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大宅

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發表於 07-11-16 15:31 |只看該作者
原文章由 bah 於 07-11-15 17:24 發表
我同hb講咗唔會自己帶b出去比佢睇,他也沒有迫我,但始終我要面對是怎和99說,就算老公對99說了不帶,到時hb不在99又會call我佢好鐘意用呢招向我埋手,唔會問個仔因佢知個仔聽我話...如果對99說no唔想見唔得閒想靜下佢只 ...

我嘅方法係完全唔接 99 電話. 佢居然 disable 個 caller display, 幾賤呀. 既然佢都擺明迫我, 咁我咪擺明 cut 佢線囉. 自此之後. 一勞永逸. 大半年無接到個 8 婆電話. 咁多年, 我都忍得你耐喇. 不過而家我有左 bb, 相信又要經歷另一場風波 lu


男爵府

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42#
發表於 07-11-16 15:49 |只看該作者
難得大家都有同感, 有時激動起上黎真係想同99講句, 我忍你唔係怕咗你, 而係因為你係我老公阿媽咋, 你一D都唔得人喜愛, 你識諗既就唔好再得寸進足, 始終人係有極限底線, 又到Weekend唔知又會點呢

原文章由 bah 於 07-11-16 12:29 發表


同意,要我地做到對99好衰都得,但始終心態唔想攪到反晒臉,就算我同99反晒臉我唔mind,但想深一層唔想hb難做.所以唉...


別墅

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43#
發表於 07-11-16 15:58 |只看該作者
我bb依家4個月, 我的情況同您差唔多, 不過係99已經係日日見住bb, 但係佢星期六日都仲要過來霸住bb, 唔俾我抱!!!! 我出口要抱的時候, 佢會"超"我, 我好唔開心!! 我叫佢星期六日休息下唔駛過來, 她啋我都儍, 當無聽過。仲要成日同佢講bb的野要點要點的時候, 佢成日同我講:"得的啦, 我睇住bb無事的啦。" bb依家成日飲好少奶, 我又担心又好唔開心, 唉!!!!!:-(


禁止訪問

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44#
發表於 07-11-16 15:59 |只看該作者
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洋房

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45#
發表於 07-11-16 15:59 |只看該作者
原文章由 Juniormummy 於 07-11-16 15:49 發表
又到Weekend唔知又會點呢

...


Juniormummy,

咁未當見鬼囉,時運高睇佢唔到:lol 時間會好快過:lol


子爵府

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46#
發表於 07-11-16 18:38 |只看該作者
唉...見到你地依個話題我就知道原來有咁多人個情形同我一樣。

我又係岩岩生完bb無耐(bb就快2個月)響我未生前我已經有依種諗法(99會唔會成日黎我屋企玩呀b瀨死唔走)點解我會咁快有依種諗法呢? 就係響我駝住呀b大約5個月時有一次同99食晚飯,佢突然同我講叫我生完都唔好餵人奶,我問點解,佢話方便第時呀b去佢度或佢黎我度時佢可以玩餵奶,如果我餵人奶,咁佢就無得玩餵奶?-(

到我駝到7、8個月時,醫生話呀b比正常週數細左2週同輕磅,我果時好擔心,有次同62、99食飯,62拎張$1000蚊出黎叫我c6買燕窩比我食,我99一見到張1000蚊即刻眼定定咁望實,把口就話"嘩! 食燕窩呀! 咁巴閉呀! 我果時駝兩個都無得食呀,乜而家咁巴閉呀! 食燕窩!"我聽完即時呆左,真係唔識比反應佢呀!


我初時都唔為意佢咁鐘意玩餵奶,有次c6個舅母比左d未用過既奶樽同bb衫叫99見到我地時比我地,咁果次99淨係比左d衫仔我地,d奶樽就無比我地,我地就叫佢比埋d奶樽我地啦,點知佢話擺響佢度,第時呀b去到佢度就可以用依d奶樽餵呀b,嘩! 我心諗,d奶樽要消毒架! 唔係一開就用得架,跟住言談間聽到佢講話d奶樽用洗潔精洗下佢就得 ,烚都唔洗烚(因未用過),你話我仲點會交呀b比佢照顧丫。

