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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

SY_mom,
As 你99 complains 你外家唔係child proof, 佢屋企咪又唔係child proof... BB有權見所有人, 公公婆婆更有權見個孫...
希望你老公3rd week 公幹時, BB同你順利去Macau 同公公婆婆住1個week... 好掛住啲紫菜肉鬆卷, 你幫我食多啲, 食到肥肥白白, 開開心心, ok?
Natmama, babygigi,
Amanda都係至愛Wiggles 呢...(而且又係Australian made, 好有親切感呢!!!

).. New york 係上晝9時正做20零分鐘, 之後11點零鐘又做, 不過會係另一集, Amanda會顛晒.... 又跳又叫, 跟住唱歌...

下晝啲節目...唉!agree with Natmama, 好粗魯....我多數俾Amanda睇Wiggles DVD/ baby einstein..(有冇串錯字?)
babygigi,
好呀! 遲啲出嚟飲茶等Amanda可以同Ryan仔玩...
Zic個老公叫Ryan, BB仔叫亞Kurt 啊!
我哋都有買Musical mobile, 最終放咗喺車用, 出夜街時好有用, fisher price嗰隻有月亮星星透光...Amanda好鐘.意.到佢滿1歲car seat轉front face先至拆..
Babygigi, Cutie_mommy, zic,
遲啲我哋都整個gathering 玩1次煮飯仔, 好唔好?
各位媽咪,
我老公讀小學時已嚟美國, 係citizen 20幾年... 03年12月頭我已打手指模同影相... 之後就冇哂下文... 打去移民局, 佢哋話new york 宜家至做梗02年9月啲case..有排都未輪到我, 叫我等多2年... 真係'忽忽地', SSC state住我有權工作, 亦有工作咭... 但就冇醫院請我.... 好唔開心.. :-( :-(
Marble, babygigi, Natmama, cutie_mommy, Shiba_Inu, Junw, meeemeee, 小肥佬, whalebb, zic,
我同肥bearbear老公就係奇怪... Amanda以前好跟美姨, 而家佢成日喊, 大脾仔2邊同右手under arm 下面有腫起瘀傷, 好唔對路... 所以至更加留意, 加上我唔俾美姨同Amanda沖涼同瞓夜晚覺(目的係自已可以知道工人有冇harm Amanda, 沖涼時冇着衫就一目了然... nitenite時BB喊好多時係反映日頭有冇事發生)... 咁我哋就更留意美姨, 上星期, 浴室一半裝修好, 叫佢去抹抹塵都當聽唔到...唔緊要, 但harm Amanda就勢係假...
今朝7時半, 美姨嚟噤鐘, 我冇開門俾佢, 因為佢企得好鬼鼠,我怕佢後面有人, 一齊入屋時點算??所以我唔開門囉, 9點幾又打嚟, 話漏呢樣漏嗰樣... 佢有乜, 噚日都執晒啦, 唔知搏乜??

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

clarab,
咁等我年尾追多個, 等佢哋4個玩埋一堆先!!!!

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Nillie_mami,

my own parents could come over to visit bb if we really can't make it. however, 99 and i already not happy w/ each other after being together for 4 days only. i don't know how i can stand her for one more months (actually 7 more months if she's coming back w/ us). i feel so uncomfortable staying here!!!
she always wants to in-charge in every single thing (even the very tiny ones).
sigh ... i regret we came back this time! don't know what i should do! sometimes i feel like she's treating me just like her own philipino maid! sometimes she called her maid my name by mistake

i always feel like i were a thief at her house! also, i need to make sure that bb won't make a scratch in his newly remodelled house. when she remodelled her house, she just thought abt what she wanted and for beauty (not for child proof at all). there's no gates at all the windows at all! we all hv to eat in the kitchen (although not too small in HK but still crowded), cos she's afraid that bb would mess up her dining room.

since Mei E is gone, any plan for hiring another one or sending Amanda to pre-school full time?

