有婦女会,張祝珊等,這些学校会否以灣仔區的差?(聖方濟,天主教聖保褖)

2) 呢d都係本區band1學校(北角),朋友時常叫我博灣仔網,說黠都好過北角嗰d,宝小都好過佢地,包括学生質素,是嗎?

3) 請問以你所知,以上所提及的学校風及學術成績如何?包括中學!

4) 請問點看公文式??

謝謝!!

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彥媽,

其實一直都好想同你講我好鍾意你起精華篇最後果篇文章, 真係講得好好, 而家個社會實在太多裙腳仔/女(我叫人造白痴)

言歸正傳, 我係嘉諾撤聖家(九龍城果間)old girl, 即係應該有20分, 入既機會大唔大? 應該專心"博"番呢間, 定係可以比個女試下第二d好d既學校?

多謝指教

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pp1238:

Welcome....

1) 我住北角/西灣河,其實附近都有d好学校(例如基灣,丘佐榮,循道,cannasa...) ,中學亦有婦女会,張祝珊等,這些学校会否以灣仔區的差?(聖方濟,天主教聖保褖)
==>seems like 你係問緊中學? If yes, 你依家列出黎呢d 都唔係好野黎架 wor, band 1 英中, 唔會輸蝕得過灣仔個d 好多既, 而且, 派中學 (唔計派位時), 係睇實力, 小朋友成績得既話, first round 已可跨區去考灣仔既中學了 (if you like), 仲可以揀 2 間, 咁既話好有機會丫...若你係問小學, 就以灣仔區既較搶手.

2) 呢d都係本區band1學校(北角),朋友時常叫我博灣仔網,說黠都好過北角嗰d,宝小都好過佢地,包括学生質素,是嗎?
==> 小學-wise 又真係多學校揀過北角既. 但咁 =/= 北角冇好學校丫...起碼一定唔係最麻麻既網 wor....寶小..Well...你個係女既 of course choice 更多喇...男仔既話就真係 net 12 易揀好多咁啦...

3) 請問以你所知,以上所提及的学校風及學術成績如何?包括中學!
==> 你問過好多間 above bor...有d 我以前有講過...唔好又要我 repeat 丫...你最想知邊間, 我先答好唔好?

...唔係的話, 我怕又要數 pages 先答得完的.

4) 請問點看公文式??
==>Kumon 係透過不停操練而達到效果的, 對d learning style 較 reflective 既小朋友會有用, 但較 active 個d 同有小聰明個d 好快會易 feel boring, 同埋, asians 對佢 (佢係 Japanese 創嘛) 又會較 westerns 好d 喇...你見日本人可以好 stable + quiet 咁坐定定 learn 就會明點解佢地可以創造到呢類既 learning...好唔好就要睇小朋友受唔受呢停 learning approach. 我大彥有學過, 對佢就效過麻麻了, 中彥以前有學, 依家就轉左去 selin (學林), 我最近俾佢返 kwik maths (summer course), 又見佢學得效果好 selin 少少, 我有意再俾佢開學試多次 kwik maths, 得既就停 selin 轉 kwik maths. Kumon 就應唔會再試.

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yf:

Hello, long time no chat wor....welcome back!!!

請問如果讀私小, 係咪多數都會上私立既中學? 如果讀返政府個d, 係咪會好難適應? 好大分別?
==> 都冇好大分別既, 小朋友能力得先可以考得上好中學的 (no matter 係官津 or not), cos 小學考中學係睇實力, 要"門當戶對"的 (e.g. band 1 生 vs. band 1 中學), 唔大可能有 band 3 生可以上到 band 1 中學 ga wor (私人關係冇得講) , 所以, 考得入, 即係成績到得到個間中學既水平, 咁應唔會太大問題的.

私小多會上私中係因為唔想煩 (因為多係一條龍) 而已. 話哂叫"直升" , 唔駛又同出面d 人爭嘛

培正既中學係中中, 你點睇? 對上大學會有小小影響嗎?
==>培正去到 F4, 5 science subjects 係英文書, 母語教, so 就d scientific terms 問題唔會太大, 不過你話英語水平上當然唔及得從小係英小, 英中咁一路上個d 喇...不過又唔係差到唔見得人既, 話哂佢都係一間 top 既中中, 佢咁多年都積極去補呢個人家眼中既"缺陷", 所以唔太大問題, 不過當然在於有d 家長而言, 仍是不足喇...