到我生完響醫院第2日,佢有黎探我,醫院規定每次只可以有2個親友入黎,咁佢之前已經黎左睇我,咁輪到我呀媽同c6入黎睇我啦,咁佢就出返去走廊等,咁岩呀b係食奶時間,第2日醫院已經擺返呀b響我隔籬比我自己餵返,唔知佢係咪睇到d呀姐推住d奶樽週圍去派奶,佢響門口裝入黎見到響度餵緊奶,佢即刻9秒9衝入黎眼金金睇實我餵奶,佢個樣話比我知佢好想好想餵,仲要搞到我比d呀姐鬧話每次只可以2個人入黎,我呀媽見到咁既情形就好識趣地出返去,而佢----仍然眼金金望實我餵奶唔願走。?-( 我c6知道我好想同我呀媽傾計,佢只好自己走返出走廊叫我呀媽入黎,見到我99響度,有計都唔想傾住啦! 佢d手指甲又鬼死咁長又尖,佢又要抱呀b,我果陣幾驚佢界到呀b塊面呀!


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47#
發表於 07-11-16 18:56 |只看該作者
到我坐月期間,我呀媽一早話會黎幫我,而我奶奶亦都一早話佢咩都唔識(言下之意即係唔會幫手)ok...無問題,你唔幫仲好添,驚佢越幫越忙,出院之後第2日佢都有黎睇我同呀b(淨係睇)我呀媽忙於煲野比我食、比我沖涼,而我99就淨係響一邊睇,一邊話我呀媽唔係咁樣唔係咁樣做,我都唔明佢大早又話自己咩都唔識唔洗指意佢,而我呀媽係讀過陪用課程,我99都話我呀媽點樣做唔岩,真係比佢激死呀! 仲要我呀媽照顧返佢轉頭呀,好似佢坐月多過我坐月咁! (我99後生過我呀媽架!45age)

到我餵呀b飲奶時,我99又講野啦! 話我唔識餵,餵到呀b唔肯飲,大佬呀! 我都係岩岩先做人呀媽咋,邊個唔係邊學邊做喎! 唔通一出世就識照顧bb既咩,跟住佢一手搶過呀b黎餵,仲邊餵邊同呀b講"係呀! 媽咪唔識餵你呀! 係囉! 餵到呀b唔肯飲奶囉! 女麻女麻餵又肯飲喎!"聽完佢咁講後我果陣真係好想喊出黎,生完呀b已經好累好累,想試下自己餵多d呀b又要聽埋佢講d咁既說話,真係好hurt好嬲,果陣我淨係覺得自己好似搭枱咁響隔籬睇住佢餵,佢餵到一半唔知點解呀b唔肯飲,我話不如比我餵返,佢即刻一句得埋黎話"依個係初生bb,唔同3、4個月果d呀"我聽完後都覺得好笑,關初生bb咩事呀,以後呀b都係我自己照顧返架啦! 唔通之後我唔洗比奶佢食呀,等佢3、4個月先餵佢呀? 佢真係?-(

[ 本文章最後由 carey110 於 07-11-16 18:59 編輯 ]


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48#
發表於 07-11-16 19:01 |只看該作者
唔好意思,講左咁多自己既野,但我真係好想一次過呻晒出黎!其實仲有其他野架!


伯爵府

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49#
發表於 07-11-16 19:06 |只看該作者
原文章由 carey110 於 07-11-16 07:01 PM 發表
唔好意思,講左咁多自己既野,但我真係好想一次過呻晒出黎!其實仲有其他野架!


冇相干..呢到就係比我地呻架ja ma
爆曬出黎幾好:mrgreen:


子爵府

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50#
發表於 07-11-16 19:15 |只看該作者
原文章由 moniqueee 於 07-11-16 19:06 發表


冇相干..呢到就係比我地呻架ja ma
爆曬出黎幾好:mrgreen:


不過,呻左出黎又好似好左好多咁喎! 可能大家都同病相憐啦! 大家都明白大家既感受,同c6講無用架! 佢永遠都唔會明。
頭先99又打比c6,扮可憐咁同c6講話聽日想黎玩呀b/玩餵奶呀!

