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joeyhui622,

Dr.Tay = 鄭競偉
Tel: 3521 0631
尖沙咀怛生大廈6/f

董醫生係在仁安醫院
Tel:26803176

原文章由 joeyhui622 於 08-11-13 14:44 發表
Hi buu2,

請問dr. tay 是否 = 董醫生?

若不是, 請問dr. tay的tel. no. for booking?

Thanks a lot!

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JJ_Bear ,

好明白你依家的心情,但要振作呀. 我07年都遇到同樣的情況要決定等待or 快速攪定. 我當時選了食藥,但迫唔到出來,後來要(括宮), 因我唔想拖, 等待的時間很難過,是一種(拆磨).

原文章由 JJ_Bear 於 08-11-11 09:47 發表

Hi Kit_yuen :

醫生昨天都係照不到bb心跳, 所以診斷bb應該唔可以健康成長, 要我揀食藥迫佢流出來, 還是等到自然流產, 你話這是一個多麼令人痛心的決定！

最後我選擇後者, 依家唯有再等多2個星期, 希望 ...

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buu2,

Noted and thanks a lot!

joeyhui622

原文章由 buu2 於 08-11-13 17:43 發表
joeyhui622,

Dr.Tay = 鄭競偉
Tel: 3521 0631
尖沙咀怛生大廈6/f

董醫生係在仁安醫院
Tel:26803176

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回覆 #21 JJ_Bear 的文章

JJ_bear,

i understand your feeling. i took the pills at first but still had to had operation. honestly, during the period of waiting. the feeling was realy bad. knowing that something's wrong with the baby but nothing i could do, just waiting for the baby to pass out. it's a very difficult time. it takes time to recover (emotionally). take good care.

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原文章由 kit_yuen 於 08-11-14 22:11 發表
JJ_bear,

i understand your feeling. i took the pills at first but still had to had operation. honestly, during the period of waiting. the feeling was realy bad. knowing that something's wrong with th ...

kit_yuen, buu2:

你們講得好啱, 等待期間的心理壓力真係好大。我依家又無流啡、又無肚痛, 我真擔心bb唔會自然流出, 最後都係要食藥。我想問吓你們, 食完藥會有咩感覺 / 反應呢？

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JJ_bear,

我當時係食3次(or4次,忘記了)藥, 每隔4小時食1次. 食完第1次藥後很快流血(約15分鍾後)但未開始肚痛, 食完2次藥後血量增加及肚痛(象m痛), 食完3次藥後肚痛到不能忍受,暈了.
由於食完所有藥後都迫唔到流出來,醫生話要(括宮). 做手術係唔痛ga因為要全身庥醉.

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JJ_bear,

i took the bill at night, bleeding, but not much. next day morning i took another pill. bleeding at noon, something came out but not painful at all. starting in the evening, i had diarrhea, side effect of the pill. i took another pill at night and the only effect on me was leading to diarrhea. next morning i took another one. i saw the doctor on the 3rd day and he said he could not see the baby but there was so much residual inside. so i still needed to have an operation. i actually felt better after the operation as it put an end to it. could feel sad at times but the period of waiting the baby to pass out was realy difficult. a freind adviced me during the waiting period, you could eat more papaya. you may try if the doctor is certain that the baby would not grow anymore.

the operation was simple, lasted for a very short time. could eat and drink a few hours after the operation.