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發表於 05-4-3 03:29 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

SY_Mom

Thanks for your reminder..Actually, I just give him 1/3 jar everytime. ( Taste is yummy yummy...)
Your mother-in-law is so selfish and arrogant, she only thinks about herself. I hate to stay with that kind of people .. When I lived with my sister,she also wanted to get in charge of everything, but sometimes her opinion was undeliberate or unreasonable . Finally, we had a big big fight..

Nille_mom

I can't believe you have to wait for your green card so long...2 years ? Before the efficiency of immigration was horrible in LA , but they improve a lot now..
Don't be sad, just keep looking ... (add oil ar)
Did you blame 美姨 when you saw the bruise on Amanda's side ? If I were you, I would go crazy

...
will you consider installing nanny cam next time ?

whalebb

Don't be silly, the weight can't tell everything..I weighed 135 lbs before, but noone could tell it.. they thought I only had 120 lbs...

If you think the tummy tuck bothers you that much, just do some execise, such as sit-up or even jogging with 2 cuites...To me, you're not fat...

Natmama

How dare the mexican stole his locker-mate's stuff ?
it's mysterious.. ?-( ..such a dumb axx..

I'm so lazy to make the congee for mini-matt.

. I talked to my mom last night, she said to me, it's more healthy to make some congee with fish or chicken for him..maybe I will make it with salmon..What do you think ? I'm just worried about fish bones..
Why don't you try to make food without salt ? maybe she will like it..

babygigi

it's normal the newborn bb has 鬥雞眼..But it doesn't mean we should make them worse.

your husband's so funny..

Clarab

"佢呢個月(3月份) 已幫其她女人接生咗超過50個BB. 我地呢區好缺OB, 陰公!!!"

unbelievable..it's amazing..

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發表於 05-4-3 06:04 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Aloooohaaaaa!
nillie_mami, 我以為得我係咁咋, 所以一直無bring up 入籍申請呢個topic. 我同你情況好似.我係2003 年8 月交哂所有申請表. 等到2004 年8 月, 續個employment authorization (為期一年). 1 個月後去埋interview. 但個interviewer 話, 我個background check 仲係pending. 所以要等, 但我都唔知等咩. 搞左咁耐一直都無receipt number. 所以唔可以係網上check 個進度, 今年一月頭打電話去個customer 部門問,佢話會跟進,應該一個月內有人同我聯絡, 如果無就再打去.點知真係無人聯絡我, 我2 月再打, 佢同我講番同一番說話. 叫我3月再打過. 我都唔知點好. 我好想返香港呀. 一日唔批，　一日都返唔到去．　除非係緊急事故，　仲要兩個星期前申請呀．　
不過你

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發表於 05-4-3 07:41 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

nillie_mami, 咩亞美姨咁架．請工人真係唔易．我睇得香港

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發表於 05-4-3 07:53 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

SY_Mom,

Your 99 is quite ridiculous for calling you the wrong name...I think she is doing it on purpose to make you feel bad

Why don't you take a short trip to Macau and just tell your 99 you're meeting up with friends in HK. Once you arrived, just call your 99 and say your friend could not make it so you went to Macau and will stay for a few nights. Have your parents talk to her on the phone so she knows you are not lying. I think she will have smoke come out of her head but cannot do anything becuz you're there already....hehehe...

Nillie,

Just ask the nanny what she left at your house and ship it back to her. Did she admit to harming Amanda

...becuz she must have lots of guts to come back after you confronted her

They also play "The Wiggles" here twice in the morning. Does Amanda like the little yellow "Clay"...Natalie loves him...she also likes "Stanley", and "Higgly Town Heros".

Becuz she watches it so much, I remember the songs too....

Little Fat Man,

I am a lazy mom too so that's why I'm very thankful that Natalie likes her bb food. Even my grandma said I should start making congee for her and add some meat "chicken/pork" but it's so much work...u know me not a good cook

If you want to make fish congee for Mini-Matt, maybe you can consider buying a small food blender. Then you can blend the congee first to make sure the bones are gone. But becareful when you select which kind of fish becuz of their mercury level.