[ 本文章最後由 carey110 於 07-11-16 19:17 編輯 ]


洋房

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51#
發表於 07-11-16 19:30 |只看該作者
原文章由 carey110 於 07-11-16 06:38 PM 發表
嘩! 我心諗,d奶樽要消毒架! 唔係一開就用得架,跟住言談間聽到佢講話d奶樽用洗潔精洗下佢就得 ,烚都唔洗烚(因未用過),你話我仲點會交呀b比佢照顧丫。



一睇到呢句就忍唔住笑出來,洗潔精??
比佢掂完bb後,都要驗吓bb身先~~


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52#
發表於 07-11-16 20:06 |只看該作者
原文章由 819mimi 於 07-11-16 19:30 發表



一睇到呢句就忍唔住笑出來,洗潔精??
比佢掂完bb後,都要驗吓bb身先~~



佢份人就係又要乜都唔識,但又要話事又要乜都亂黎果隻,上星期仲叫我c6比呀b佢返屋企湊2日添呀! 我心諗比呀b跟你返去,你用咩烚奶樽呀?! 平時煲湯果個煲呀?!


洋房

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53#
發表於 07-11-16 20:13 |只看該作者
咁妳點拒絕佢呀?


子爵府

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54#
發表於 07-11-16 20:29 |只看該作者
原文章由 819mimi 於 07-11-16 20:13 發表
咁妳點拒絕佢呀?


我叫c6推左佢呀! 不過我知佢好唔滿意!


男爵府

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55#
發表於 07-11-16 21:40 |只看該作者
我99無你個咁勁,個個禮拜都上黎...不過佢一見到我個仔,佢就成日點我同c6落街,又或者佢帶我個仔落街,以前都好唔鐘意架!不過...諗諗下...算啦!
一係你同你c6講下啦,個仔講野,阿媽順攤d


民房

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56#
發表於 07-11-16 23:14 |只看該作者
me too........i think so many bk mums hv the same problem with 99...my situation is even worse....since the day my elder son was born, my 99 requested to live with us (now my son is 3 yrs old la). then my nightmare started when my c6 said OK:-( ....my 99 doesn't need to work so that she could stay with my son night n day. for the 1st yr the situation wasn't that bad as i needed to work at that time. things started to get worse since my younger son was born (now my younger son is 1.5 yr) as i quited my job to become a full time mum. since then i lived with her night n day, i can say definitely it's a nightmare. no private time n space. she could just in n out my room as she likes, n stay in my room for vvvv long time just because she wants to stay with her grandsons n can't stand for a separate for a second. oh goodness me!!!!!!!! jan 2007 i said to my c6 that i wouldn't be able to stand for this situaiton anymore n we decided to move away.....2 mths later my 99 had found that she had a cancer, so we put away the plan of moving out. jun 07 my 99 recovered n i said to my c6 if not moving out i would become crazy . jul 07 we bought a new flat which in the same block with my mum.......eventually i thought i could end up my nightmare, but u guys know what she said?...she said she would come over to c my boys everyday when we move to the new flat!!! as she doesn't need to work while my mum needs to work so that my mum won't be able to take care of the boys!! one month ago my emotion couldn't stand for this anymore, i went to c doctor n now i m taking some anti depression medication:cry: .....my c6 understands that i hv been being so patient to his mum for such long time but he is not dare enough to talk to her as he worries about her health....so it ends up with i m still living with the nightmare.:cry:


別墅

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57#
發表於 07-11-17 16:30 |只看該作者
唉:( 我99尋晚上黎睇我個囝囝,我99病左咁就唔可以接近我囝囝啦!lee個係正常呀!我99係好想店孫仔但佢病左唔店得 店之 我99用隻腳撩我個囝囝 同隻腳(young)我個囝囝 我果時好(褸)又唔可以出聲 鬧佢............. :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(


複式洋房

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58#
發表於 07-11-19 15:59 |只看該作者
同大家講下佛偈

我老公有一次去五臺山, 個和尚同他講, 我們凡人說有四大苦 :生,老,病,死, 但是佛家說我們有8大苦

其中2種再加上: 得不到的苦, 和揮不去的苦

得不到的苦就是有一些東西, 我們很想得到, 但是無論怎樣老力去做, 還是得不到

揮不去的苦就是有一些東西, 好似兄弟姐妹, 或者父母,兒女, 夫妻的關系, 有的不好, 但是無論怎樣, 他們都是你的家人, 沒得改變

99想見bb, 是得不到, 而99跟我們的關系是揮不去, 這是每個人都有的, 等于生,老,病死, 所以睇開d啦

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