再者...其實我眼見, 真係好想小朋友 train 好英文既培中家長, 一般都係係中學後去外國升學多於 stay at HK 的.

培小, 培中係咪都係私立架?
==>培小依家係私立, 中學係津貼, 但有講會想轉直資一條龍, 但未落實.

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elmolly

其實一直都好想同你講我好鍾意你起精華篇最後果篇文章, 真係講得好好, 而家個社會實在太多裙腳仔/女(我叫人造白痴)
==> 多謝...我開呢個 forum 都係想家長們可以從多d 唔同角度去睇一件事, 唔好只係側重於某方面咁啦..依家細路係"矜貴"左, 反而抗逆力就差左好多, 呢點係我最遺憾見到既野. 但佢地點解會呢...唔會係一生出黎就係咁架嘛...so must be 家長佔最大責任去 nurture 出黎了....所以先要 align 自己 thinking 會有效於 align 細路 or 人地既 thinking 啦....大家努力努力..!! :lol:

言歸正傳, 我係嘉諾撤聖家(九龍城果間)old girl, 即係應該有20分, 入既機會大唔大? 應該專心"博"番呢間, 定係可以比個女試下第二d好d既學校?
==> 20 分應該都要抽, 但都有 chance 丫, 抽得過, 你母校口碑亦唔差, 純以 1st round 計, 你要諗, 你抽母校就有 20 分, 反而你抽 others (你口中好d個d) 就得番 15 分咋 wor, so 你係唔係想咁搏先..?? so 點計都係冇得點計....有d 無奈, 但 "策略" 上, 你唔咁行, 就冇 jetso....did you get my point here?

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彥媽,

唔該晒. 咁你覺得呢間學校好唔好? 係咪good enough to satisfy?

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elmolly

唔該晒. 咁你覺得呢間學校好唔好? 係咪good enough to satisfy
==> 呵呵...喂....你先係 old girls 我唔係 wor, 咁呢個問題係唔係你自己問番你自己呢個"局內人" 會更合適呢..??

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彥媽,

我以前果陣就"中中停停", 而家就唔知, 所以咪問下你囉. especially係校風. 因為我99住西環, 都唔知好唔好博. If can get a chance, I personally like 聖心 more.

另外仲想問下你專業意見. 之前我有比個女睇電視, 12月到而家基本上無再比佢睇, so far ok, she won't ask for it(除非有人比左唔比我知). 但見有d教材其他媽媽話有用(your baby can read), 都有心郁郁想試. 不過又怕佢如果迷上電視就失多過得. 其實我屋企仲有套DWE, (人地比既舊野), 我都無比佢睇, 淨係比佢聽, so far佢就由細到而家都好鍾意睇書, what do you think in this case? should I not to start it again?

Thanks.

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elmolly:

If can get a chance, I personally like 聖心 more.
==>咁你大可以去考聖心幼稚園, 再用呢個方法上佢私校個 part 小學 la...考得到咪去, 考唔到既, 考小一時再試多次, 唔得既就 consider back to you mother school la...

另外仲想問下你專業意見. 之前我有比個女睇電視, 12月到而家基本上無再比佢睇, so far ok, she won't ask for it(除非有人比左唔比我知). 但見有d教材其他媽媽話有用(your baby can read), 都有心郁郁想試. 不過又怕佢如果迷上電視就失多過得. 其實我屋企仲有套DWE, (人地比既舊野), 我都無比佢睇, 淨係比佢聽, so far佢就由細到而家都好鍾意睇書, what do you think in this case? should I not to start it again?
==> 唔太明你想問乜..你係想問你依家咁做有冇問題..?? 我見你話你阿女依家好鍾意睇書, 咁咪好囉! 你做得岩 bor...至於電視/VCD/DVD... 睇下冇問題既, 我認為問題既核心係要 teach 小朋友學識"控制", 即係"要唔睇就唔睇" 咁去唔睇一樣野 rather than 唔俾佢睇, 前者係 proactive controlling, 後者係 reactive avoiding.....人係要學懂控制自己咁會有用過唔俾d 唔好既野埋身就當搞掂, cos you could never control 外來既野 (as I always said before) , 人只可以 control 自己, 亦係最 effective.:mrgreen:

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彥媽,

未溫晒書(實在太多), 請問聖心既私小同津小邊間好d? 係咪兩間都可以升番上中學?

sorry my question sounded confused. actually I just wonder if those "material" really works (at least in some way), then if I should let my girl to go for it. I've read what you have dicussed on those materials, so just want to know if it's justify for her to learn something from those VCD but taking a risk that she may "fall in love" with tv. I know it's a matter of control, but it's not me who's the main care giver of my girl, it's my mom and helper, just don't think my mom will follow this coz she's the kind who thinks tv is fine...

