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heeee.venus
will u back to Dr Tay for check up? i will back on Wed.
hope u can go to vacation soon. that maybe help alot
i guess two months can pass real soon.
hope i can try again

will u do iui again?

原文章由 VenusTam 於 07-7-7 22:14 發表
kelly,

其實都無乜血了,每日都有一小片,好淡淡的啡色,不過飲完d藥,又好似有少少紅。算啦!都係等睇中醫啦!不過,我覺得今次手術都唔錯了,無乜特別差的情況出現。

另外,呢幾日真係好熱,越係唔食得,唔飲得的東 ...

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All, deeply thks. This is really the place I can share openly coz most of my friends have already got their children. Like Venus say, they are non-Christian and could get pregnant very easily. Though they listen, they can't really understand my feeling.
These few days, I keep on asking God when is the best time he plans for me. Just now, I had my bible reading and I think he really spoke to me, "凡事都有定時,天下萬務都有定時......這樣看來、作事的人在他的勞碌上有甚麼益處呢。我見　神叫世人勞苦、使他們在其中受經練。
神造萬物、各按其時成為美好．又將永生安置在世人心裡．然而　神從始至終的作為、人不能參透" ------- 傳道書3章
I feel sorry coz I have too little faith in HIM. This is the lesson I need to learn!

Kelly, either Wanchai or CWB is okay for me. Please send me the info. In fact, I booked a gynaecologist this morning and the booking is so full and I have to wait till 24Jul.
Hope you enjoy a good & relax trip!

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kelly,

由於我是由另一位醫生做手術,所以coming星期二會去覆診,若我約dr tay,可能又要聽姑娘難聽的說話。

我記得我睇呢個中醫時,她說叫我睇她兩個月,但我等不及,所以一路睇,一路做iui,結果中了,可惜小產。我諗未來兩個月,我會繼續睇佢,因為我覺得她的藥對我的濕疹有幫助,下半身的水腫消了不少,希望這兩個月可以調理好d,m亦黎得有規律一些。若m有規律,我想嘗試diy,一切都看這兩個月,否則應該會繼續做iui,始終人---我都是心急。

你呢?下一步會怎樣呢?

smileynemo,

如果你的m規律的話,除了day2驗血,亦建議你day21再驗下有沒有排卵,若你m不規律的話,便不用在day21驗了,因為可能當時你都未排。少少意見。

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Trust in Him

Kelly & Venus,
好明白這一刻妳們的感受，我前陣子也問神，為甚麼會這樣，神好像沒有回答我，不過這一刻我只覺得，如果我們真的信得過神是良善的主、愛我們的主，那麼就不要問為什麼了。讓我們都學習去相信祂吧！這是我們每一個都要學習的。

[ 本文章最後由 Gracesywong 於 07-7-8 02:00 編輯 ]

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Ruth, Lic9: Thanks God to know both u & baby r healthy & in good hands. Can't wait for c their lovely faces, will u post their pics later to let us have a look.

Kelly, Venus. Have good rest & recover then will be another success. God bless u.
Venus, thanks God u have a good mom, loves u so much. Pls treats & respects her better than now.
I'm so sry, I feel sad after read it. It's so good to have a good mom.My mom died in 1986 & my dad died in 1992, so after my m/c, noone could tell me what to eat & to do. As I'm in UK, my British mother-in-law is vy kind to me but doesn't know any at all. I could only went to nearby supermarket found some liver was couple weeks after m/c. My sis & her friend sent me red dates but they r too hot for me. I don't know would it really made my body goes worse, no eggs provide & can't preg over 2 yrs!:-(

All sisters, pls love yr parents as God love u. It's so blessed to have parents w/u.

Thanks God my parents-in-law really treat me vy well, just they rn't Chinese, they don't have any idea to let health get better!

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發表於 07-7-8 10:09 |只看該作者

smileynemo

for the wan chai. i will pm u the info tonight. but i referred by a chinese ec . i guess u can phone and ask .
for CWB, not sure. i will ask again.

原文章由 smileynemo 於 07-7-8 00:05 發表
All, deeply thks. This is really the place I can share openly coz most of my friends have already got their children. Like Venus say, they are non-Christian and could get pregnant very easily. ...

