i am of the view that 樓主 has her own point of view, make clear of what she want at early stage of life and go for it ... although so fond of $, but so this is HK... nowadays, even HK c6 look for rich woman for daily financial support ... why only blame HK female, how about HK male, look around and get real.
so far, i did not see樓主 become "another woman". lots of HK female looking for guys (married or not), those kind of women, is of very low quality, but not 樓主.
She did not do anything to harm anyone, just play a little games to those cheap cheap HK guys, that's all ....