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kit_yuen, buu2:

多謝你們細心的解釋，聽完你們的反應，心中好恐懼。buu2, 你話痛到暈了, 請問是真暈？定係形容詞呢？如果是真暈，咁咪要屋企人在身邊陪伴在側，一直照顧住先得？！
kit_yuen, 你的反應是肚瀉，同樣地咁辛苦，真是可憐。

不過最慘是，大家痛完之後都係要做刮宮手術。我都知道刮宮手術會較簡單，但係我之前都試過小產，醫生為我做了刮宮手術，好不幸，醫生刮傷我的子宮(聽講只有極少數人才會發生這種情況)，結果，今次醫生建議我不要再刮宮了，否則再刮傷就好影响我將來懷孕。但聽完你們的經驗，原來食藥後要刮宮的機會都好大。
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hi bk sisters

啱啱先見到呢個forum,第一次上來,想問問大家意見:

啱啱搵dr tay做完一次ivf,不成功,感覺dr tay沒有其他sis所說的細心,可能人夾人。我發覺dr tay每次照b超前是沒有先睇上次的記錄的,有前後不對的情況,詳情不說了。現在還有兩個雪胎 (唉都只分裂成兩個cell,較好的今次都流掉了...不用又可惜,用又驚),如果淨係放胎,好吾好試另一位醫生呢?

JJ_Bear我試過在瑪麗做塞藥引流, 都幾肚痛(心又痛...), 是他們的standard程序, 通常可以清的,或者您可以問問醫生塞藥會吾會好d

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JJ_Bear, yes just liked what Lai Wai said, it seemed that the pills worked for most people. i was told that it worked for 80-90% of the patients but my doctor said it worked for 50% of his patients. so i think you may consult your doctor and see what he said.

Lai_wai, i understood what you said. i am doctor Tay's patient too. i think he is so famous now and therefore he has so many patients now. the schedule changes every time when i have to see him. usually have to postpone for another hour. i wonder if it happens to you too. i got some frozen embryo too and i think i will still ask him to do FET for me. i think the procedure of FET is quite standard and so may not make a big difference even if asking another doctor to do it. when will you have FET?

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回覆 #1 kit_yuen 的文章

hello kit_yuen

唉…我見好多bk sisters都話dr tay好, 但今次我對dr tay好失望,

我有時見dr tay都係要postpone一個鐘,不過我想這也不是最重要的, 有D醫生去到也是等好耐...如果work,真係等幾耐都值得,不過...這次看dr tay的經驗真係差左D, 我發覺他好似沒有看清楚我的病歷, 每次照b超前都好似吾係睇左我個記錄先。我有輸卵管積水問題, 有一次他好似直情吾記得左睇呢個問題, 照完後我問, 他竟然話”今次睇吾到有積水”, 但之前之後都有, 講緊只是幾日內既事。另一次照b超, 照完我問, 點解今次左邊少左一粒卵泡, dr tay又輕描淡寫說”嗰粒太細無用”, 嘩點會太細, 上一次明明好清楚見到, 結果抽卵又多番嗰一粒….。仲有, 開始打針, 我個淋巴位腫脹, 我吾知會吾會係吾好的免疫反應, 我打去問姑娘, 姑娘話問醫生, 無回覆。仲有我胸部有好多cyst, 這個醫生應該重視的吧, 因為對針藥的反應可能較大, 個胸好痛, 但我第一次同dr tay講, dr tay只說”cyst無咩問題”就算了, 之後提都無提過….. 昨天我月經來, 我打電話請姑娘告訴醫生, 又係無回覆, 今天我再打去, 姑娘再問醫生, 之後姑娘call我說我下個cycle可以放雪胎了…嘩, 吾駛分析下今次個ivf咩, 例如有無D hormones偏高, 輸卵管積水問題呢 (有積水好難著床架bor, 係咪又係一樣抽走就算, 定有其他方法呢), 最後是我主動約見dr tay先(我想先與dr tay商量下才決定何時放胎), 但仲要排到12月9日, 吾係立即做賽後檢討…. 我估, 如果吾商量, 下個cycle到時dr tay都係見到咩就做咩, 吾會再嘗試下有無其他方法可以增加成功率, 所以我一定要問下其他醫生意見… 不過無論怎樣, 無法改變的結果是三個較好的胚胎今次已經流掉了… 上兩次失敗都有著床, 今次著不了床… 今次我是幾經辛苦才得到老公同意再試ivf的, 結果還是失敗….. 一次機會就這樣泡湯了…