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發表於 07-7-8 13:13 |只看該作者

birdyfan,

多謝你，其實我知道我媽媽是愛我的，不過昨日真的想唔通，諗埋一邊，我亦認同pigpiglau說，人多數不知如何說安慰說話，我記上星期confirm小產後，姐姐們和媽媽晚上立刻來找我，還帶了很多食物給呢！

如果你覺得紅棗太燥，你可以改用南棘，近日我在這個網整輯了一些資料，都是補身的或小產後用，可以給你和大家一起參考。

雞汁整法：
買隻雞, 洗乾淨之後, 放一隻碗仔係燉盅裡面,再'郎'隻雞係上面.

記住唔駛加水入燉盅, 不過當然要加水係個煲先至燉0拉. 就係0甘燉2個鐘, 隻雞就會出0左0的金黃色0既雞汁. 你'筆'起0的油,就可以飲晒0的雞汁, 隻雞就可以食埋佢... 仲有如果你唔想0甘燥, 可以燉烏雞, 不過如果你唔食烏雞, 就可以燉普通雞. 記住食完唔好食生冷野同白蘿蔔, 會化0左嫁.

焗D紅棗水飲﹐但要惡露清左先。方法如下﹕
(1) 紅棗去核﹐30粒 (一定要去核﹐唔係就太燥)
(2) 南棗﹐ 10粒
(3) 黨參﹐ 3~4 條 (切成一節節)
(4) 北歧(應該係草花頭﹐下面係姓氏的氏﹐打唔到)2~3片
(5) 貴圓 12~15 粒
(6) 紀子﹐1小撮
不要太多水﹐大火滾後﹐小火煲30分鐘﹐息火後焗一陣再裝入暖壺﹐帶回公司飲。大概有3大杯﹐裝入暖壺前可以再滾一滾。可以日日飲﹐補血﹐提氣。M來時要停飲﹗

昔日鄉間則用桑寄生煮蛋茶為體弱孕婦補身（安胎），每次用桑寄生三錢，新鮮雞蛋（有健脾滋陰功效）兩隻，一齊凍水下鍋，待水沸二十分鐘左右，將雞蛋取出，打裂蛋殼，又放回鍋裡慢火煎一小時左右，再將蛋取出，剝清蛋殼，又放回鍋裡，加入一些冰糖或紅片糖，再煎十五分鐘，吃蛋、飲糖水，香甜可口（如覺腸胃積滯，只喝湯不吃蛋）。隔天進食，吃至生產前，有補精力安胎兒之功。
如以桑寄生作茶飲，則可先洗淨桑寄生，用水泡半小時，煮沸十至十五分鐘即可飲用，每（天）次分量用桑寄生四錢配五百毫升清水，可煎兩天分量存暖壺內飲用。此茶不單適合長者，女性面白貧血、月經不調，也可以連飲三周至一個月（每周飲五天），再觀其效而調整。

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發表於 07-7-8 23:41 |只看該作者

smileynemo
pls check pm

原文章由 smileynemo 於 07-7-8 00:05 發表
All, deeply thks. This is really the place I can share openly coz most of my friends have already got their children. Like Venus say, they are non-Christian and could get pregnant very easily. ...

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VENUS﹕情緒或會有，但不要讓自己影響靈性。面對難處，神不期望我們問點解，只希望我們更信靠祂。家人永遠都愛你的，你哥哥有兒女，也是神的恩典，只是他們不知道罷了﹗我們當為自己有感恩的心而欣慰。起碼我們不是忘恩負義的人嘛﹗

kelly﹕明白教養小孩不是易事，自己也不時為這方面胡思亂想....不過﹕「教養孩童，使他行當行的路，就是到老也不偏離。」就是天父的心意。不論神會否再賜你們產業，但對已擁有的產業，要努力教養、管理。

pigpiglau、grace、all sisters﹕thanks for your caring! 正開始準備小b的東西，才發現無從入手。最近幾天又訓得不好，精神差，個人心情都會差。不過靠著禱告，個人平靜d下來，也和老公分享，好一點。真係要繼續努力﹗

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發表於 07-7-9 15:17 |只看該作者

Thanks be unto God for His unspeakable gift!