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發表於 05-4-3 08:45 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Natmama,

i'm too "useless" that i can't take bb out by myself in HK, cos i'm not driving and he's always running around. so, i hv to rely on my hubby to go out w/ us.

my 99 does not like me going out a lot either, cos either my hubby or herself would need to take care of bb. yesterday my sister called and i told her i was going to the bedroom to chat w/ her. however, she said "don't expect me to watch bb, cos i need to watch the maid to cook". my hubby was gonna invite my friends over for dinner since he's gonna hv his high school reunion, but 99 said something like "we don't hv time to serve them, etc.". so, i dared not to ask my friends to come over, esp. those w/ kids cos they might mess up her newly remodeled house.

btw, for the fish, usually the small ones are fine and should be no mercury in. usually the big ones living deep in the sea contain more or less mercury, but once in a while might be fine if no other choices (when u eating out or something).

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發表於 05-4-3 13:05 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

muimui,
有位叫loverly heart 俾你嘅message.. 如下:
Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子
hi muimui313, 我老公exactly同妳老公一樣, 唔飲水, 只飲果汁, 汽水, 啤酒或其他有味飲品, 可以食薯片當一餐. 佢係芬蘭人, 我係芬蘭都好寂寞, not much chinese here. 我想搵個同聲同氣傾下都冇:-(
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原來你仲早過我入紙呢!!! 但就冇醫院敢請我, 我有3個國際專業資格, 又係手語翻譯, 唔做嘢... 我真係唔知讀20幾年書為乜??? :-( :-( :-(
聽AM1480講, 如果已interview, 但唔pass, 因為有懷疑你哋嘅婚姻案, 你有冇補寄阿瀝仔張出世紙俾immigration office?? 寄一寄可能有用... 而我--> 等interview都仲有2年呢... :-( :-(
SY_mom,
me-->

your 99... she is insane and crazy...

No Gate at ALL WINDOW... Ooo my god.. OOoo.. you better watch out... She is so mean and un-educated (excuse me of my anger because of your 99's behaviour).. for me, I will pack my bag&keep BB with me and go to Macau and stay with my parents, no matter how mad she yells at my back!!!! NO WAY!!!!!
Natmama,
Amanda loves Clay, she loves Stanley as well, and she loves Koala brothers, but not much now. She loves JoJo & circus and Go baby!!! she loves all songs at Disney channel, and she will do all the motions as inside the songs.. so I know that she understands English better than Chinese, what a shame....

, me and hubby's chinese are very "so so"... so even we teach her, we feel that it is pretty hard some times.

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發表於 05-4-3 13:25 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

小肥佬,
美姨 even blame Amanda 自己makes 自己'魚'咗....

... Amanda係好'好動' 但未至於連右肋骨上有瘀痕嘛???? 冇可能!!!!
所以咪俾我鬧咯....
我哋就係打算set 晒camera(厠所同工人房冇)喺每個角落, 我會講到明我係有camera喺屋企, 除非個工人'身有屎' ,咪根本唔駛怕, 一來保護Amanda, 二來都係保護個工人姐... 咁如果Amanda大啲識講大話, 就會有誤會咯!!
Natmama,
我嬲起上嚟而家掉晒佢無攞嘅嘢, 以為我屋企係motel 咩, 我所有鎖即日係Loews買過同換晒 (因係2 family 屋又有basement, 所以有3個出入口).. 佢想用舊門匙都唔洗旨意 .. (佢好cheap, 話就話俾番晒鎖匙我, 但我踢佢走個日下晝, 佢想用私下配嘅鎖匙開門,(因佢打我手提3次都冇聽).. 但我落咗防盜閘, 佢開唔到門, 先至打我屋企電話俾我同按鐘... 好壞心腸... 以前原來一直扮好人.... cheap 精!!!!

佢唔駛旨意再入屋呀!!!
muimui,
你揸乜嘢visa入境?

