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[我地結婚個時, 佢已經好唔想搬出黎住, 但係因為搞結婚D野, 搞到我好憎我6299, 個時我話結完婚, 都會俾錢娘家, 因為我仲有兩個妹要讀書, 我老豆有搵得好少, 我做大女一出黎做野, 我就差唔多俾一半屋企, 我6299竟然話我阿媽唔做野(我媽咪生完我之後, 就一直做家庭主婦), 佢出黎做野既話, 個女(指我)咪唔洗俾錢屋企羅, 佢個XX, 我憎到佢地死, 我心諗我家事關係鬼事咩, 所以我死都要搬出黎住, 因為我C6搵錢搵得唔多, 佢同我一樣係做大既, 一定要幫屋企, 所以頭結婚個兩年, 佢都仲有俾少少家用我, 但係個女出左世之後, 又要供樓, 佢就開始要我同佢每一揹一半個屋企, 因為係我堅持要搬出黎住, 我只好幫佢揹一半, 但係無諗到, 佢仲要我生多個, 我真係揹唔起！

佢又唔可以話佢唔鍚個女, 佢平時都鍚, 但係佢成日都會講, 始終都係女, 將來都要嫁, 幾多野留俾佢都係益外人(女婿), 都係有個仔好, 可以留返俾個仔喎！個女其實佢都想我99湊, 不過因為我見過我99點樣湊我C6家姐個仔, 寵到飛起, 得罪D講句, 我真係未見過咁頑皮既小朋友, 出街食飯, 枱枱都望住我地, 你話佢個外孫幾出位兼失禮呢?? 所以我好怕我個女係咁, 個時我好堅持個女, 一定要婆婆湊, 不過個時我C6都講過女都仲可以俾婆婆湊, 仔我6299一定唔會放過我, 一定要俾佢地湊！

有時我都對我C6心淡, 不過我唔想個女係一個單親家庭長大, 所以我先咁辛苦都同我C6一齊, 唔係我真係有諗過同佢離婚架, 其實我地都曾經因為6299講過離婚, 係佢最後都黎乙水返我, 我地而家先會一齊！

最後好多謝各住姊妹既支持,我會返去同我C6企硬 -- 唔生, 等真係屋企有閒錢先再生！

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發表於 08-6-4 12:25 |只看該作者

I never count how much I give to my family! I just feel lucky that I have the ability to pay for my family.

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 12:18 發表
請問你老公要你揹屋企一半開支嗎??

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如果你每月洗費都洗到同你每個月搵錢返黎差唔多, 你仲會唔會咁口響講句I just fee lucky I have the ability to pay for my family,你有無試過年年派利是俾人要用積蓄既滋味??

原文章由 ac321 於 08-6-4 12:25 發表
I never count how much I give to my family! I just feel lucky that I have the ability to pay for my family.

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發表於 08-6-4 12:42 |只看該作者

When we got marry in 2000, I gave my family plan to my husband and let him choice plan A or B:
plan A: 供樓 (16000 per month)
plan B: all other family expenditure (around 8k-10k at year 2000)
He need to pay $ to his parent, and I pay for my parent.

He said sorry to me that as a man, he should choice plan A (pay more). Howeer, he ask me can he choice plan B as he need to paid the personal loan monthly to the bank at that moment. (It was because my 99 bought a flat and my husband, as the elder son, paid for more than 300000 to them.) I never angry with him. I do think that he is a good man, a good son, a good father, as well as a good husband!

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 12:17 發表
供樓+日常用品+平時出街洗費大約: 7000蚊
個女洗費 + 水電煤大約 : 5000-6000蚊

我都差唔多揹一半咁佢都叫好男人, 好老公??

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Sorry, I really feel I am lucky as I have the ability to earn $, I will also feel lucky if I have 積蓄 (However, I haven't got much 積蓄) as I like to travel around. When I have some 積蓄, I will use it for travelling...........

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 12:36 發表
如果你每月洗費都洗到同你每個月搵錢返黎差唔多, 你仲會唔會咁口響講句I just fee lucky I have the ability to pay for my family,你有無試過年年派利是俾人要用積蓄既滋味??

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發表於 08-6-4 12:50 |只看該作者

I think it may be more than 一半開支. But the different is that: my 老公 haven't ask me to 揹屋企一半開支. I told my husband we should share 屋企開支!
It was because I paid the 首期 of the flat we live, and he paid the 首期 for his parent's flat and needed to pay personal loan monthly before.

In your case, your 99 pay the 首期 for your flat. You are so lucky (compare with other mami here)!

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 12:18 發表
請問你老公要你揹屋企一半開支嗎??

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發表於 08-6-4 12:56 |只看該作者

香港地好多家庭都係公一份婆一份架喎，
女人有能力搵錢，講句野都大聲d 啦！
如果你靠晒你老公，佢唔比你就斷糧，
咁你又唔會好似而家咁有say 啦！
我覺得一個男人好定唔好，
唔係剩係睇佢搵錢既能力，
佢出唔起錢養埋你就唔係好老公的話，
你一開始就應該搵個有錢佬，而唔係嫁佢囉。

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 12:17 發表
供樓+日常用品+平時出街洗費大約: 7000蚊
個女洗費 + 水電煤大約 : 5000-6000蚊

我都差唔多揹一半咁佢都叫好男人, 好老公??