Venus,
Thanks vy much for yr caring & useful info. I have saved it into my PC.

I got 桑寄生 here( I bought it last time from HK but don't know how to cook

), I may try to make it.

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發表於 07-7-9 23:29 |只看該作者

lic9

thanks. will do . try hard to keep close to God and rely on Him

shall pray for u

venu, grace, ruthcsp, ....
how r u doing ?

原文章由 lic9 於 07-7-9 13:29 發表
VENUS﹕情緒或會有，但不要讓自己影響靈性。面對難處，神不期望我們問點解，只希望我們更信靠祂。家人永遠都愛你的，你哥哥有兒女，也是神的恩典，只是他們不知道罷了﹗我們當為自己有感恩的心而欣慰。起碼我們 ...

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發表於 07-7-10 00:49 |只看該作者

各位姊妹，
Thanks for all your prayers always.
最個星期都很累，因公司由兩層樓搬回得一層樓，要裝修，執嘢再 unpack 啲嘢，現在都未執好。由於地方由大變小所以要有智慧知道如何決定那些東西要 keep 那些要 throw away.

另星期五至下星期一（13-16/7)　要入一個Camp去服侍一班姊妹，有好多嘢要準備，求主保守！請大家為我禱告呀！

今晚剛收到一個不幸的消息，就是我以前的一位導師在溫哥華遇到車禍，離開世界，真的很 shock, 人真的很脆弱！

我星期五去了睇中醫，今次是第二次睇，他問我食完啲葯覺得點，我告訴他沒有覺得點，他又問我有沒有覺得精神咗，我說沒有，他話我裡面還很熱，我對過，還是吃那些葯。我問他要睇幾耐，他沒有答我。這幾天我回想吃了那些葯後有沒有甚麼特別，結果我發現了一些很特別的事。話說第一次睇的時間，個中醫給了我一些黃蓮（是葯丸）叫我吃葯茶的時間一起吃，他說吃了會發少啲夢。但我回想，吃葯那段時間，晚晚都反而會發夢且好像發了很長似的。我在想會唔會我唔夾呢？不過最大問題是：
1) 那位中醫在九龍，我工作和住的地方都在香港區，很遠。
2) 那位中醫好多人睇，要等個多兩個鐘頭，如每星期都要這樣等，我都唔知可否睇到（好難每星期都請幾個鐘頭去睇）放工又趕不及
真係要好好想想點算好！

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發表於 07-7-10 09:57 |只看該作者

grace
shall pray for you both on your work and the camp . it's really not easy. but God will give u strength to do His work. don't worry

hmmm.. regarding ec . it's really time consuming. if waiting more than one hr. how do u feel about him? my ec is in Tai koo place . or maybe u can try ?
keep u in my prayers

good morning all sisters. let's work for God!

原文章由 Gracesywong 於 07-7-10 00:49 發表
各位姊妹，
Thanks for all your prayers always.
最個星期都很累，因公司由兩層樓搬回得一層樓，要裝修，執嘢再 unpack 啲嘢，現在都未執好。由於地方由大變小所以要有智慧知道如何決定 ...

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發表於 07-7-10 12:08 |只看該作者

grace﹕為你準備入camp和身體祈禱。加油呀﹗

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Hi sisters,

I have not posted to this thread for a week, had to participate an exhibition last week, very busy and tired.

I had the same question Venus asked God, why is it so difficult for us and those Christian sister?!? A sister sent me some information about a talk for Christians facing infertilty this Sun, just see whether you will be interested to go:-

年來，香港不少結婚多年的夫妻，仍未生兒育女的，似乎愈來愈多，是不能生育呢？

不願生育呢？還是不敢生育呢？是社會改變所帶來的壓力、憂慮、疑問及掙扎？

是個人的抉擇？還是大勢所趨？此講座特別為協助夫婦積極面對此人生重大課題，

作出合乎神心意的抉擇，建立幸福家庭，邁向豐盛人生。

主辦：香港教會更新運動
日期：2007年7月15日（主日）
時間：2:30pm–5:30pm
地點：基督教會活石堂（九龍堂）（九龍旺角道50-56號新旺樓2樓）
內容：1.從聖經及倫理看生育與不育（胡志偉牧師，香港教會更新運動總幹事）朱梁玉焜師母，香港教會更新運動教牧事工主任）
　　　2.從醫學角度看生育與不育（專業醫生主講）