我揸K3, 我都返過香港2次, 唔駛i-131架!!!
有幾種visa都唔駛advance parole...
分別係 H-1B, L1, V, K3/4, 有valid visa 同轉身份, 都唔駛申請i- 131, 可以自由出入架, 你去以下網頁 look look la..
click here --> 回美証<--
入呢個 government website仲可以check 埋點申請migration 同入籍其他資料呢!!!

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發表於 05-4-3 14:45 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

nillie_mami,
唔該哂, 等我得閒覆下佢先. 自從黎左呢邊chat, 都無去咩去其他討論區蒲lu. hehe.

其實我interview pass 左, 因為我當時大住個肚去, 個亞姐見我個肚咁大個(起碼5-6個月). 佢都費事問

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發表於 05-4-3 18:20 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

hi all mom:
long long time no see wo...
近來好忙,so都無留 message比大家...
多左幾個新媽咪喎.多多指教.....

clarab:
你就勁開心啦..congratulation!!!
點呀,今次想生仔or女,我諗你都係想生仔仔啦..係咪??
我都想生個女女呀.....

小肥佬:
你仔仔點呀??識得爬未呀??而家幾重呀??
我個仔成7個月都未識坐咋,而家仲未出牙仔...

babygigi .marble:
你地個仔仔點呀?? 得閒send d相比我睇下啦...
你地d身材 keep 返未呢? 努力呀.....

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發表於 05-4-3 22:10 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Nillie_Mami,

i guess 99 thought the gates at the windows would be blocking the seaview and not pretty (she always tries to make things look "high class"). u remember what was her position at work, right?

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發表於 05-4-4 01:28 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Nillie,

Looks like the Disney Channel broadcasts the same shows for East and West Coast. Natalie only gets to watch about 3 shows a day depending on when she wakes up. Usually I will play some music for her when we do our morning routine (clean, change diaper, play) What do you think about the new show Charlie and Lola, I think the characters are not that pretty compared to the other ones :-| :-| :-|

SY_Mom,

Don't call yourself useless...that's what you 99 wants you to think

Did you bring a stroller with you? Maybe you can just take your baby for small walks at the nearby malls, then you can release you "air"

I remembered you said your parents will be able to visit you in HK, will they be staying for a few nights?

Chingbj,

Long time no see la

How is your little guy doing?! Natalie is 8 months and I still have to be near her when she sits ....sometimes she will loses balance (try to grab toys) and falls...

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

NILLIE_MAMI,
噤美姨都好過份0窩﹐稔著你唔係屋企就用自己配既KEY入屋。好在你醒目落左鏈﹐如果唔係屋企有唔見野就唔好。
係呢﹐個MUSICAL MOBILE如果我想放係車度你夾著CARSEAT定邊度架?

SY_MOM﹐
你奶奶都好掂0窩﹐比著我彩佢都傻。又唔係要同佢住﹐做乜要看佢面色0窩。

MUIMUI313﹐
呀歷仔點呀﹐最近有無新野發現他學識左
我媽媽既車禍係差唔多4-5年前架啦﹐後來她有幾個月都唔噤搾車。
你老公好搞笑。
RYAN個BOUNCER早排都玩厭左﹐後來我地買左個SWING﹐SO FAR都OK。我成日覺得初生BB好悶﹐要等D大人同佢玩。

CHINGBJ﹐
嘩好耐無見到你0窩﹐湊仔仔個媽媽好唔好?

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發表於 05-4-4 06:44 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Hi all moms,
Long time no chat la!

Nillie,
I finally found out that I need a chinese software in order to use the sui moun tim.

How did Mei E get your door keys to make copy?? You and bear bear hubby were so smart that you guys went to buy new locks right the way!!

