小BMom , I think what 小B needs is time. She is very much like Tiffany who resisted going to school very much at the beginning. I have to wait until she is used to it. Now she is better, but it takes quite a long time.
小bmom, That's why at that time, Tiffany's Granny decided to let Tiffany stop for a while. She was very sad as she was the one who took Tiffany to school and Tiffany kept saying, "I don't like Granny."
To me, it is OK to let her stop for a while. As my friend told me that some 2-yr-old kids are still very afraid of leaving their family members and it gives them fear. But of course, some kids can do it very well. It all depends. At that time, I also thought maybe I would put Tiffany to school next year. Howeve, at the end, I decided to take Tiffany back to school because I understand that it is just a matter of time. If you think there is nothing wrong with the school, you have to go through this stage with her (it may be harsh) to make her get used to her school life.
I believe that an older kid can definitely deal with it better. Just look at a 3-yr-old kid, she is far more mature than our kids. So you don't have to be afraid 如果而家停左5返,咁第時開學佢又話5返咁點算
On the other hand, I think if you can go through this stage of going to school (it may take long though), 小B女 will be OK.