我已分別約了梁醫生及陳醫生, 12月中見, 我約陳醫生時告訴姑娘我的情況, 姑娘一聽就說”有積水梗係要處理左先la”, 可能陳醫生較重視積水的問題。我吾敢單憑一次就武斷說dr tay不是好醫生, 也沒有懷疑dr tay的技術及專業, 但今次的經驗看來真是有點不負責任, 我也有看過其他bk sisters的comment, 可能, 對於某些成功率較低的case (我是高齡人士)dr tay會採取”姑且試試反正機會不大”的策略, 見完dr chan我一定會再post, 好讓其他bk sisters決定醫生前先參考。

今次的ivf感覺是: 我買了一個套餐, 程序已經定下沒得改, 就看我的彩數。我好似係dr tay的”easy money”。

如果以公家qm同dr tay比, 今次dr tay實在沒有優勝很多,公家qm其實是相當不錯的,而且那裏的姑娘好專業, 可以回答很多問題。而且, 放胎後qm會叫patient一星期後回去check hormones, 而吾係回家塞葯就算。

不過, 可能kit_yuen您的情況不同我, 可能dr tay還是可以應付的, 您諗住何時放胎?(FET係咪就係放雪胎?)。希望下次大家都能成功, 這個”嘗試-失敗, 嘗試-成敗”的過程真磨人…. 如果我今次放雪胎不成功, 迫於無奈都可能要放棄了。

[ 本文章最後由 lai_wai 於 08-11-23 01:03 編輯 ]

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Lai Wai,

i just know the nurse seems quite busy at doctor Tay's clinic. i think the reason whyou feel so different from what you expected is that doctor Tay has got more patients now. one time i was waiting for a long time while i heard a couple chatting with him loudly and laughing loudly too. to a certain extent, if you keep asking, he will explain things to you and always keep a smile on his face. i saw another doctor before. he was very famous and professional and sometimes i felt i asked stupid questions and he would not want to answer me. i think the most important thing is that the doctor knows what he is doing.

hopefully maybe next Jan. or Feb. will have FET (yes frozen embryo transfer). so you had IVF at QM first? if you still get some frozen embryo, at least they are of grade 2- or grade 2, right? so they are not of poor quality.

i read some BK sisters here that they have complicated situation and doctor tay is very patient to them. i am not saying anything to defend him. i completely understand how you feel when you feel that the doctor doesnt care about your case.

so are you doing to see doctor Chan? or will have FET by doctor Tay?

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lai_wai,

Sorry to hear your case and hope you can get an second opinion from other doctors and have proper and successful medication and result this time.

To be frank, i agree with you that Dr tay and his nurses gave me not really good feeling after my first consultation. Dr tay was sometimes rather authoritative in spite of his expertise. As a patient, we would like to know more what our body tells and for what reason it is. However, I couldn't see any detailed explanation of my situation with patience during his consultation last time. And, he even didn't explain to me the whole procedure for doing my first iui at his clinic. Hence, I had to call to his clinic again and again to ask after that. However, one of his nurses was quite nervous and told me wrong procedure...and so I called again, another nurse said another thing but with rude atitude.

I believe Dr tay is a professional doctor but I think as he is too busy right now, we can't expect very attentive consultation each time. What we could do is, persist to ask, for our own sake. And also, if you have hestitation, consult other doctor for second opinion should not be wrong.

Anyway, infertility is a long and tough road....i hope all sisters can have their bb very very soon...

原文章由 lai_wai 於 08-11-23 00:33 發表
hello kit_yuen

唉…我見好多bk sisters都話dr tay好, 但今次我對dr tay好失望,

我有時見dr tay都係要postpone一個鐘,不過我想這也不是最重要的, 有D醫生去到也是等好耐...如果work,真係等幾耐都值得,不過...這次 ...

