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[在職媽媽] 你地有無老公係搵錢少過自己, 搞到要自己撐起頭家呢? [複製鏈接]

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Sallyb1a

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發表於 08-11-6 18:10 |只看該作者

To reneeleung

贊成你的講法, 2公婆無咩計.. 我都係搵多過老公幾千, 同埋我份工都幾穩陣.
因為我老公幾無記性,所以, 屋企大小事/雜物等都係我買,就算一齊出街都係我比, 然后每月比幾千我當家用...
好彩我老公都好顧家, 囡囡依家6個月大, 每朝一齊湊BB到婆婆家, 然后一齊返工, 放工係老公湊BB返屋企先.因為我通常都晏返屋企. 老公會同BB沖好涼, 等我返屋企一齊喂奶奶... 都幾開心架.

所以, 就算搵錢比自己少D都OK, 最緊要佢都投入呢個家囉.

原文章由 reneeleung 於 08-10-6 14:44 發表
我唔係搵好多, 可能我講得唔夠清楚.
其實我兩公婆真係無計過咩支出係邊個出, 有時我無$我老公就會過$比我, 又或者老公唔夠$找咭數, 咁我又會過番$比佢.

我想講係兩公婆有時真係計唔得咁清楚.

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james-mama

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發表於 08-11-14 01:04 |只看該作者

My income is triple of my hb and I have to pay for the 2 mortgaged flats, 1 car, son's school fee. He only pay for the water, electricity, gas and maid. I am really very tired and wish to quit the job. I know is dream and never come true.

james-mama

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dindin123

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發表於 08-11-14 14:00 |只看該作者

Actually,my husband is a good man. He loves me very much. we married about 5 yrs and have a baby for 2yrs old.
My husband job's is not stable (always no paid in past 1 yrs) In Oct.08, the company is closed and he become unemployed now.
In the past yrs, my yearly income is more than him(>100k) somtimes I also feel that why I get married with him (I believe I am very bad if I have this thinking).
Actually, I don't want to be a rich man (because no one know how much you have is enough) I only want to have stable live and have a goods living condition for my baby.
I want to be a full time mama because I want to know the growing process for my baby but. .......

I am completely tired..............

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發表於 08-11-20 15:16 |只看該作者

原文章由 建男媽咪 於 08-10-6 09:20 發表
雖然我唔係搵多過我老公, 佢多我幾仟, 但我都成日要扮窮, 如果唔係點有錢儲私己呀

係要咁嫁
男人有$$就身痕啦

小少爺係ma mi 既心肝寶貝

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(!_!)

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my husband has been unemployed for almost 1 year, now I have to shoulder all finanical burden by myself, including all household expenses plus allowance for his mom. I feel rather sad, but can't talk to anyone of my feelings. I'm afraid I am suffering from depression already. Can't share my worries with my husband for he is rather childish and can't take any negative comments.

[ 本文章最後由 (!_!) 於 08-11-20 18:00 編輯 ]

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原文章由 james-mama 於 08-11-14 01:04 發表
My income is triple of my hb and I have to pay for the 2 mortgaged flats, 1 car, son's school fee. He only pay for the water, electricity, gas and maid. I am really very tired and wish to quit the j ...

Hi james-mama,

I share your dream! But unlikely to come true, except winning the mark 6.

:-o

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ndw

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發表於 08-11-23 10:21 |只看該作者

原文章由 (!_!) 於 08-11-20 17:57 發表
my husband has been unemployed for almost 1 year, now I have to shoulder all finanical burden by myself, including all household expenses plus allowance for his mom. I feel rather sad, but can't talk ...

Ｍy husband can not take any nｅgative comments　ｅｉｔｈｅｒ. 　Ｗｈｏ　ｃａｎ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ａｎｙ　ｅｍｏｔｉｏｎａｌ　ｄｉｓｔｕｒｂｉｎｇ？　I want to ｖｉｅｗ it positivly　ｓｕｃｈ　ａｓｔｈｉｓ also mean that he is a ｖｅｒｙ　sensitive person．Ｂｅｃａｕｓｅ　ｏｆ　ｈｉｍ　ｂｅｉｎｇ　ｓｅｎｓｉｔｉｖｅ，he ｈａｒｄｌｙ　ｅｖｅｒａｃｔｉｖｉｌｙ　say anything　that ｗｏｕｌｄ　hurt me.

Same here, I can't share my worries with my husband.
Also, I have been depressed in many defferent periods. May be that's why I come to BK offten, it seems help some.

[ 本文章最後由 ndw 於 08-11-23 12:15 編輯 ]

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ndw

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原文章由 james-mama 於 08-11-14 01:04 發表
My income is triple of my hb and I have to pay for the 2 mortgaged flats, 1 car, son's school fee. He only pay for the water, electricity, gas and maid. I am really very tired and wish to quit the j ...

我老公已加加埋埋当了6年有多的家庭主夫。详情请看这bk forum topic。
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/redirect.php?tid=1722683&goto=newpost#newpost

I frequently want to quit, but deep down we know better that I can not quit. It is too expensive to quit my job and we can not afford it. I am not complaining my situation because if I got lay off, our situation could be a lot worst. At least our children are under good and sufficient 家教 now。 I　ｈａｖｅ　ｍｙ　ｓｔｒｕｇｇｌｉｎｇ　ｐｅｒｉｏｄ　ｂｙ　ｂｅｉｎｇ　ａ　Ｍｏｔｈｅｒ，　Ｉ　ｗａｎｔ　ｔｏ　ｂｅ　ｔｈｅ　ｏｎｅ　ｗｈｏ　ｓｔａｙ　ａｔ　ｈｏｍｅ．

　

Ｅｑｕａｌ　ｊｏｂ　ｏｐｐｏｔｉｎｉｔｙ　ｓｏｍｔｉｍｅｓ　ｃｒｅａｔｅ　ｔｈｉｓ　ｄｏｗｎ　ｓｉｄｅ　ｔｏ　ｏｎｅ　ｗｈｏ　ｓｔｉｌｌ　ｗａｎｔ　ｔｏ　ｋｅｅｐ　ａ　ｔｒｉｄｉｔｉｏｎａｌ　ｆａｍｉｌｙ　ｓｔｒｕｃｔｕｒｅ　ｌｉｋｅ　my husband and I．

[ 本文章最後由 ndw 於 08-11-23 11:43 編輯 ]

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Mrs.Kangaroo

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原文章由 cherrytso 於 08-10-7 00:51 發表

佢無面...我無錢呀....一個女人嫁咗都好希望有個男人倚靠吓架.....依家掉番轉頭呀....要個女人撐起成頭家.....佢唔想無面就叫佢阿媽唔好講咁多嘢囉.....又要我担起頭家, 仲要受佢屋企冷言冷語, 唔係呀花.....除非 ...

I am totally agreed with you.