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Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

If your parent-in-law expected a grandson, you better don't let them know even ultra-sound confirms is a boy. My friend has the same experience. She has 2 daughters and her husband is the only son. So, her parent-in-law want a grandson so much. Last year, she got pregnent again and ultra-sound confirmed is a baby boy. All of them are very happy. Buy everything in 'blue' color.
Finally, she gave birth of a baby girl and everyone was so shock! So, don't 100% trust the ultra-sound.

I have a funny story to share:

My husband loves girl so much. So, our 1st bb is a girl. He was so happy but my father-in-law wanted a grandson as my brother-in-law has 2 daughters.

When I carried the 2nd bb, my parents-in-law really expected a BB boy. I know my husband prefer a BB girl but he didn't give me too much pressure. He said as long as the BB is healthy is good enough! In fact, I decide to have another BB is for my daughter to have a play-mate, not for my grandparents.

Finally I gave birth of a BB boy last year, my father-in-law was so happy. I thought he would definitely spoiled my boy. Funny thing is he loves my daughter more! He even complains that my son is too naughty and admire my daughter all the times! Now, he asked me to give birth of another BB girl. Definitely I won't as 2 kids are more than enough!

I agree that as long as the BB is healthy, we shouldn't care about the gender too much. You live for yourself not for others!

Oops! Sorry for such long message!
:lol:

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發表於 04-8-17 18:18 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

生仔生女都唔係自己可以決定.我奶奶係個好麻煩既人,我未有小朋友時,成日都要人生,到我有左後就希望佢係仔.我都同我老公講:「你亞媽好貪心,無個時就想要,到有左時又要仔.」好彩我老公係個唔多理事既人.
仔女都係自己生既唔需要理別人點睇,我生個仔之前,我同我老公一直都無話比佢知仔定女.

媽媽與浩賢豬仔生活照

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發表於 04-8-17 22:29 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

我奶奶都係一個勁煩ke人，我未生之前，佢地係咁叫我生，又話我年紀大喇（我ｏ個陣３０歲都未到），快ｄ生個出黎係仔係女無所為，我話我地兩公婆個個月"ming ming 緊"，有ｂｂ會俾少ｄ家用佢地，同埋我地兩公婆都要返工，ｂｂ出左世唔知俾邊個湊好，佢跟住地話邊個湊都無所為啦，我話我想請工人，佢地話都好，唔使佢地咁辛苦，同埋都同意家用唔使俾咁多佢地，跟住重好似好好咁，話有孫ｋｅ話大家犧牲下都無所為，到我真係有左，話俾佢地知啦，佢地已經係咁講話係仔就好喇，之後照到真係仔，但我兩公婆都唔敢話俾佢地知，因為驚醫生攪錯，於是同佢地講話係女，當佢地知係女後，就話第一個係女好，可以幫手湊細老，但佢地之後就突然之間好似消失左咁，又話要返大陸（佢地有層樓晌大陸），又話唔舒服，我都覺得無所為，因為樂得清靜，到後來ｂｂ出世，佢地緊係好開心啦，因為係仔嘛，重成日講話快ｄ生多個細老陪阿哥玩（一個都唔夠

），我話等呢個大個ｄ先啦，跟住ｂｂ好瘦，唔係好肯食野，我就叫佢地幫下手啦，工人唔識湊，我又無晒辦法，我喊晒咁叫佢地幫手，重話俾返錢佢地，我老爺先肯黎我屋企（重要淨係朝頭早黎）"睇下"亞ｂ，當初佢地又話"犧牲下都無所為"，仲話叫我生多個，我心腍我生都係為亞ｂ有個伴，唔係為左佢地，依家呢個係仔都咁，我都唔敢腍如果係女ｋｅ話會係點！

回望這半生　也許是場夢年月已帶走　幾個秋與冬淚也倦了夢也不斷轉眼逝去生命或許是場空

14/5/2006: 3.30kg (birth)
14/6/2006: 4.34kg (1 month)
20/7/2006: 5.58kg (2 month)
25/8/2006: 6.41kg (3 month)
16/11/2006: 7.5kg (6 month)

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發表於 04-8-17 23:56 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

雖然已有女,但經過上年的小產,今年胎又有問題要流產,醫生講還是仔,至今我都覺得老公和他一家都怪我無了個仔,連未入門叔仔女友都當我透明,那女人更加以為我無得生一樣,處處針對我和我女,雖然口沒說什麼,但看面色都知,何況在未出事前老爺都表態一定要仔.

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發表於 04-8-18 08:35 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

其實生仔係咪一定咁重要呢....
昨日我去老爺奶奶度食飯,佢問我照左仔定女未呀,我話未呀,(就算我照左都吾話比佢地聽住,免得麻煩呀),我要月尾先照呀........我下星期就四個月lu,如冇意外都應該照到o既.....
我奶奶就話仔就最好啦,佢話我老爺真係好想係仔呀...而佢就話自己冇所謂喎,最緊要bb健健康康, 我心想你地全家都係潮洲人,加上我老爺係最大,當然想有個男孫威下啦......
雖然醫生多數會係仔,但........吾好抱咁大希望

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發表於 04-8-18 10:23 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

我老公同我都無乜所謂，但佢話老爺奶奶會比較鐘意仔多d喎，我咪串佢囉~~「你屋企又唔係咩野帝皇家族，或者大戶人家，有好多身家事業去繼承咩？」 :mrgreen:

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發表於 04-8-18 10:35 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

calcal,
我同妳一樣咁諗呀! 我老公係獨生子,d人成日話佢係獨仔喎,,, 咁又點呀!正如妳所講,佢係李家誠果仔就話啫!唔好話生仔, 唔生又如何?