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elmolly:

未溫晒書(實在太多), 請問聖心既私小同津小邊間好d? 係咪兩間都可以升番上中學?
==> 你知就好喇... (未溫哂書)....既然係咁, 你都知彥媽規矩係 "唔想重覆" 架喇~:-( 咁你去溫下書先喇...我已講過 about 聖心架喇...

剩係快d 答你既就係 :　”係...兩間都係上佢既中學"

I've read what you have dicussed on those materials, so just want to know if it's justify for her to learn something from those VCD but taking a risk that she may "fall in love" with tv.
==>我只可以講, 凡事必有得有失, 你又想佢睇, 又唔想佢 fall in love with TV...well...somehow 你唔覺得有d "貪心" 咩....?

As I always said, 凡事 all got a price, it's just a matter if you are willing to take that price or not only. 即係...你認為就算佢 after that fall in love with TV, 但因為咁真係令語文有良好進展既...then 又何妨...?? 問題只係在於你認為 (1) 值唔值得? and.. (2) 有冇 other choices??... 而已....

so if 你又冇時間親自去湊佢, 家人又唔大幫到手 at this area...咁...坦白講...要俾佢睇都算係較好既做法架喇....情況就等於, 你又想揾工人湊小朋友, 因為自己冇時間, 但又唔想因為咁小朋友以後只痴工人唔痴你...etc...咁...針冇兩頭利嘛, right? So far 我亦唔覺得個個小朋友一睇就會迷哂上去個 TV 樹, 我之前既討論只係在於 "我唔認為睇個d materials 對語文幫助真係咁大 - provided there are no reinforcement after that, and ... in view of the $$$ involved too". 而你既然都已有了呢d materials 既, 就唔好 waste la....睇下都得丫.

I know it's a matter of control, but it's not me who's the main care giver of my girl, it's my mom and helper, just don't think my mom will follow this coz she's the kind who thinks tv is fine...
==>Well..let me try to analyze with you in this way: 你要先諗: 你俾得人地睇細路, 就真係要預左人地有人地既一套 which you cannot control too much.. 呢點人人都要好明白, so 既然係咁, 你就要 take the "price" 阿女可能因為咁就 likey TV more, 但...(1) 咁又如何? and (2) 咁又係唔係等於 nothing to change 呢..? Then 唔係既話, 你又何必介意?

若你真係介意, 咁就先唔好問 "用唔用 material", cos this is not the ROOT problem, 你真係介意小朋友會 likey TV 而唔好既話, (雖然 no proof so far 真係咁就唔好), 咁要 "改" 既就唔係 "俾唔俾小朋友睇 TV" , 而係 "俾唔俾你阿媽湊", 因為呢個先係 fundmental problem, 你要做既係 align 你兩個既 values, 乜係好乜係唔好, 好明顯係兩母女都唔一致, 咁行為就梗係唔一樣喇, 而 somehow this relates to 你 decision criteria 既 priorities ar....唔好話阿媽喇...有時就算同屋兩公婆對教細路都可以唔同喇, right?

亦因此, 人人睇一件事 ranking 都唔同, 你認為"好重要"既野係人地眼中可以係不值一哂的, so 咁你就要問自己, which one you care more? and 係唔係唔同之後所做出黎既野就一定冇較好既補救既 way 呢...? etc...all these will affect your "ranking" to certain decision criteria 架嘛...

so in this case, 你若暫時都唔可以唔倚賴老人家幫手既, then somehow 有d 野你都要 "預左" 架喇...能夠做既, 就係 maybe "勸" 老人家唔好俾佢日日睇咁啦...not much you can do, right? 而我亦好明白 decision somehow is hard here for most families. Somehow 要 align value 去到 "做唔做一樣野" (俾唔俾小朋友睇 TV) 一定難過 align "做個樣野幾耐好" (俾佢睇幾耐), 可以先試從後者出發, 慢慢再步向前者 that may sound easier.

I hope I have made myself clear to you about my thoughts here la

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