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發表於 05-5-25 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

mr1212：

唔駛

，有機就請我

就得架喇！

mr1212 寫道:
ho_mama,
好清楚呀, 我而家奀啦, 唔該晒!

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發表於 05-5-25 11:18 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

hugoma：

Sik sik 不嬲係婆婆揍？　佢可能係一時唔慣既唧，next time 唔好 beat him 啦，咁咪盞佢更想搵婆婆黎求救！　

Next time，try try ：
－同佢講，要佢乖乖，家下夜啦，婆婆覺覺豬架啦，你叫婆婆聽日搵 sik sik；　
－或者，唔係太夜既，就 call 婆婆，等婆婆親口同佢講，叫佢唔好曳，唔係婆婆就唔鍚 sik sik ，唔黎見 sik sik 架啦！
－再唔係，搵ｄ佢最 like 既野黎 distract 佢，如 VCD，magazine，pictures，etc.，千萬唔好再提婆婆呢兩個字！

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5684^#

發表於 05-5-25 11:34 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

morning,

BK always "short short" 地 on these few days

hugo_ma,

sik sik already moved to your home, ie you're no longer be a weekend mother

Agreed with ho_mama, don't bite him next time & try to find something he likes (snacks, drinks or toys etc) & let him forcus to another things

You know, he follows bobo for long time nei...

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發表於 05-5-25 11:57 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

Ho_ma,

I had tried point 1, but failed....

I just call bo bo for point 2, hope bo bo will do it......
for point 3, when you're angry, remember nothing !

ho_mama 寫道:
hugoma：

Sik sik 不嬲係婆婆揍？　佢可能係一時唔慣既唧，next time 唔好 beat him 啦，咁咪盞佢更想搵婆婆黎求救！　

Next time，try try ：
－同佢講，要佢乖乖，家下夜啦，婆婆覺覺豬架啦，你叫婆婆聽日搵 sik sik；　
－或者，唔係太夜既，就 call 婆婆，等婆婆親口同佢講，叫佢唔好曳，唔係婆婆就唔鍚 sik sik ，唔黎見 sik sik 架啦！
－再唔係，搵ｄ佢最 like 既野黎 distract 佢，如 VCD，magazine，pictures，etc.，千萬唔好再提婆婆呢兩個字！

Sik Sik was born in Aug 18 2003

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發表於 05-5-25 12:21 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

dorchiu,

No, I stay at my mother's home yesterday night

bo bo went to bath room, he cried & wanted bo bo, I feel very angry ......

dorchiu 寫道:

hugo_ma,

sik sik already moved to your home, ie you're no longer be a weekend mother

Agreed with ho_mama, don't bite him next time & try to find something he likes (snacks, drinks or toys etc) & let him forcus to another things You know, he follows bobo for long time nei...

Sik Sik was born in Aug 18 2003

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發表於 05-5-25 12:27 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

Oh, see.

sik sik needs at night time. He also has same problem when he back to your home

hugo_ma, which's the worst thing for the weekend parents so make you so angry

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發表於 05-5-25 12:50 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

dorchiu,

Sik Sik needs bo bo whole time (not only night time), but if bo bo is not at home, such problem will not be occurred.
At my home, he sticks to me only (not willing to follow his father law) I can't go to bath room ar

dorchiu 寫道:
Oh, see.

sik sik needs at night time. He also has same problem when he back to your home

hugo_ma, which's the worst thing for the weekend parents so make you so angry

Sik Sik was born in Aug 18 2003

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發表於 05-5-25 15:02 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

pls check pm

Sik Sik was born in Aug 18 2003

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Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

hugo_ma

好在我知妳同我講

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發表於 05-5-25 15:33 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

hugoma：

噢！　我奀啦！　你又幾 honest 喎

，咁又係既，嬲起上黎老豆姓嘜都唔ｃ記得啦，仲諗倒咁多咩！

你呢ｄ咁既情形，我就試過 n 次囉！　講真，個ｂ跟其他人，唔跟自己喎，果種複雜矛盾既心情（sad + angry + 失落 + 心心不憤），真係好難頂，心想自己全心全意咁為個ｂ，佢就 looks like 無良心，唔領情，仲反過黎同自己攪到抗，響果個 moment ，真係幾高 E.Q. 都假！　

但，當我諗深一層，個ｂ家下仲細，好多野佢地係不由自主既，只係外面環境所形成，如褸計，褸訓就要搵翻一向揍佢果個人，先至有安全感！　更何況，佢地家下咁細，點曉得 control 自己既情緒！　所以，我身為大人，咪要警醒ｄ，always 提醒自己要盡量 control 我既情緒，同自己講，佢地只係天真無邪，無知，無辜，佢地眷戀一個 always 揍佢地既人係好 normal 同 reasonable 既！　所以我地唯有自己下ｄ苦工，用 coming 既時間，比個ｂ feel 倒又 experience 倒我係幾咁鍚同關心佢，係同樣值得佢信賴，咁先可以 build up 佢對我產生如同揍開佢既人果份安全感，響佢個心度佔多ｄ位置架嘛！　Right？！　

SO，

等我地成班家下�以往係 weekend 媽咪既好姊妹，我地齊齊努力啦，never give up ！ Hip！ Hip！ Hurray！

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發表於 05-5-25 15:42 |只看該作者

Re: 各位weekend媽咪, 你地會唔會驚同bb會有疏離感?

ho_ma

妳又點醒左我喇 :-( :-( 我真係唔係一個好媽媽

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