　　　3.從實際經歷分享由不育到生育的見証（基督徒夫婦）
　　　4.公開研討
　　　5.個別為有需要的夫婦祈禱祝福
查詢：「教新」2728-1700 或電郵 [email protected]
費用：費用全免，毋須報名

網址：「香港教會網頁」

Today I went to see Dr Tung, it's my first time to see her, I did my last ivf with another dr, I found that he did not explain to me very clearly, so we decided to change to see Dr Tung, she was very good and explained to us very clearly, she aaked me to do hormone test on Day 3 to see my FSH level, and find out the best cycle to start ivf again. I guess I am in a good hand this time.

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good morning all

back from clinic. Dr said i'm recovering good. can try two months later.
hope God lead our ways.

will go to airport now. take care everybody.
remember u in prayers. :mrgreen:

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kelly,

enjoy your trip.

all,

我昨晚去睇醫生,點知我記錯時間,原來是前晚覆診,現要再book,明早覆診,下午再去睇中醫,明天可說是dr's day.

我已book了機票和酒店,下星期四出發,會去十一天台灣,很期待呢!本來想早一天,可惜老細打電話來,叫我星期三返一陣工,唯有係咁啦!其實佢都好好,佢話如果有需要的話,可以八月初才返工。唉!費事囉,始終差唔多兩個月無返工了。

昨日我第一日出關,平日在家又不覺得累,但行了一陣街,已經好眼瞓和累了,而且子宮有些感覺,又不可以說是痛,回到家又有少少流啡,我諗我都係要休息多一點。

YimYee, pigpiglau, birdyfan, GraceWong...,

我問我老公,為甚麼他沒有我的負面情緒,及問神為何會是我們有困難生bb,他說,因為他的心態是向前,他認為還有希望,下次就係,但我則抱著以往的負面經驗,常擔心唔得,所以他可以往前看,而我則有很多擔憂,唔開心。我想,他有他的道理,在這裏分享他的想法,希望可以幫助大家往前看,可能下一個就是你和我。

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HI Kelly, Wish that you have a great time, enjoy yourself.

Venus, your husband is very positive and it is great to have him by your side. And I agreed, I am still thinking positively, I still think it is possible but the waiting is so long long....and it affect my emition soometimes. And I need to pray when I am down, that helps a lot a lot! And soon, we will hear good news from this thread. :lol:

YimYee, great to know that you are seeing a good Dr. now. It is important that you have confidence with him/her. It gives you a peace in mind and that help the treatment. Pray that you will be pregnant very quickly.

Lic9, thanks for your caring messages. Always warm to know that someone care.

Birdyfan, hee... keep us update. Will mail you again.

Grace, great to hear from you again. Pray that the camp be a good one. :-P

All good things from above, we do not have to worry ar!

原文章由 VenusTam 於 07-7-11 13:06 發表
kelly,

enjoy your trip.

all,

我昨晚去睇醫生,點知我記錯時間,原來是前晚覆診,現要再book,明早覆診,下午再去睇中醫,明天可說是dr's day.

我已book了機票和酒店,下星期四出發,會去十一天台灣,很期待 ...

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剛剛覆完診,醫生說我尚有0.5cm的血在子宮內,要食藥。他解釋因刮宮不會刮得咁清,因預備我仲要懷孕,所以現在要食藥,用藥食把它清出來。他又說我1.5-2月會再來m,可以等3個cycle後再試,我覺得很耐呢!有時我寧願未試過bingo,咁我只需等1個cycle就再來過了。

我發覺自己的心情尚未恢復過來,有時想起這個經歷,都會想喊,喊不是因為無了bb,而是不開心為何會是我?我是一個不喜歡喊的人,我不敢觸碰自己的情緒,亦不懂表達自己的情緒,但我又知道自已的情緒需要抒發,所以很矛盾。昨天終於見家人了,但我都不敢望他們,因怕他們會問我甚麼,我亦覺得自己好像跟他們不一樣似的,我怕我會喊。

多謝各位讓我有機會在此分享自己的感受,若非想要bb的人,是不會明白我/我們的感受的。

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