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

各位
我今日自已整方包
結果..........似大豬仔包 :cry: :cry:
幫細女剪頭髮剪左留海
好可愛

chingbj
近況好嗎?
妳又收左身未

sy mom
妳用車仔同bb去街呀嘛
買多d靚衫呀
通常我遇到好似妳奶奶口咁x人
我也不會理佢

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

muimui,
小黑嘅mistake, 怪唔知得會拖咗咁耐, 移民局啲人有冇話收到小黑啲資料喇??
我只有I-485嘅recipt number, 我都打過3次, 因為我visa, employment authorisation, 同driver license 5月到期.. 所以rang up 問佢哋我點算

個個姐姐都話叫我先入form re-new 所有証件, 仲話BB有權見公公婆婆, 叫我re-new個visa之後帶Amanda返去同我家人玩吓, 佢話明白唔係人人可以話嚟探我就可以嚟探我喎!!!!
我3月已寄晒form... 唉!又俾移民局賺錢喇

唉!今年已結婚3年, 因為冇green card, 冇得申請入藉添.. 真麻煩... 出親境都要有肥bearbear老公同Amanda同行, 我先可以入番境! 攞嚟攪... ?-( ?-( ?-(
chingbj,
你好... 我叫Nillie, 住new york, 同Amanda(19個月)&肥bearbear老公1家3口呢!! 好高興認識你

SY_mom,
She is insane and mad... I won't care about the seaview, that is crazy....!!!! Never opened window.... OOo my god.. I can't accept it.. Take BB with you and go out la... or just ignore 99...
If I were you, I definately act as I am deaf!!!! and take BB with me and stay with my parents until my hubby's business trip finished.
Natmama,
Amanda doesn't like Charlie and Lola, she ignores it, and when it shows on, she will walk back into her play room and pretends to cook inside the room... some times, just plays with her wood pizzles, tries to fit all the pizzles into the board.. ^o^
Amanda loves the Gerber vegetable, apple, banana, sweet potatoes favours of the puffs (finger food-- flower shape), now she loves to hold the bottle, and eats by herself.. sometimes, she can eat about 30 puffs in one time.. (she is definately a PIG)
Babygigi,
我哋上佢上去個凳,墊頭個cushion喥... 因為BB係rear face, 而且我哋有remote control, 所以可以揸車時控制開關, 買咗2個一色一樣, 點知--床上面嗰個冇用過...唉!
meeemeee,
我有俾spare key美姨, 因為佢以前weekend都喺喥瞓, (佢同佢外家同住, 成日鬧咬...所以好多時weekend都唔走)..
踢佢走嗰日, 佢還咗鎖匙俾我... 而佢出門口後我好順手lock門同上防盜鎖.... 所以, 當佢返嚟攞嘢時, 門鎖冇lock, 同防盜鎖開咗一半, 我就知佢靜靜雞再配鎖匙, 佢精我都唔笨, 我一口氣換哂3把鎖同掉晒佢剩底啲嘢... :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:
各位媽咪!
春天來了! Nillie_mami在Hay fever當中!!!!!

whalebb,
我未試過焗方包呢.... 疍糕, pound cake, cookies, muffins我都敢整... 我真係唔識整麵包, 可唔可以教我?

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發表於 05-4-4 14:09 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Natmama:
你有無買學行車比你囡囡呀??
我有買比我個仔..不過佢都唔識行既...
懶到屎,都係企一陣咁大把..
你個女識認你未呀??我個仔個個都跟家..真係比人握左都唔知呀...

babygigi:
喂喂,我未見過你仔仔呀...你快d send張靚相比我睇下啦!!!
my email: [email protected]
唔知你仔仔點既呢??你而家湊成點呀??
你老公有無幫你手一齊湊下咁呢??
有個仔仔係咪開心好多呀??

whalebb:
我個仔而家7個月了,我諗都算收左身掛,不過比未生時重左2 LB,
個肚仔大左好多...
不過我好驚生第二個時收唔返...你呢??
你二個囡囡點呀???

Nillie_mami:
hihi,我個仔仔7個月了....我係全職湊仔媽咪....
乜你咁耐都未攞到green card既,我同我老公結婚唔夠一年就取左臨時green card了...
你真係要留意一下了.....

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