其實principle 就係, we want to see : positive (or reward) consequences associate with good behaviour; negative (or punishment) conquences associate with bad behavour. It is because we realized that it is not appropriate or difficult to break the cycle of bad behaviour by using positive reinforcement. Also, we don't want to see our kids manipulate the parents.
Vienna 唔會扭玩具, 可能佢仲未咁醒識得咁做吧! 遲d就唔知....Hm....關於講野, 我都冇心得呀...我奶奶話見到咩野就name 個樣野出黎, 佢地就會慢慢意識到個樣野既叫咩, 或學我地講野既口吻 等等...每個孩子講野既早遲都不一樣, 不是說早d就smart d, 係先後次序的不同而已, 當然如果係special kids e.g. autism 就有大分別, but 呢類通常都會related to other conditions e.g. no eye contacts with people, not respond to what you have asked them ...etc.. 這些就要有特別注意或栽培...唔使膽心, Alanis 一定唔係咁, 佢可能係"想" 多過 "講" 既人吧! 你知我地都有唔同性格啦...係咪? 我記得Zac 係呢個年紀時都係識講 "daddy, mami, bye..." 咁咋....佢而家大左, 你叫佢停都幾難...哈哈....相反黎講, Vienna 講野先開步, 但我地估計佢會比Zac 內向, Zac is very extrovert, Vienna 可能係introvert. But we don't know. We just guessing.
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Horace 好d 冇? 我都癲左兩日, 因為Vienna 有ear infection. 不過佢食緊antiboitics...recovering 中. Vienna 以前見到strangers 都係咁架, 佢仲要捉到我好實 (係"meet" 住我d肉), 好似驚我掉低佢咁....但後來去左childcare (only two mornings a week), 就明顯好左, 而家仲好鐘意同strangers 玩, 特別係女仔, 成日放個頭係人地個shoulders 度, 你有冇帶Horace 去下playgroups 或 play centre 咁呢? 不過跟得人太多都有唔好既地方, Zac 從小就鐘意跟人, 所以試過有次係church 跟左個姐姐, 個個姐姐又passed 佢去另一個人...passed 左好幾個人, 最後要搵佢, 係car park 搵到佢呀...真係嚇死我地! 好彩冇事咋....不過我都有d責任應該睇緊佢既....
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Hi! 你好嗎 ? 我叫樂樂呀.....英文名係 Horace呀.....
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