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原文章由 rw 於 08-11-7 19:00 發表
lalamike,

我只係過 Dr Tay, 我覺得 Dr Tay 好知道乜野係需要做, 乜野唔洗浪廢時間 or $ 去做. 如果Dr tay 認為個client 需要做 iui or ivf and should not waste time, 佢會好緊張,會不停同你講唔好浪廢時間!
...

無錯,DR TAY 第一次見我就話唔好浪費錢同時間
只有做IVF 叫我下CYCLE 見佢,因我超高齡

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回覆 #2 kit_yuen 的文章

hi kit_yuen

我明白可能真係人夾人,可能係我自己當黑,見任何醫生都會係咁 (吾係晦氣話,師父講的:(,我都就黎變神婆了...),我未必一定吾搵dr tay,但係一定要傾左先...我今次係響抽蛋當日抽埋積水,但fet無左呢個程序,咁點抽呢,dr tay都係無特別睇我個file架啦...唯有我問佢。由於我有這個問題,所以一定要問問其他醫生的意見。kit_yuen您講既專業但無耐性的醫生是否dr leung?(我見好多人都咁講)講少少題外話,我睇qm前睇過他一次,打針自己試,吾得,要做ivf,但我話差不多係時候睇qm,如果吾成功再番黎睇得吾得,佢話"我哋係幫您既,您睇左qm先啦,有需要隨時返黎睇lor",之後仲搭住我膊頭送我出門口.... 有時都幾奇怪, 可能真係睇您好吾好彩...同一個醫生,都會有好同無咁好既時候,可能我就撞啱無咁好既時候啦,不過我講左出黎之後己經心平氣和,可以理性的繼續作戰!我都祝您快d成功!good luck! good luck!

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回覆 #3 lalamike 的文章

hello lalamike

我依家個策略都會係捉住dr tay問,真係諗吾通就問另一位醫生... 不過lalamike您啱啱開始左iui就要放鬆心情,保持心情靚靚,我既經驗可能係只係個別例外,您會成功的!

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Hi lai_wai,

First of all, in my opinion, Dr Tay is a good, caring and patient doctor.

However, to some extent, I agree with you. I aslo have the feeling that Dr tay is too busy to have a look on my previous history. Since I have received an operation to take the chocolate cyst last month and need to take injection afterwards. During the follow-up consultation, to my surprised that he asked me how many times I was administered the injection, I think if he had read the previous record, he should know lor.

After the operation, Dr Tay said there was high probability that I could conceive naturally. However, during this follow-up consultation, he said it was hard for me to conceive naturally. How come? since I have taken the injection, my case would not be worse.

It really makes me down and I have been crying for that for a whole day.

My family comforts me that Dr Tay needs to see lots of patients and maybe forgot what he said previously and ask me dont take it seriously.

I just want a baby but it seems so hard. It is a tough journey, especially for a vulnerable person like me. Honestly speaking, I am pessimistic and always think negatively. I wanna give up but I could not since I really want to have my own baby.

Anyway, hope we all could have a baby soon and end this torturing journey.

原文章由 lai_wai 於 08-11-21 11:55 發表
hi bk sisters

啱啱先見到呢個forum,第一次上來,想問問大家意見:

啱啱搵dr tay做完一次ivf,不成功,感覺dr tay沒有其他sis所說的細心,可能人夾人。我發覺dr tay每次照b超前是沒有先睇上次的記錄的,有前後不對的情況 ...

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發表於 08-11-26 09:48 |只看該作者

lai_wai,

唔該晒，我做咗iui了，現在是等候bingo中，希望大家都順順利利，很快bingo！

原文章由 lai_wai 於 08-11-24 11:15 發表
hello lalamike

我依家個策略都會係捉住dr tay問,真係諗吾通就問另一位醫生... 不過lalamike您啱啱開始左iui就要放鬆心情,保持心情靚靚,我既經驗可能係只係個別例外,您會成功的! ...

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