My 99 was a mid-wife. I won't even let her take care of my son. I rather my maid take care of him. AT least I have my say, my maid is under me...
If I let her take care of my son, she will spoil him.
My 99 complained to my c6 that we trusted our maid more their our family member (meaning her). I thought "Yes ar! So what! I just don't want her to touch my son!".