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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

dear nkkcal and all,

小麥子get well now.

next saturday 7/10 afternoon, our club hse will organise a series of celebration program (from 3pm to 6pm) really quite attractive for kids. free of charge!
中秋嘉年華: 茶點、攤位遊戲、滑梯、lego、猜燈謎、太極拳術表演、跆拳kids表演、管弦樂show, etc.

interested to come and join? then moms can have a bit leisure time to chat! (of course, better if you bring a caregiver along, so that you may have free time to chat!).

pls PM me if interested.

littlemak小麥天行健，君子以自強不息！

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak,
你好, 我個女間學校今個星期都慶祝國慶, 都要著傳統中國衣服, 我係花園街買了一套, 不過真係由開學不停"花錢".

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak,
有好多書都講用情緒式回應方法.
即是先講出小朋友的感受, 表示大人知道佢現在做咩,
例如, bb, 我知道你唔開心, 公仔爛了, .........
我知道你好嬲, .....[quote]
littlemak 寫道:
dear nkkcal,
recently 小麥子 has some bad behaviour, he didn't explain why to do so, just suddenly sometimes, he kept on screeming very loudly. either neglect him or tell him not to do so, doesn't work. it seems not b'coz `attention seeking' as we are around him already, like taking the breakfast. just a bit not satisfactory (e.g. dropping the book onto the floor) he would screem, or said `打爸爸、打

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

dear tpmak,

唉!依代人做父母係咁架啦!

上要供養、孝順父母，一毫也不少，全部星期日也不夠用，做節等也要跑「

littlemak小麥天行健，君子以自強不息！

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak,
就係我地太"識想", 攬了很多責任上身, 現在真係放唔得低,
我都

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

dear tpmak,
we have tried also. 最弊(有時)當時佢冇乜誘因都發作呢！or, 問佢又唔識講，淨係話〝唔開心〞. we told him that even if he is not happy, he shouldn't say that kind of `angry words' but he kept doing it.
one of my friend told me, the `dark' days will pass soon. b'coz all `trouble two' are like this. when they become 3 yr old, everything suddenly turn good.
is it true? honey-dream?

littlemak小麥天行健，君子以自強不息！

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

Dear littlemak,

Sometimes I feel very tired when taking care of my daughter. I have to go to work at daytime. When I return home, I hope I can play happily with my daughter. However, she is so inco-operative that I want to cry. She may scream loudly without knowing why or refuse to wash her hands. If we insist, she will cry crazily.

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak:

Hi, Mroning
35lbs .......Your son is a big boy...

littlemak 寫道:
dear christine,
congratulations!
bb girl looks pretty, oh, she has much hair !
yours,

HeiHei Playroommike

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak:

Finally , you son have a day turn good.
add oil ...

littlemak 寫道:
dear tpmak,
we have tried also. 最弊(有時)當時佢冇乜誘因都發作呢！or, 問佢又唔識講，淨係話〝唔開心〞. we told him that even if he is not happy, he shouldn't say that kind of `angry words' but he kept doing it.
one of my friend told me, the `dark' days will pass soon. b'coz all `trouble two' are like this. when they become 3 yr old, everything suddenly turn good.
is it true? honey-dream?

HeiHei Playroommike

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

nkk:

Sorry, Missing you message...
Welcome to visit my girl as I am also free at home.
Wing Fung is recover or not???

HeiHei Playroommike

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak,
正如大家講, 你的問題都係我地好多個同樣有的問題,
我想, 只要我地唔放棄去繼續努力, 我想一定夢想會成真.
add oil for all!!!!

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak,
I cannot exactly conclude why 小麥子 behaved that, but I find Wing Fung will similarly behave when

1) I spent very little hrs with him on that few days. Then he wants me to hold/hug him more, he will PRETEND to cry and show bad temper to draw my attention, even I am beside him. Usually he will also say "我喊吖/我發聛氣吖". In that case, first I will stop him by saying firmly to him that "我唔鐘意見到小朋友發聛氣, 你發完聛氣先找我!", then about to walk away. If he calms down, I will talk to him and listen to him why he acts and what he is looking for...

2) There is a stage that Wing Fung likes to say "唔要你 !" to other people when he is 發聛氣, even me or his Daddy. In this situation, I will use super nanny's naughty chair to warn (punish if continue after warning) for NOT BEING POLITE. After that, I will encourage to say what he wants, he feels, instead of 發聛氣.

Of course, no matter for what other reasons he 發聛氣, I will make him sit in front of me by holding both his arms. Telling him (eye to eye) that I won't give him what he wants when he 發聛氣. He must stop 發聛氣 first. Then we will talk what and why it is happening....

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littlemak 寫道:
dear nkkcal,
recently 小麥子 has some bad behaviour, he didn't explain why to do so, just suddenly sometimes, he kept on screeming very loudly. either neglect him or tell him not to do so, doesn't work. it seems not b'coz `attention seeking' as we are around him already, like taking the breakfast. just a bit not satisfactory (e.g. dropping the book onto the floor) he would screem, or said `打爸爸、打

小穎鋒

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

Littlemak,
I am thinking also, but there is very little choice for me if I insist to find a full-time kindergarten.

Wing Fung had missed the 華服日（中國周 for this whole week) on this Tue because he was sick. I was planned to let him wear the Chinese New Year clothes jar...

Wing Fung's school had 中秋慶祝周 next week, I am very busy to make a lantern for him to bring back to him.

littlemak 寫道:
dear nkkcal,
it comes the time for K1 application. will you apply for some more as `back up'?
next friday they have the `traditional chinese clothes day' for mid-autumn festival celebration. any idea? where to buy the clothes?
tks !

小穎鋒

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

littlemak,

7-Oct, I am not sure if I am fully recovered yet. Yes, I am also sick, infected by Wing Fung.

小穎鋒

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

Chrisitne,
That's okay la, I was unable to visit on that day because it was very late when I arrived.

Wing Fung is getting better and back to school since yesterday, but still can hear some 痰 when he is coughing.

chrisitne 寫道:
nkk:

Sorry, Missing you message...
Welcome to visit my girl as I am also free at home.
Wing Fung is recover or not???

小穎鋒

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

dear carollpc,

same problem we are facing.

when i come back home, it's already 730-830pm. after my dinner, it's already 8pm-9pm, almost his sleep time. i want to start my training program, or simply telling story, but 小麥子 seems on purpose show some bad behavior to irritate me. that's why i am thinking when i should re-schedule my work. how to balance between family, business, career, child ed? sometimes feeling very frustrated and tired and guilty.

the biggest problem i am facing is: 1. EQ - to control my temper, and how to enhance his discipline. 2. time management.

add oil !

never give up on child. they are the gift from God.

littlemak小麥天行健，君子以自強不息！

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Re: 2004年4月媽咪會 (Part II)

dear christine,
he is tall 92cm, and thinner now (after sick for 1 week). less than 35 lbs ! sigh...........

littlemak小麥天行健，君子以自強不息！

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