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發表於 04-8-18 14:05 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

my1215sui
我地真係好似,我都係10月頭係威院照,10月9日,你呢?睇下我地見唔見到面>?
我係昨日老爺奶奶上我屋企拜神,佢都係問我照左仔定女未呀,我話未,我奶奶之後就同我個女講,"要帶個細佬返尼"我心想我個女得15個月大,就比壓力佢!如果我呢胎唔係仔,我係呢個家實無地位企!返而我老爺就無話.
我老爺奶奶就比好多期望係我到,因大伯年齡好大唔會再生BB,二伯係獨身主意,話明唔婚.三伯同佢女友係英國,就算婚後都係英國定居,你話我大唔大壓力!

我自己冇就所謂,最緊要bb健健康康.

愛一個人！要了解，也要開解；要道歉，也要道謝；要認錯，也要改錯；要體貼，也要體諒；是接受，而不是忍受；是寬容，而不是縱容；是支持，而不是支配；是慰問，而不是質問；是傾訴，而不是控訴；是難忘，而不是遺忘；是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；是為對方默默祈求，而不是向對方諸多要求；可以浪漫，但不要浪費；可以隨時牽手，但不要隨便分手。

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發表於 04-8-18 14:13 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

我亞爸呀媽同我都想生女多 d

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發表於 04-8-18 14:20 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

calcal:

好鍾意你呢句「你屋企又唔係咩野帝皇家族，或者大戶人家，有好多身家事業去繼承咩？」 :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
我已經有個女，年尾會生多個，公立醫院照超聲波時醫生話係仔，我同老公決定唔講，費事攪錯

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發表於 04-8-18 15:41 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

fish123
我就6/10去威院照呀,早你幾天,到時你有幾多週呢,我就應該五個多月呀,係呢,你預產期係幾時呀
你就好啦已經有一個女,咁你老爺奶奶當然想係仔啦,湊成一個好字ma
其實我覺得bb最緊要健康,仔女都冇所謂,吾通生女就吾要咩....我覺得生女同佢扮靚靚仲好啦.....
不過我覺得生仔就有交代,冇咁大壓力,如果生女就有排煩我law

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發表於 04-8-18 16:23 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

my1215sui
我就應該都係五個多月,我預產期係2月14,但我係威院book左期31/1/2005(個時38周)係威院開刀生!你產期係幾時呢?

潮洲人係未多數想要個內男孫!我老爺奶奶係我個女未出生時,佢地都話係仔,但我個女出生後,就話我下一個生就係仔wow!
但我本來只係林住生一個,我生bb唔係為佢地生,更何況我同我老公都喜歡女,我老公都唔知幾石個女.今次意外有左,我本身都好意外,無林過係仔定女,
如生女~就可以同大女一齊玩,一齊扮靚靚
如生仔~我都同意你個句"生仔就有交代(因我決定唔再生,做絕育手術)而家呢個時代兩個夠Li!

(我大頭相0個個就係我大女,張相係佢6個月大影ga,係一個
頑皮女)

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發表於 04-8-18 16:34 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

我預產期就係16/2呀,遲你兩日,你現在咪又係十五週law,是嗎,點解你可以book開刀生o既,係政府醫院吾係一定要順產生咩,你係咪想趕生猴仔呢.....
其實我都想生猴仔呀.....但我知道好少會早成兩個星期出世ma,但開刀又要去私家,我又比吾起.......
其實o的老人家成日都想傳宗接代,唉.....我老爺奶奶仲係好傳統o既潮洲人添呀,所以咪仲死law,恨仔恨到發燒,佢現在連一個內孫都冇,只得一個女外孫,佢地成日都話幫人湊緊孫呀...咁咪又係自己個孫,咁計較仲咩呀......
我老公哥哥,亞嫂結婚七年都好想生,但一直都冇消息,現在已經39歲,女就36歲呀,我奶奶都好擔心......

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發表於 04-8-18 18:09 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

yes !我都係15周,係政府醫院多數係一定要順產生,我個女都係威院開刀生,因bb太大
怕我生唔到,而這次係因我個子宮太薄,醫生怕我生時子宮收縮,而子宮受唔到壓力過大而爆,而要我開刀.我返而想雞年生,我自己都係雞年出生,但聽講係新年生係醫院會無人理GA!

我同意你GA 講法,外孫咪又係自己個孫.我呀媽呀爸都好"石"我個女,對佢重好過對我.

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發表於 04-8-18 23:04 |只看該作者

Re: 係咪一定要生仔先得!

咁快check到你子宮薄呀....醫生幾時同你講呢,
我同你預產期差不多呀......
咁你自己有冇去睇私家醫生呢.....
我八月尾就會去私家醫生到覆診,到時醫生會同我照呀....
我估到時都知道仔定女呀,到時話你知啦
你現在個肚大吾大呢.....
不過你始終第二胎吾同我o既.....咁有咩我就可以請教你lu

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