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或者我無你咁偉大, 我真係想像唔到咁叫好男人好老公, 無錢可以唔洗買咁貴既樓, 點解要買三房既樓, 又係6299揀既, 我地兩公婆無你地搵咁多, 好多野都好慳, 我老公都有同我講個sorry, 話俾唔到幸福我, 我都唔介意, 但我6299仲成日覺得我老公付出好多, 我係到敗緊我老公既身家, 我老公個妹都26歲都出晒身, 洗唔洗仲成日開口埋口都要顧住我6299, 佢兩老都有做野, 自己都未顧掂, 仲叫人生多個, 我係最嬲呢樣野, 明唔明?? 我無怪佢無本事, 個老公係自己揀唯有認命, 係自己知自己事, 就唔好做埋咁多無謂野, 我最嬲佢係無錢就唔好生仔, 明未?

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發表於 08-6-4 13:09 |只看該作者

我而家講野叫好有say未?? 我連自己層樓買個時, 問都無問過我, 就落訂, 我根本就無得揀, 我一早看中兩房個隻, 唔駛自己供得咁辛苦都無人聽, 咁叫有say咩??

我無話靠晒佢, 但係唔好樣樣野都要聽6299話, 我連阻住6299隨便拿key入黎我屋企, 我都無權阻止呀！

我真係唔覺得我講野有say羅！

原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-6-4 12:56 發表
香港地好多家庭都係公一份婆一份架喎，
女人有能力搵錢，講句野都大聲d 啦！
如果你靠晒你老公，佢唔比你就斷糧，
咁你又唔會好似而家咁有say 啦！
我覺得一個男人好定唔好，
唔係剩係睇佢搵錢既能力，
佢出唔起錢養埋你就唔係好老公 ...

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If your husband only need to pay less than 5000 (供樓+日常用品+平時出街洗費大約: 7000蚊)for the (無錢可以唔洗買咁貴既樓, 點解要買三房既樓) 3 rooms flat, then your 99 paid 60%-70% for 首期.
You are real lucky to have a nice 99 !!!!!
How about let us exchange our 99???

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 13:00 發表
或者我無你咁偉大, 我真係想像唔到咁叫好男人好老公, 無錢可以唔洗買咁貴既樓, 點解要買三房既樓, 又係6299揀既, 我地兩公婆無你地搵咁多, 好多野都好慳, 我老公都有同我講個sorry, 話俾唔到幸福我, 我都唔介意, 但 ...

[ 本文章最後由 ac321 於 08-6-4 13:11 編輯 ]

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Ofcourse, you can buy the flat you like (一早看中兩房個隻, 唔駛自己供得咁辛苦都無人聽) if you pay 首期 by yourself !
Just like me!
I haven't give the key to my 99, it is because it is my flat!
Remember that, there are no free lunch!

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 13:09 發表
我而家講野叫好有say未?? 我連自己層樓買個時, 問都無問過我, 就落訂, 我根本就無得揀, 我一早看中兩房個隻, 唔駛自己供得咁辛苦都無人聽, 咁叫有say咩??

我無話靠晒佢, 但係唔好樣樣野都要聽6299話, 我連阻住6299 ...

[ 本文章最後由 ac321 於 08-6-4 13:20 編輯 ]

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可能我講得唔清楚, 首期係我, 我老公, 6299每人都有俾d同埋借我6299個契媽d錢黎買樓, 我認6299都俾左好多, 咁係咪等同我就要生個孫仔俾佢地, 黎感激佢地呢??

同埋我99曾經對住我個女講過兩次" 你第時叫爸爸買層樓俾爺爺女麻女麻住喎！" "女麻女麻買左層樓俾你地, 你地第時點樣孝順女麻女麻呀??

我又一開始已經唔想佢地幫手, 因為我唔想成世都俾佢地講住, 抬唔起頭做人！

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I see. May be I misunderstand ..........
You don't need to 生個孫仔俾佢地黎感激佢, but you should 感激佢地!
May I ask how much did your 62,99 paid for the flat?

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 13:18 發表
可能我講得唔清楚, 首期係我, 我老公, 6299每人都有俾d同埋借我6299個契媽d錢黎買樓, 我認6299都俾左好多, 咁係咪等同我就要生個孫仔俾佢地, 黎感激佢地呢??

同埋我99曾經對住我個女講過兩次" 你第時叫爸爸買層樓俾 ...

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你好彩過我羅, 因為我6299幫我搵人裝潢, 佢地一早就陪定2條key,一日都黑上黎巡事業務, 開我抽屜來看, 搞到我出街都要lock自己房門, 有咩私人野都要放晒係娘家！如果我個日屋企好亂, 我就會收到電話, 話我好唔執屋, 試問你係我, 會唔會覺得自己嫁左個妹老公?? 所以我頭先咁激動, 唔好意思！

I haven't give the key to my 99, it is because it is my flat!

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發表於 08-6-4 13:25 |只看該作者

大約五十萬左右！

May I ask how much did your 62,99 paid for the flat?

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發表於 08-6-4 13:29 |只看該作者

My 99 never request (叫) my husband buy a flat to her..... She just order him to buy to her. She said that I gave bron to you, so your everything are mine!!!!!!!

My 99 ask my husband to give her a room in our flat so that she can sleep there as she like.
My husband's respond was: I have already bought a flat to you, no more!
Then, my 99 request the same to me, I just told her it is my flat, not your son's falt.

The extra room is already occupid by my parent!

原文章由 060905 於 08-6-4 13:18 發表
可能我講得唔清楚, 首期係我, 我老公, 6299每人都有俾d同埋借我6299個契媽d錢黎買樓, 我認6299都俾左好多, 咁係咪等同我就要生個孫仔俾佢地, 黎感激佢地呢??

同埋我99曾經對住我個女講過兩次" 你第時叫爸爸買層樓俾 ...

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