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如果你哋阿媽係咁，你哋會點呀？ [複製鏈接]

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tristanbaby

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發表於 08-5-18 01:31 |只看該作者

原文章由 Leomummy 於 08-5-17 17:35 發表

$0嫁妝？咁你阿媽應該會唱足你一世噃？我阿媽只收咗幾千，都唱到今時今日，我結婚果時直頭兩邊都唔通知，註咗冊後成個月後先講﹗嬲到佢哋幾個老人家唔出得聲，所以到而家我個仔就嚟九歲喇，我6299都冇當過我係新抱，我阿媽就更加冇當 ...

i am the same as you. I had married before i inform anyone. but my 6299 didn't say anything as I am pregnant already!

hahha, i am happy that my mom is pissed off and don't call me anymore! Then she had no way to get any $$$ from me anymore! (She only called to get money since i started working. She thought i had to pay her 5 digits as 4 digits is too less

) Now I can really get rid of her.

i don't care whether she will 唱 me or not.... as my grandma's family never care about what she said! everyone in the family know that she never take care of me so no is closed to her. And I had never saw my mom's relative at all. there's no one would care about her ...hahaha!

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tristanbaby

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發表於 08-5-18 01:36 |只看該作者

仲要我老公養埋佢噃﹗

oh no! I think you should send her to elderly home and apply government subsidy for her!! Honestly, I don't think daughter has the responsibilty to take care of mom as they think son are more useful/important.

my 99 had sent her father to elderly home too... you just need to sign off and say that you would not support her living. the only thing you lose is just the tax exemption!

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Leomummy

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原文章由 tristanbaby 於 08-5-18 01:36 發表
仲要我老公養埋佢噃﹗

oh no! I think you should send her to elderly home and apply government subsidy for her!! Honestly, I don't think daughter has the responsibilty to take care of mom as they think s ...

我阿媽都好想同仔住，尤其是係二仔，不過事與願違呢﹗大仔叫過佢搬返去同佢住，佢又極憎個大新抱，睇人唔順眼，死都唔肯再同大仔住，咁變咗冇得選擇情況之下，咪焗住要同我住囉，所以佢咪用阿Q精神安慰自己，而家係要我還債，但佢又唔諗吓我老公都養咗佢十四年，無怨過，無悔過，佢都唔知足﹗唉‥‥而我哋我哋只諗到八個字去形容佢【佛口蛇心‧假仁假義】

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Leomummy

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發表於 08-5-18 17:12 |只看該作者

原文章由 魔鬼天使 於 08-5-18 14:59 發表

你老公冇幫你講說話咩??

我老公都知佢自己父母衰，所以有一次佢父母叫我哋帶個仔跟佢哋返鄉下，老公即時話︰返乜嘢啫？鄉下祠堂都唔係我老婆個名，個仔係佢生，即係阿媽冇資格入祠堂，連個仔都冇，咁仲駛乜返呀？兩老聽完，粒聲都唔敢出﹗
平時我都有叫老公打下電話返去問候下兩老，但老公話駛乜問呀？佢哋都唔會領情，只會問攞錢﹗
老公話佢蝦我就得，除此之外，邊個都唔可以蝦我噃

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Leomummy

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發表於 08-5-18 17:27 |只看該作者

原文章由 魔鬼天使 於 08-5-18 15:05 發表

咁咪好囉,佢唔鍾意大新抱就唔去住,
佢唔鍾意你兩公婆,你咪可以同佢講,叫佢唔好同你住,
佢覺得你地欠佢,
你又同佢講返,我冇欠你架,
係你欠左我就真,你做咩生我出嚟呀??
你有冇問過我想唔想做你個女呀??
點解你冇幾千 ...

我夠想佢搬返去同二哥住啦，但係人哋一早刪定後門，話屋企冇地方噃﹗佢又同個仔講話要同佢住，所以佢咪唯有企硬要係度住囉﹗仲要食我過世tim﹗
我都係咁問過佢，佢從來都冇諗過要生多個，如果唔係，我都唔駛同我 d 阿哥相差成十年有多啦，既然有咗我，點解唔即刻落咗我噃，仲要生我出嚟督眼督鼻？佢都唔識答，只係一味話早知，就一早(練)死噃

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Leomummy

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發表於 08-5-18 17:59 |只看該作者

原文章由 魔鬼天使 於 08-5-18 17:45 發表

你咪同佢講囉,如果你一早"摙"死左我,
你而家咪瞓街囉,睇下你d仔點對你??
唔係要你覺得我對你好好,要你感恩圖報,
而係要你唔好當我好似仇人咁丫~~
仲想我點呀~~~ ...

我都想咁講，不過我真係唔敢去到咁盡，佢有心臟病，我驚如果咁講，佢會即刻俾我激死，我就真係變成罪人

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Leomummy

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原文章由 魔鬼天使 於 08-5-18 20:30 發表

算啦,唔好勞氣,盡本份,做到就做,
時運高,由佢講咩都好~~~

多謝你哋聽我發"up"風，等我可以平衡下心理

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happybaby0906

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發表於 08-5-20 17:33 |只看該作者

我先生成日都講:--

如果有道理, 一定要孝順父母. 如果無, 就唔使再同佢講.

我先生同99係我地結婚前. 串過99一嘢好好笑. 唔知因乜事佢兩個又嘈 (佢地好enjoy得閑就嘈; 我先生話好好玩, 因為佢九成九win). 我99同佢講你咁串, 我到時你結婚我唔出席.

我先生話, 結婚最緊要有新郎同新娘出席. 你唔出席未必有人問, 就算想問, 都要問第二個, 我邊有時間答. 就算答, 先生話咪話比人知你病左. 唔通你同人講個仔串而唁出席? 就算講, 我先生話你估我會mind嗎?......我99都笑.

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lok^^b

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發表於 08-5-20 17:45 |只看該作者

係米親生咖

原文章由木馬於 08-4-12 18:18 發表
有個朋友仔結婚時, 佢地雙方見家長, 女家要10圍酒(擺4圍, 其餘6圍折現); 餅咭300張(要100張咭, 其餘200張折現), D唐餅, 海味, 過大禮.....有6成以上折現, 你地話我個朋友仔嫁得幾淒涼:-( , 嫁入男家自然遭人白眼, 幾 ...

得意事來，處之以淡。失意事來，處之以忍！

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bobbob

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原文章由 Leomummy 於 2008/5/18 17:27 發表

我夠想佢搬返去同二哥住啦，但係人哋一早刪定後門，話屋企冇地方噃﹗佢又同個仔講話要同佢住，所以佢咪唯有企硬要係度住囉﹗仲要食我過世tim﹗
我都係咁問過佢，佢從來都冇諗過要生多個，如果唔係，我都唔駛同我 d 阿哥相差成十年有多 ...

雖然1家唔知1家事，但如果你成日係咁諗，自己都好痛苦。。。我阿媽都好難理解，亦好愛錢，我有1排都好似你咁諗，成日覺得佢淨係識問我囉錢，但而家諗通左，我地做仔女既有能力養到咪養囉，其實供養父母都好應該，有能力供養亦算係種福份，有時老人家諗到就講，無謂將佢講既野記係心，其他人既閒言閒語更加唔會理，自己心安理得就得啦

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54heima

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發表於 08-5-21 13:49 |只看該作者

老人家要面姐...你未比巨罗...我99也是...果D好远好远亲戚...远到我地从未见过面...巨都要走黎问我地罗利是比人...算喇...老人家系中意甘架喇...

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Leomummy

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發表於 08-5-21 18:02 |只看該作者

bobbob, 54heima
我明白你哋意思，最初我都係咁諗，雖然有時我老公會唔開心，我都叫佢係我面前發完牢騷之後咪算數囉﹗我哋一直都係攞個心出嚟對佢，點知發生咁多事之後，才發現佢個真面目，原來係假仁假義，直情有被騙既感覺，而家我哋對佢係完全無冀望而係徹底失望﹗
如果唔養佢，即係要趕佢走，我暫時仲未做得出住，人‥‥我會繼續供養，但就唔會再同佢有任何溝通，佢鐘意點樣繼續搬弄是非都好，我哋都唔會再出聲同佢嘈